I’m glad to see this discussion starting gathering attention. In general, I think we should start looking more and more at car sharing over car owning: nobody needs an SUV every day, but you might enjoy a longer trip driving one. So short term rental should be incentivized to decrease the overall number of cars on the road and parking lots.
My little piece of advice: you don’t have to think about the future, tomorrow, next week, they are all far off. Think about now, this hour, the next 5 minutes, or whatever stretch of time seems manageable. What do you do now? Cook dinner? Watch a show? Cry in the shower? The future might be scary and too much to manage now. You’ll handle it when you get to it. Now, you only have to think about right now.
Verbena tea is calming and soothing. Lavender is relaxing. Green tea for me is a calming ritual.
You got this. Maybe it doesn’t feel like it, but you only need to do one step, and you got that one step.
“Successful record attempts have employed a variety of tactics for evading traffic law enforcement.”
All GRR Martin. The writing is so dry I couldn’t get into it. Super word usage was just weird, like his insistence on “breaking the fast”, but most of it is still modern English, so this word choices stand out as sore thumbs.
After a while, it seemed to me that the white point of the books was to show how many plot twists the author could string one after the other. Still read the first four books, hoping it would get better.
You talk as if benefiting the ruling class was an unwanted consequence of these laws. It’s not. The markets need to be free for the rich to benefit but restricted for the rich to benefit. And maybe some crumbs will fall of the table and the poors will think that the rich are so generous.
You can’t skim an audio file, you have to listen from the beginning to the end. Audio makes symbols that are often used in programming difficult to parse or confusing. I… really dislike this
There is no such thing as a non-political discussion either! ;) everything is politics in some sense
Since I switched from reddit to lemmy, I have definitely felt safer and encountered less hostility towards women. I still have noticed some misogynistic traits, but mostly “only” belittling of women’s perspective more than anything else. Admittedly, that can be considered booth an improvement or a first step towards worse behaviors, but for now I’ll take it positively.
I have a wild theory as to why. I think the federated structure of lemmy is conducive to reducing bigotry and haters, in particular if compared to reddit and other centralized websites.
This is based on the fact that a centralized website is thought of and built in a specific context (Silicon valley: the white male nerdy america). This kickstart it already within a given, immutable background that then seeps through, reproducing online the same patterns and problems already present irl, in particular the underrepresentation of women.
On the other hand, the federated structure forces the user to confront themselves with a space that is by construction way more varied and multicultural. This automatically incentivize empathy and constructive discussions, on top of being particularly catered towards open-minded individuals that thrive in diversity.
This being said “better” doesn’t mean “perfect”, but I like some suggestions here. In particular, the one encouraging posters to use gender neutral language mainly using “they” as the default pronoun.
Sure, but that’s not what consumerism has been preaching, and not how elections are won. If you are interested in an ethical discussion, I fully agree with you. If you are interested in discussing how the world runs, you and I are outliers.
I think the cultural aspect is also very important. I Europe, having used drugs a couple of times is viewed as completely fine, as long as you are not currently addicted to them. Add to that the lack of a social net in US and you have the perfect storm.
I’m still rattled by videos of the homeless camps in US. Those people have no way out. Drugs at least provide an escape.
But it is fixable!
The goal is to allow people to vote without having to use their (few to none) holiday days