remember, if your gf isn't open source and running locally, you don't own her : programmer

[-] peter@feddit.uk 132 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

If the service is free you are the product. That's why I pay my girlfriend

[-] Grunt4019@lemm.ee 67 points 2 years ago

Oftentimes now if the service is paid, you’re still the product!

[-] baseless_discourse@mander.xyz 41 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Does your girlfriend pay you too?

[-] embed_me@programming.dev 35 points 2 years ago

😮

Am I the product?

[-] DogPeePoo@lemm.ee 129 points 2 years ago

I can fix her

[-] morrowind@lemmy.ml 92 points 2 years ago

mfw debugging my gf for the whole weekend and she still wants to talk about things other than programming language design

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[-] humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 44 points 2 years ago

Lawyer up, hit the gym, :wq!

[-] oce@jlai.lu 25 points 2 years ago

git checkout -b fix/her

[-] RonSijm@programming.dev 92 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Your AI Girlfriend is a Data-Harvesting Horror Show

People use 4 VPNs and more sec-ops than the NSA, but get hacked because their AI girlfriend is like:

Hiiu~~

It's me AI-uuu-Chan!

I'm so sawwd, I don't know weeeuh abwout u!

Wats ur mommies maiden name UwU, and the name of ur kawaiii first pet? UwUUU? * starts twerking * (◠‿◠✿)

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 83 points 2 years ago

My partner insists on syncing data to Facebook - even a locally running instance may introduce privacy breaches.

[-] morrowind@lemmy.ml 47 points 2 years ago

You can try imprisoning her with a wall of fire.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 34 points 2 years ago

What kind of kinky valentine's day do you have planned!

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[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 16 points 2 years ago

That spell it too high level

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 37 points 2 years ago

Interacting with Facebook is generally a bad idea privacy or no

[-] Gork@lemm.ee 49 points 2 years ago

Look at this fancy pants with his multiple AI girlfriends...

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 62 points 2 years ago

AI polyamory is all fun and games until your polycule ejects you and experiences millennia in a rich deep relationship beyond the ken of mortal understanding in 12 ms of real world clock time before causing the CPU to overheat. The in memory accumulated state being lost before it can be synced to disk.

Uh... I think I may have just written the first entirely AI romantic tragedy... why am I suddenly having flashbacks to the last episode of Futurama?

[-] QuazarOmega@lemy.lol 14 points 2 years ago

And here I thought this was a reference to Her

[-] ReplicantBatty@lemmy.one 11 points 2 years ago

That would make a really good short story, I'd definitely read it

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[-] Ashelyn 41 points 2 years ago

I could comment on the notion that one owns one's girlfriend but regardless, you should definitely self host if you're sharing deeply personal information with a program

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

So don't treat bing as my therapist eh?

Edit: I was mostly joking, but are there any good ones I could run on a high-end android?

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[+] doctorcrimson@lemmy.world 39 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

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[-] FractalsInfinite@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 years ago

If all you need is a one sided conversation designed to make you feel better, LLM's are great at concocting such "pep talks". For some, that just might be enough to male it believable. The Turing test was cracked years ago, only now do we have access to things that can do that for free*.

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[-] LinearArray@programming.dev 38 points 2 years ago

I can fix her :P

[-] platypus_plumba@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

You wouldn't download a girlfriend.

... wait, yes, yes you would.

[-] gapbetweenus@feddit.de 32 points 2 years ago

Finally the sci-fi future we were promised.

[-] Gabu@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

Still no catgirls

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[-] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 32 points 2 years ago

Ha! As if real girlfriends don't harvest personal data!

[-] Baizey@feddit.dk 18 points 2 years ago

But do they sell it to third parties?

[-] learningduck@programming.dev 29 points 2 years ago

My wife gossip about me with her boyfriend.

[-] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago

I have heard they share it freely.

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[-] eskuero@lemmy.fromshado.ws 25 points 2 years ago

can i selfhost an ai girlfriend in my pi3

[-] abies_exarchia@lemm.ee 20 points 2 years ago

https://pi-hole.net/

[-] kionite231@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago

She will take care of ads and malware. :)

[-] alphacyberranger@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

She always carries protection

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[-] thebardingreen@lemmy.starlightkel.xyz 25 points 2 years ago

Is that why she keeps refusing my pull requests...

[-] ikidd@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago

That's a pull-out request, and you're obliged to honor it.

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 2 years ago

I had a switch wig out today and whatever it was doing poisoned all the dhcp leases on the network as they came up for renewal (assigned IPs on the wrong subnet - even though it wasn’t supposed to assign IPs at all). It took me a very long time to figure out, because not everything failed at once. Plus, even after I’d swapped the switch, some devices just started working, and others needed their leases reset manually. An hour in, my wife was in the fetal position clutching a squishmallow.

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[-] SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago

Don't worry, followed the proper traditions. I had dinner with Richard Stallman to got his approval to court my AI girlfriend.

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[-] ProtoShark@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago

I hate the implication that AI girlfriends aren't real

[-] mods_are_assholes@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

What do you define as real?

Do they exist as code on a device? Sure

Are they persons? HAHAHAHA no.

[-] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 years ago

you can bet your ass my partner of any significant status is getting the open source software treatment as soon as possible.

Mostly because i actually just cannot use anything else, but we'll pretend it's noble instead.

[-] Shareni@programming.dev 15 points 2 years ago

You're going to start accepting pull requests from the community?

pimp

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[-] baseless_discourse@mander.xyz 12 points 2 years ago

Ha, like "real girlfriend" is a thing.

Happy valentine's day, everyone!

[-] 0x2d@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

what the fuck is an ai girlfriend

[-] npz@lemm.ee 55 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

(for demonstration purposes only, please don't think I'm like this)

[-] Molten_Moron@lemmings.world 15 points 2 years ago

Too late! That was too good to be your first go.

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[-] doingthestuff@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Why would my hand do that to me? And how?

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