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submitted 8 months ago by cowboycrustation to c/trans
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[-] good_girl 10 points 8 months ago

"Those feelings of longing you get when you see pretty girls isn't loneliness or sexual attraction, it's dysphoria and gender envy you dumb bitch! You're trans!!!!!"

[-] miss_brainfarts 7 points 8 months ago

„So this one thought that manages to come up every now and then when you're not blasting your brain with five different types of media at once? That innocent curiosity about how life would be?
Yeah, like... Actually explore that thought and don't dismiss it, will ya?“

[-] BabyVi 7 points 8 months ago

Your mom doesn't know shit despite being gender non-conforming and meaning well. You're not gonna grow out of wanting a fem body. HRT is worthwhile even if you already went through puberty. Leave your home state ASAP. Fascism will have a resurgence, watch out for these folk. Never ever buy a HP product, you will regret it for the rest of your days.

[-] cowboycrustation 8 points 8 months ago

LMAFO to HP products. Your younger self would have been spared a lot of headaches.

[-] zea_64 5 points 8 months ago

"You're different, stop trying to fit your experiences into the expected mold. Also, trans people exist (I didn't know at the time) hint hint. Oh, and here are tonight's lottery numbers."

[-] Franzia 5 points 8 months ago

I'd tell her that her parents dont really have her best interests at heart, and that getting away from them is gonna be necessary to come out, be a woman, and enjoy life.

[-] Lumelore 3 points 8 months ago

I would tell them I love them and give them a big hug. I might explain things to them, but maybe not.

[-] hazeebabee@slrpnk.net 3 points 8 months ago

Those who mind dont matter, theres a whole community out there waiting for you to just be you 💜

[-] janet_catcus 2 points 8 months ago

your mother didnt tell you anything to keep you sane and safe. she didnt know better, just like any parent in such a situation is a complete idiot.

adults say they know better but they usually only know better than 2yo-you. otherwise adults know shit.

regarding your father, you will have to listen to weezers "forgive your foolish father" for the rest of your life sobbingly arguing with the singer, or you can talk to him and tell him what you think. it's ok, they're not going to hate you. they never have. quite the contrary actually, but they still, just like you never really picked up on how to properly parent. show your kids love, as you would have wished your parents had done

[-] arizz 1 points 8 months ago
  1. Stop listening to that bitchy creationist teacher, she wants nothing but to brainwash you.
  2. Stop praying to wake up a girl, Jesus won't save you.
  3. DO NOT TAKE THAT FAKE HERBAL SHIT ON AMAZON INSTEAD OF HRT, IT DOES NOTHING EXCEPT MAKE YOU DEPRESSED!
this post was submitted on 04 Feb 2024
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