Congrats!!!!
my tired and only very recently awake ass thought you gave birth to a girl and i was like hey yea congrats
and then i read the sub it was in
took a full ten sec
then i realised
congrats girl!!
I did think maybe I should post to trans joy but I saw a 196 post and the rule forced my hand 😔
Crosspost! If this isn't also trans joy, I'll eat my hat.
Why not just post it again? There's enough joy in this moment to share :3
Fuck yeah! I had surgery about two years ago now so if you have questions or just want to talk about anything you're welcome to reach out :3
i'm also curious about this as i might get the surgeri soon - what should i prepare for? how should i do the pelvic stretches and how much is the recovery time?
i'm intending for a full vaginoplasty, ideally one that's self-lubricating and would have a similar microbiome + have good vasculature (all of those would help in getting a uterus transplant), but yeah.
I got peritoneal pull-through which is self lubricating kinda. It's not in response to anything and it isn't lubey-lubey but it does keep me more or less self cleaning and I think helps with biome stuff. Recovery I was back on my feet pretty quickly, like attempting walking after only a day and going on slow paced mile walks in under a month. This post and the linked previous posts will tell you a lot about what I was going through: https://lemmy.zip/post/39222527
:3
Congrats!!!!!
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