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As a further elaboration: growing up, I absolutely hated pasta salad. I could not and would not eat it. But one day, when I was about 22-23, I was working somewhere that includes meals, since shifts were literally all day for a week (save eight hours for sleeping). The cook made a pasta salad that I could only describe as "orgasmic." I ate that same pasta salad for every meal for the next two days until they finally tossed the leftovers. Ever since then, I have been "converted" to enjoy pasta salad. That one dish completely changed how my body reacts to a food that I already tried several times.

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[-] 0xKesh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 25 minutes ago

Oysters did this for me. Hated them growing up, even into my early adult years I still hated Oysters. The texture and taste just did not agree with me.

Then one Friday I had to go away for work for the weekend, I went to the local pub where I was staying for dinner, and the chef came out with like 6 Oysters for free, I tried one, then demolished the other 5, ended up ordering a dozen and demolished those. Been hooked on Oysters ever since

[-] Sybilvane@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 hours ago

Hated bananas as a child, the smell alone would make me gag.

Puberty hit hard though, and periods do weird things to a person. I woke up in the middle of the night one night NEEDING to eat a banana. I ate all the ones we had at home (about 4-5). When my mom woke up I asked to go grocery shopping to buy more.

I've had a completely regular relationship with bananas ever since.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago

Any "salad" that wasn't some type of leafy green and dressing. Pasta, macaroni, tuna, potato, and I think coleslaw caught some strays causes of the cream adjacent association.

I found out it was raw green peppers and celery I don't like. But taste change. After I got into cooking and learned what mirapoux was, it was over. I still prefer an acid based slaw as opposed to cream, and I still don't really fuck with raw green peppers (I would never complain about them if I got them, I don't even think I would ask for them to be removed, I just would probably cook them if I was at home first).

[-] sunsofold@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 hours ago

Tastes change over time so I've never thought of it as a conversion. I used to think fish was disgusting. Then I aged and started liking it. I used to think asparagus was gross. Then I aged and started liking it. You probably 'liked' pasta salad for a while (as in you would have enjoyed eating it) before you had reason enough to try it again.

[-] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 10 points 11 hours ago

It was the fourth of fifth date with my girlfriend. She was an avid cook and wanted to cook me dinner.. Specifically lasagna.

I arrived at her apartment with her in full swing preparing it... The only problem was all the pasta was green, it was a vegetarian lasagna (she's not vegetarian). Asparagus and other vegetables rounded it out. It looked really unappetizing.

Here's the problem. By this time I was REALLY into this girl and here she was spending a lot of effort making me something that I really didn't think I could eat. I was afraid this was going to end our relationship.

So I spent the whole time watching her make this dish telling myself... "Ok Canopy, you're a 34 year old man and not a child. You can pretend to enjoy it this once. It won't kill you."

Over and over that was going through my mind.

We sit down at the table and she told me to serve myself and I dished out as much as I thought polite...

Then I took a bite.

I ended up eating two servings worth it was so damn good.

OH, and she and I have been married for 20 years now and have two boys. Also, food became one of the cornerstones of our relationship. She took me from being a Midwest redneck meat and potatoes child, to a full blown foodie that actually has a wider palate that her.

She also taught me how to cook and it turned out I am really good at it. I made us salmon cakes with an aioli, with mashed potatoes (that I just threw together without a recipe), and roasted broccoli.

[-] laranis@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 minutes ago

I'm smiling ear to ear over here. Lovely story.

[-] olafurp@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

I used to only eat mild moldy cheese if at all then at 16 my girlfriend of the time got ugly ass blue cheese and said "just put jam on it" I tried it and it's was so good. I've liked moldy cheese ever since, extra moldy/strong cheese are all good. There's always a ratio of jam to cheese that tastes good, that ratio also keeps going down towards zero.

[-] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

I never liked steak. Growing up, my parents tended to overcook everything (not sure if deliberate, my dad always ordered his steak well done at restaurants), which made eating steak or pork chops an annoyingly chewy experience all for the reward of dry, bland meat.

Just a few months ago, I bought a striploin cut and decided to keep it simple and just die a fry/bake and got lucky and cooked it perfectly (I say got lucky because I had screwed up my plan but caught it at the perfect time and the next few attempts weren't nearly as good because I didn't screw up the flawed plan and inadvertently stop cooking it when it happened to be perfect). And now I get why some people are obsessed with steaks.

I still prefer burgers and generally meats that aren't beef if I'm having meat, but every now and then I'll try a steak. Though I got a mixer and grinder, so there's a decent chance that the nice cut will get turned into a nice burger or meatballs, now that I have easy access to ground meat that isn't just from scraps or cheap cuts and don't have to hand mix it.

[-] Godric@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

Recently, oysters and Indian food!

Always thought oysters were saltboogers, then a seafood bar opened down the street and the owners insisted I try a few on the house when I was drinking one evening. It was perfection of salt and sea. Now one of my favorite drunk foods!

Also, I've been hesitant of Indian food since I sampled the "cooking" of an Indian roommate a buddy used to have. Last year, a buddy brought me to an Indian place for my birthday after a night out, and we split a tikka masala. I've been back a dozen times since, and might have some Indian food for lunch soon.

[-] mrnarwall@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

I was a picky eater as a child. There are tons of foods I didn't like and would not eat. As an adult I've been challenging myself to try these foods again. The most dramatic difference in what I tasted versus what I expected was just fresh cut strawberries. I was at a wedding and they had a fruit display. I tried one, and then I got more. It turns out that a lot of the foods I didn't like as a kid were either not the right temperature or bad quality.

[-] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago

I don’t know if this fits but orange juice. I always disliked it even though I thought it smelled great and everyone else loves it, plus I like oranges. Every year or two I would try orange juice again hoping to like it, I really wanted to like it!! After three decades of trying to like orange juice I tried some from a brand I don’t usually buy for my family and it happened! It was so good! I drank like three glasses and got a bad acid stomach ache lol but I’ve liked it ever since, it still hurts my stomach if I drink too much though

[-] SacralPlexus@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I can definitely understand this. There are so many different brands of orange juice that taste wildly different from each other. I’m pretty picky and over time I’ve learned which brands I like and don’t like, but I can completely see how you had that experience.

[-] arctanthrope@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago

one time a popsicle turned me bi

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[-] blady_blah@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago

For me it was fish. When I grew up we didn't eat out often and when we did I never had fish. The fish my mom cooked at home was few and far between and it wasn't very good in my opinion.

Up through college I would have said I didn't like fish, but when I started working I went out some work dinners where the company was paying for it at upscale restaurants. The first few times I ordered steak, but I got old so I decided to try the fish dish. I still remember it, 30 years later, that I had a fish with nuts on top that was just awesome. After that when I went into fancier restaurants I tried to find a fish as good as that. And the fish weren't good, but some of the fish were awesome, and I really found I liked fish if it was prepared right.

[-] FrickAndMortar@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Kenya AA…

I always drank coffee just for the caffeine, but I wanted to cut down on the cream and sugar. So when I’d order the brew of the day, whatever it was, I started taking a sip before drowning it in other flavors.

Buuuut, then I’d go ahead and dump some stuff in it, because I still didn’t like the taste. Until one day, I got a cup and took a sip… and another sip… and decided that THIS cup didn’t need a bunch of stuff in it.

Now I pretty much never add stuff to my coffee( I’ve learned what origins and roasts I like, so I can stay away from coffee I don’t like - and if it’s nasty, it still gets the cream and sugar treatment…

Because life’s too short to drink nasty coffee.

[-] ClobberBobble48@lemmy.zip 41 points 1 day ago

In 2016 I was traveling around New Zealand and had an amazing mushroom and cheese toastie. It was so good that I remember thinking, as I drove away, that I'd be happy to eat that toastie over a lot of foods I normally enjoy.

Around a year later I decided to stop eating meat. I begun by allowing myself to eat fish and over a month or so gave up that as well. While not directly related, that mushroom toastie planted a seed in my brain that being a vegetarian didn't mean eating salad every day.

I don't know if or when I would have become a vegetarian anyway, but that toasted sandwich certainly helped me decide when I was ready.

[-] cdzero@lemmy.ml 3 points 16 hours ago

Mushroom and cheese toastie... I'd never thought about that but might give it a go.

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[-] dreksob@feddit.online 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I had a similar experience with steak.

For the longest time growing up, I just wouldn't eat steak, id eat meat, bacon was fine, chicken was fine, but steak made me wanna throw up. My parents would keep throwing all these sauces on it, and none of them worked. Eventually, at my dads best friends 50th birthday, and he had a really nice roast, I tried it (with no sauce), and suddenly I got it. Ate steak all the time after that.

[-] starlinguk@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago

My mother's steak was like chewing gum. You couldn't swallow it.

[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 8 points 22 hours ago

I'm not sure I have ever had a time a food at all.

[-] Okokimup@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

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[-] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago

The first time I had a Hefeweisen was the first time I genuinely enjoyed drinking a beer. Since then I've been much more receptive to other types of beer but wheat beers will always be my preference.

[-] proudblond@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

My husband once joked that I like to drink my bread. It is so hard to find a good Hefe where I am. I’m tired of the IPA trend.

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

Same here! I always felt like the odd one out for not liking any beer. One day I was at a friend's house and they had a random assortment in their fridge and I saw one with a really cool label and it claimed to be from "the world's oldest brewery" which sounded promising.

It was Weihenstephaner Hefe Weißbier, which was of course the easiest thing in the world for me to remember and to request at the time 😆

After that, a local brewpub restaurant had a wheat beer with a hint of raspberry flavor that I liked, and eventually I learned to drink most any beer, but I still love a Weihenstephaner when I come across it.

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[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I've had a few of their other varieties as well and all have been good too!

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 13 points 1 day ago

Ajitsuke tamago ("ramen eggs"). I hate eggs. Always have. But it turns out that I love eggs when they are soft boiled or poached and overwhelmed by savory marinade/sauce. Still don't really like the whites.

[-] thisisbutaname@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 18 hours ago

Still don't really like the whites.

As most countries with a colonial past do

[-] Obituarykidney@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

My mum made the grossest fish. Idk what she did to it or what type of fish it was but it stank up the whole house, tasted worse, and was dry as fuck. I avoided all fish for years, still don't really like fish and chips as an Aussie.

Went fine dining once and one of the courses was a piece of fish with toasted quinoa and Geraldton wax. It was one of my favourite dishes of the fourteen courses. Absolutely delicious. Then I went to Scotland and tried Cullen skink and ended up having that multiple times throughout my trip.

I've realised I just hate bad fish, and that mum wasn't as good a cook everyone said she was -and everyone saying that is even worse.

[-] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

I recently came around on non-seafood sushi (sweet potato tempura rolls). I eat seafood once a year in good faith — all types, over the years — and it’s always a hard no, and I had just lumped sushi into that category. But I honestly didn’t know there were veggie sushi options until this past year, so I gave it a try and loved it.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 11 points 1 day ago

"Sushi" technically just refers to the vinegared rice. There are a number of non-seafood sushi options. Cucumber, pickled gourd (kampyo), egg, avocado....

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

I'm similarly not a fan of seafood, and I've given it plenty of fair shakes, and will continue to do so, I'm not a picky eater by any stretch of the imagination and I want to like it, especially since I love fishing

But I do personally find raw fish to be more palatable than cooked. I wouldn't say it's good, but it's not bad, I wouldn't seek it out but if it's what's available I wouldn't be mad about it.

I also, in general, find freshwater fish to be better than saltwater. At least around me I don't tend to see a whole lot of freshwater fish on menus or in grocery stores, if you're in a similar boat, that might be another avenue for you to investigate the next time you decide to give seafood a chance.

I've also played around making some oddball non-fish sushi since my wife doesn't share in my dislike of fish and is a sushi fiend, so it's a way to scratch her itch for that while also making something I'll eat. Probably my best creation has been a spam, pineapple, and jalapeno roll.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 1 points 1 hour ago

Meanwhile, I like nearly all fish except freshwater fish (trout excluded).

If you make teriyaki Spam and eat that with rice and nori, it's basically spam musubi, which is surprisingly good.

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[-] humanamerican@lemmy.zip 15 points 1 day ago

So many times. Hated asparagus until my aunt made it for me at 16/17 years old. Now I can't get enough.

A Peruvian/Japanese fusion restaurant in DC ended my absolute disdain for mushrooms (specifically shitake) when I was in my mid 30s

I have learned to keep trying things I think I don't like every few years because you never know what meal will change your palette - and maybe your life

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 13 points 1 day ago

When I was a child, we'd often see people walking at the edge of a farm fence adjacent to a country road near us.

I asked my dad what those people were doing. "They're looking for asparagus," he said. Hmph. I knew my dad was just making shit up again, especially with a funny word like asparagus.

Some time later he told me to go up to the fence at the edge of our yard and find some asparagus. Oh, dad, you slay me.

You know what I still see to this day? People walking that same country road, with the same grocery bags. They are foraging for wild asparagus. It's a real thing.

[-] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 6 points 22 hours ago

He should have taken you asparagus foraging to teach you how. It was unreasonable to expect you to know something he didn't teach you.

[-] Triumph@fedia.io 6 points 20 hours ago

My father was many things. A forager was not one.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

To be fair, the way asparagus grows looks like a prank. It's like someone just stuck it in the ground lol

[-] Wolf314159@startrek.website 7 points 1 day ago

If you haven't grown up drinking it, coconut water tastes a bit funky the first time you try it. The first time I tried it, it was kind of funky and I didn't care much for it. The second time I tried coconut water was after hiking several miles in high heat, sunshine, and high humidity, it still tasted a bit funky. It tasted exactly the same actually, but this time, being quite dehydrated and nearing heat exhaustion, it tasted fucking amazing. Now I love that sweet coconut water umami, so much better than Gatorade or any other sports drink.

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[-] BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago

If they live long enough, every person eventually develops a taste for pickles.

[-] mech@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago

I refused to eat lettuce until I was 16, cause it's leaves and I knew how leaves taste.
At some point my mom made me try it and I realized it tastes absolutely awesome due to my mom's salad dressing.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 11 points 21 hours ago

You tried leaves before lettuce... true rural child energy

[-] mech@feddit.org 5 points 21 hours ago

I seriously tried to run away and live in the woods when I was 10, but came back home after an unsuccessful day of hunting.

[-] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 6 points 18 hours ago

I ran away from home to live in the woods when I was five. My mum packed me sandwiches. I didn't get very far because I wasn't allowed to cross the road on my own.

[-] Nytefyre@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago

Avocado. For some reason, for years, I thought they'd taste nasty. Turns out, they're just like meat if it was a fruit and I dig that.

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[-] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago

Going to sound weird but mayo.

I grew up with mustard on my sandwich. I hated foods with mayo in it.

Then, I had that Asian mayo, the Kewpie brand.

[-] Ashtear@piefed.social 3 points 22 hours ago

Yeah, I still don't like it on a lot of things, but okonomiyaki with a proper mayo was transformative for me.

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