Want!
Yeah, it kept getting better for a while for me. I've been on HRT for nearly 2 years and had bottom surgery last October.
There are kind of two levels now for me. One is waves of full-body pleasure that's almost like mini orgasms with bits of limited muscle contraction, but not the intense pulsating contractions that accompany ejaculation. I can have a nearly unlimited number of those mini ones these days.
And then there are the super intense peak orgasms with the pulsating contractions that are more like ”male”/testosterone orgasms, but I can keep one going for over a minute most times, now, especially after bottom surgery.
I did have complications with my bottom surgery that I'm hoping can be at least corrected a little with revision surgery, so it takes much more intense stimulation for me to reach that peak orgasm, so I get too sore for a second one. But as long as I don't overdo it, the little mini orgasms are a ton of fun much soreness and take a very short time to reach with the right stimulation, so much less soreness. They just don't quite give that fully exhausted satisfaction feeling, though.
I also did well suppressing testosterone with just estradiol patches, and never took anti-androgens. But I am switching to injections next month since the patches keep getting less effective and I'm at the max number now and not in target range anymore for either estrogen or testosterone. I think the skin is just irritated by the adhesives once I was forced to move to the cheap generics my insurance covers. And, I can only place them in certain areas of my body so rotation is limited because these generics are big and thick.
Keep your voice down, or they'll all want one!
Wait. I don't see a problem with that. Carry on gasming!
Honestly it became hard to me to have an orgasm but the pleasure is way better. Haven't been able to explore much yet though. But the shaking can happen too (,,>﹏<,,)
It is still quite hard for me to orgasm, but my partner is good enough to make me cum
At least I can have that by myself, when I feel like it. Somehow I've lost interest about stimulating my genitals. I don't know if this is because of dysphoria.
Even before estrogen at some point I would rather have other forms of intimacy / pleasure.
I'm looking forward to multiples if that's in the cards for me, but pre E it was a good 30s. That might just be my partner's doing though.
@cows_are_underrated Cannot really say that I had one of those, but I also cannot really say that I care about having them. I kind of like my relatively low libido right now.
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Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
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[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
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[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
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