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[-] ccunning@lemmy.world 74 points 5 days ago

Most (but not all) duvets and duvet covers have ties/loops to tie the corners (and sometimes the midpoints) off to keep this from happening.

Honestly I never had this issue nor knew about the loops/ties until I graduated from a full/queen cover to a king size one and it became a real problem.

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 76 points 5 days ago

I have been around for 3 and a half decades and I've never had a duvet that's done this in the UK

[-] ccunning@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago

For the first three decades of my life my duvet had the loops but the cover didn’t have the ties. I just thought the loops were something to grab on to while spelunking into the cover to insert the duvet 😂

[-] save_the_humans@leminal.space 13 points 5 days ago

You don't have to go spelunking if you don't want to. Turn the cover inside out, lay the duvet on top, tie off the corners if you have ties, and turn it all back right side over.

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[-] Rothe@piefed.social 9 points 4 days ago

Definitely not most. I have never seen such a thing.

[-] NullPointerException@lemmy.ca 15 points 5 days ago

The ones I have from IKEA, no.

[-] AbsolutelyClawless@piefed.social 11 points 5 days ago

Obviously a different thing, but your comment unlocked a several decades old memory about my mom tying the ends of my duvet to the bed frame, because I would kick it off the bed while asleep. Wow, that memory was pulled from some very dusty and almost forgotten part of my brain, lol.

[-] Lyrl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 days ago

Our comforter is tied to the bed footrest on my husband's side, because otherwise I steal it in my sleep. It keeps marital harmony!

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[-] McGuirk808@lemmy.world 38 points 5 days ago

I'm an uncultured slob that doesn't put my blankets in giant pillowcases. I am happy in my ignorance.

[-] SirHery@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Just so you know. This is unhygienic as fuck if you sleep in the regularly. It's basically how you get bed bugs.

[-] McGuirk808@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

They're called comforters and very common in many places. I rarely see duvets where I live. You just wash them periodically like anything else.

Bed bugs need to be introduced to the home from a source somewhere and a duvet cover won't help if they are.

[-] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 38 points 4 days ago

You get bed bugs by bringing infested items/animals/people into your home, not by sleeping in a bed with no duvet cover

[-] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

Omfg yes. I am under this duvet so that I have a heavy warm blanket over me. Not some shit ass excuse for a fitted sheet.

[-] FryHyde@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 days ago

I'm 41 and I still don't know what a duvet is or why it needs covered.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Come sleep over with me.

[-] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 2 points 3 days ago

Since I'm not a native speaker, I had to Google... It's just a blanket. I put a cover around my blankets regardless of type personally - it's easier to wash the cover than the blanket.

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[-] PennyRoyal@sh.itjust.works 27 points 5 days ago
[-] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 days ago

And also: yes.

[-] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 25 points 5 days ago

It's stuff like this that makes me both relieved and slightly ashamed that I'm in my 30s and still don't know quite what a duvet is.

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[-] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Just use blankets and/or comforters and wash them regularly?

Duvet covers are from olden times when you had to wash your bedding on a rock down by the river.

[-] Mpatch@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

No. Because then I would have to settle for some subpar sleeping materials like synthetics or cottons. Unlike my breathable warm and cool and cozy alpaca and wool.

[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 18 points 5 days ago

You're supposed to tie the corners in

[-] brap@lemmy.world 32 points 5 days ago

I've never owned a single duvet or cover in my life that had this functionality.

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[-] jqubed@lemmy.world 14 points 5 days ago

Not all duvets or covers have those ties. It can be annoying when they’re like that! The burrito or California Roll method works pretty well for keeping the corners in place, though.

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[-] CannedCairn@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

We tie and clip the corners

[-] Rhaedas@fedia.io 12 points 5 days ago

Magnets. Not kidding. They sell strong magnets with a cloth covering so it doesn't have edges, and you just secure the ends with them.

Do you have a link to some like these? 😮

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[-] projektilski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago

I thought I was the only one.

[-] melfie@lemmy.zip 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Duvets are a pain in the ass and both the duvet and cover need to be washed anyway. Why not just stick with comforters with sheets and save yourself the trouble?

[-] Cort@lemmy.world 17 points 5 days ago

At least with down, the duvet cover can be washed more often than the duvet. Plus you can change the color or design without wasting as much material buying a whole new duvet/comforter.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

It's why I abandoned the duvet lifestyle

[-] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah I don't agree with that lifestyle at all.

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[-] Vibi 9 points 5 days ago

I eventually just started using a top sheet + bottom sheet. Easier to wash, no spelunking into the duvet to find the corner ties, and can change out the top sheet if I ever want to change the feel of my bedroom! I was finding that I would put off washing the duvet just due to the effort of dealing with it 😵‍💫

[-] rosco385@lemmy.wtf 5 points 4 days ago

That's what they make these things for:

https://a.aliexpress.com/_msihCGB

[-] auzy1@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

It's the bed cover that pops off the mattress every morning that shits me

Fortunately, got a new bed cover and seems fine now. Best investment ever

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[-] dasrael@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 days ago

Yep...which is why I no longer use duvet covers.

[-] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 5 points 4 days ago

Duvet makes no sense to me.

[-] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

That’s why you tie them in at the corners…

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[-] SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 6 points 5 days ago

I think I could make a fortune going around teaching people how to do their bed, cause I never had huge existential problems like these. It's crazy.

[-] MummifiedClient5000@feddit.dk 7 points 5 days ago

Flip it every few days. It works pretty good once you're over the initial shock of having the feet end near your face.

[-] riot@fedia.io 11 points 5 days ago
[-] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 4 points 4 days ago

I have learned to just accept that and live with it. Works about 60% of the time

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