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[-] SarahValentine 34 points 4 months ago

What recent post? The most recent is 1 week old and has nothing to do with this.

[-] dandelion 73 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

it was made more recently than 1 week ago, but it was removed. The post was asking about how big of a deal "cis-phobia" and "hetero-phobia" are. The OP said they are told all the time that "cis-phobia" is just as big of a deal or a bigger deal than transphobia, etc. so they were asking if this is true.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 51 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

lmao. The hardest form of "cisphobia" you'll find is mild annoyance and the hardest form of transphobia remains INSTANT DEATH by people who hate you so...

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 4 months ago

So it's suffering on both sides. I refuse to quantify suffering. All suffering is bad /s

[-] dandelion 8 points 4 months ago

aLl LiVeS mAtTeR

[-] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 4 months ago

CisHet male. I can't really even imagine Cisphobia harming me. I'm more worried about dying to a blue ringed octopus, and I've never even been to Australia.

[-] dandelion 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

But haven't you seen Zizek's scary non-binary soldier with a "die cis scum" tattoo!? 😱

Though ironically in this video Zizek raises this part of the Communist Manifesto:

The bourgeoisie cannot exist without constantly revolutionizing the instruments of production, and thereby the relations of production, and with them the whole relations of society. Conservation of the old modes of production in unaltered forms, was, on the contrary, the first condition of existence for all earlier industrial classes. Constant revolutionizing of production, uninterrupted disturbance of all social conditions, everlasting uncertainty and agitation, distinguish the bourgeois epoch from all earlier ones. All fixed, fast-frozen relations, with their train of ancient and venerable prejudices and opinions, are swept away; all new-formed ones become antiquated before they can ossify. All that is solid melts into air, all that is holy is profaned, and man is at last compelled to face with sober senses his real conditions of life and his relations with his kind.

Based on this sentence he argues being transgender is not revolutionary but actually the ultimate form of capitalist culture whereby social categories, even the "solid, stable" gender categories, are rendered into something fluid and presumably gender also "melts into air".

He then argues that because Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and Tim Cook "fanatically support transgender toilets" (??), the capitalist class is friendly with the trans rights movements, and so the trans rights movement is not only not revolutionary, it is "typical of late capitalist subjectivity with this infinite plasticity and so on and so on".

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

I'm going to buy me a blue ringed octopus and name it Cissy just to mess with you now.

[editor's note: they are too lazy to actually do that]

[-] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 months ago

this can only mean one thing

we should kill more people for being cis!

[-] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 22 points 4 months ago

This sounds like a version of the "centrist" position that racism is bad, but calling people out for racism is MUCH, MUCH worse!

[-] marcela 12 points 4 months ago

MUCH, MUCH worse

Emphasis placed wisely

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Oh I can tell you people are very sensitive getting called out

[-] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago
[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago
[-] sukhmel@programming.dev 5 points 4 months ago
[-] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 months ago

I didn't get what it was supposed to say until this comment, so thanks!

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

hey my sister was in a comma i thought we went over this

[-] marcela 19 points 4 months ago

Oh dear, I saw that.

And immediately looked away.

they are told all the time that "cis-phobia" is just as big of a deal or a bigger deal than transphobia

This is mind-blowingly stupid. These people did not know the term cis three years ago, not even in the context of organic chemistry, and now it's a bigger problem that transphobia.

[-] Domi 11 points 4 months ago
[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago

That's one hell of a sea lion

[-] Gladaed@feddit.org 2 points 4 months ago

I think I don't get that turn of phrase. Can you explain?

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

It's a reference to this comic that became a slang term for the general category of behavior that it focuses on

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

Oh wow. Like I can't speak to the struggles cis people face for their cisness, I've never been cis. But also I've never seen somewhere that passed a law saying that only men are allowed to have an abortion or that only AMAB people are allowed to have estrogen.

[-] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I suck at dancing, and I am envious of the wonderful accessories women "get" to wear.

On the flip side, I can fit a whole phone in my pocket and I'm stupid strong (for a sedentary desk jockey). So I can't really say that I'm struggling over here.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Cis phobia is when trans people have the audacity to exist

E: Sorry I don't know I'm tacking on to your comment, please carry on

[-] dandelion 3 points 4 months ago

no, I like your comment 🫡

[-] SarahValentine 4 points 4 months ago

Ah okay, thanks for the info!

[-] agentshags@sh.itjust.works 19 points 4 months ago
[-] Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

This idea of getting dominated by yuri ...

[-] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago

Your command is my wish

[-] null@lemmy.org 16 points 4 months ago

SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE FUCKS HUMAN WOMEN

AGREED

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 9 points 4 months ago

Can anyone translate this for me? I don't know what Yuri means.

[-] dandelion 31 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yuri refers to Japanese media (like anime, manga, etc.) focused on same-sex relationships between girls / women

the male equivalent is yaoi

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 16 points 4 months ago

Wow, there's dudes so straight that FF relations offend them? I didn't know.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 15 points 4 months ago
[-] dandelion 7 points 4 months ago

my dad wasn't religious at all (he was a New Age liberal), but he still hated the gays and tr*nnies, etc. - bigotry can easily be rationalized through theology, but it's not really coming from the theology ...

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 5 points 4 months ago

Got any idea why? I read all the stuff you wrote before too.

[-] dandelion 4 points 4 months ago

It's part of the culture. When I was a kid, trans people were portrayed as serial killers (Silence of the Lambs) or villains. Gay people were seen as no different than pedophiles. This was true in the general, "secular" culture as well as in more conservative and religious communities.

Not to deny the connection between homophobia / transphobia and Christianity (it's also probably the root of misogyny and patriarchy, as well), but I just want to emphasize that it can be cultural and not just for religious reasons.

Ultimately I think people find cross-gender and mixed-sex traits as disgusting - it's commonly used in horror films to convey something monstrous and terrifying, for example. If you want to create a jump scare in a movie, you might flash a face that has male features with heavy feminine makeup and hair on the screen, for example.

Probably a lot of this is from socialization and culture, but I suspect given the behavior of primates and other animals, that on some level "sexing" and gendering one another ties to biological processes that might be universal in humans - not that we should think biology determines destiny, there are many human cultures that don't debase or mistreat mixed-sex, cross-gender, etc. people.

You could probably tie a lot of the anti-trans stuff to colonialism and imperialism as well (and that ties back into Christianity, too).

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 points 4 months ago

You did write the first paragraph before.

[-] dandelion 3 points 4 months ago

ah yes - I do remember that, sorry for the redundancy.

Ironically it's still happening:

https://www.them.us/story/ryan-murphy-monster-ed-gein-transgender-killer-horror-trope-crossdressing-myth

Monster: The Ed Gein Story was released in 2025 and played up the same transphobic tropes that Silence of the Lambs indulged (and like Silence of the Lambs they tried to disclaim their transphobia by trying to be clear the character wasn't a "true trans person").

[-] animephantasm 10 points 4 months ago

Yuri is media depicting romantic and/or sexual relationships between women.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 5 points 4 months ago

How much you paying me for this?

[-] dandelion 9 points 4 months ago

whatever your state laws require prisoners be paid, presumably (notice the chain)

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