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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by cows_are_underrated@feddit.org to c/transmemes

Gonna come out to my entire social circle in the village I am originally from. This means coming out to 30 people at once and hope it goes well :3

Update: it went well, did not receive any negative "feedback", but got some compliments on being so brave to do that in this round.

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[-] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 47 points 2 weeks ago

you're using :3 they already know

(but for real good luck :3)

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 27 points 2 weeks ago

Havent used :3 around them. They just saw me with painted nails once or twice.

[-] ItsLucky@pawb.social 30 points 2 weeks ago
[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 23 points 2 weeks ago
[-] ItsLucky@pawb.social 9 points 2 weeks ago

I see what you did there hehe >:3

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago

If it destroys your social circle, you need a new social circle.

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 21 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I will report back how it goes (gonna do that today in the evening). I have to do it since I started HRT now and so I kinda want to avoid for people to realise changes without knowing I'm trans.

Also I dont want to hide who I really am any longer.

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

That's fair. I'm in the ... Enviable?.. position, that I don't have a social circle to come out to. So I'll just take it as it comes.

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago

Yay, congrats! I’m so glad your social circle was supportive. 💕

I just shared your story with my girlfriend (we’re both women, we know what it’s like to “come out.”) She wanted to share that she’s so glad for you, and that she wishes you a beautiful life journey!

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 7 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you (and your girlfriend)

[-] Zorsith 13 points 2 weeks ago

Jokes on you, I don't have a social circle!

sighs and goes back to watching anime

[-] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Congrats!

Edit: thanks for taking the time to update us. It means a lot to see small snippets of good news like this.

[-] maya@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago

Hell yeah, I'm glad that coming out went well for you :3

[-] MissyBee 8 points 2 weeks ago

You won't be living there forever. And friends who accept your queerness are way better.

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Im not there most of the time, so it isnt to bad if that social circle dies, but it would still be sad to lose literally all social contacts when I'm there (and also lose the contact to all this people I've known for years) just because they aren't accepting.

[-] osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org 8 points 2 weeks ago

⬆️➡️⬇️⬇️⬇️

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 5 points 2 weeks ago

OK, what Am I calling in when pressing that combimation?

(I'm assuming its a Helldiver's 2 reference)

[-] thoughtfuldragon 4 points 2 weeks ago

I think that's the 500kg bomb from the eagle

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

Was my first guess, but couldn't look it up

[-] Cass@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago
[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks. I will definitely need that. Will Update once I knew how it went

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 5 points 2 weeks ago

Heh, the Thanksgiving tradition of coming out to your formers. hehehehe.

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Its not thanksgiving (I'm not from the us, so it doesn't even get celebrated here) but instead the general assembly of a club I'm part of.

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

🔥 hope they are welcoming.🤞
I’ve read you will update here several times, no need to repeat yourself:3

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

Post is updated

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 2 weeks ago

I'm pressing thumbs for you!

[-] TechieDamien@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 weeks ago

I'm right behind you! The only people I haven't come out to yet are in the workplace and can't be ditched as easily if things go sour. I'm glad everything worked out well for you!

[-] RymrgandsDaughter 4 points 2 weeks ago

30 people at once? that's... gl

[-] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Best of luck!
I hope everything will go smoothly :3

[-] SCmSTR 3 points 2 weeks ago

we did it, team!

[-] Estiar@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago
[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

I will Update The description once I get the time for it. This will probably be in around 5 hours or so.

[-] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

They know :3

[-] lwhjp@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

Good luck to you. I sincerely hope it goes better than you imagine.

Although I suspect and hope your friends will be accepting. Best wishes!

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago

See the updated description, everything went well

this post was submitted on 22 Nov 2025
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