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[-] dandelion 24 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm not sure I get it, is the point that Grindr is a hookup app, oriented around one-night stands and sex, while Hinge is targeted towards people who are looking for a long term relationship and aren't looking for a hookup?

also, I suspect this might be a weird meme for femcels who generally aren't on dating apps (or having sex, or having relationships, lol), or is that a bad assumption on my part?

[-] kewwwi@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago

how hard would it be to make a lesbian Grindr? Lesbr, SaphiX, RockPaperScissors,

not sure if i suck at branding or am a god.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago

Scisr

[-] LadyMeow 14 points 2 days ago

Lmao, saphix and rock paper is pretty funny lmao

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Wonder how hard is it to make a peer to peer federated non centralised serversless app for that.

be funny if a bi dude makes a successful lesbian app.

[-] dandelion 7 points 2 days ago

isn't Her a thing?

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

given that I've outed myself as a male gay, it's clear I have no idea what lesbians use

[-] dandelion 32 points 2 days ago

[-] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 days ago

People are getting given HRT for free?

Can i get some too?

[-] dandelion 10 points 2 days ago

mandatory for participanting in femcel communities, but we should look into setting up an infrastructure to distribute and ensure compliance ๐Ÿ˜

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

hey didn't your parents warned you of cool people handing out free drugs!!!

it's finally happening ๐ŸŽ‰

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

you think you won the argument?

I just got free pills.

wait is this what my parents warned me about "cool kids giving me free drugs"!!! finally,

[-] dandelion 5 points 2 days ago

I'll wait for you to take them :-)

[-] dandelion 3 points 2 days ago

accurate, lol

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

nah, not that deep. it's just funny to recognise someone there. but yhea, Grindr is pure hookup cruising (mostly). while hinge is more "proper"

[-] dandelion 5 points 2 days ago

so you decided to post a meme about recognizing people on dating apps to a community of involuntarily celibate women? ๐Ÿคญ That's perfect, lol

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If women here were voluntarily celibate, then they wouldn't use dating apps, it's involuntary, which mean they are trying but failing at it.

however, given how almost every post ends up having catgirl orgies, i doubt the femcell name applies.

here, I'll prove it to you:

meaw :3

(wait a few minutes)

[-] Melissa 9 points 2 days ago

Meow :3

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

@dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone it's starting

[-] Zwiebel@feddit.org 4 points 2 days ago

Mrrrrra!

[-] dandelion 2 points 2 days ago

it would be interesting to know how many femcels are on dating apps, but I suspect most of them don't leave their bedroom (let alone go on dates, with actual humans, in the flesh)

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

it's just so uncanny how incels and femcels have opposite vibes. one are angry terrorist the other gay cats

[-] dandelion 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

before the 2020s the online femcel communities I interacted with were glorifying young women who killed men with knives, they had a whole aesthetic based on the look of various young women murders - it's not all gay cats and rainbows ๐Ÿ˜…

see: /r/femcelgrippysockjail

example of one of the most popular posts there:

here's another:

[-] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I really liked this one, so I tried looking up some of the femcel communities on reddit. That one made me a bit uncomfortable tbh. I don't belong there (man, not particularly fem), so that makes sense, but I also really hope that I never have to meet anyone with that kind of mindset.

[-] dandelion 1 points 1 day ago

god forbid girls have fun

[-] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 1 points 20 hours ago

I mean, I hope they're having fun, but I also hope that they don't talk to me lol

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

ok. damn.

this one has such cozy vibes I'm really scared they'll make a rule like womenstuff. i asked them to ban me, don't want to accidentally comment on their stuff and invade their space. that's rude.

I'm cis, but I'll take tittacs to stay here

[-] thoughtfuldragon 8 points 2 days ago

This isn't about gender. It's about femininity and being degenerate in silly ways. A way to blow off steam and find value in ourselves even when we aren't able to live up to other's standards.

If what gets posted here is your jam, then you might be a femcel of some variety. And you're welcome.

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

not only this place is wholesome, and funny, and cute, but also welcoming ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

you all are amazing

[-] dandelion 6 points 2 days ago

yeah, this femcel community is more like a mix of femcel and egg culture, more trans influence than most femcel communities

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

it's just so wholesome and relatable. really appreciate this space.

[-] dandelion 4 points 2 days ago

you might want to read the Gender Dysphoria Bible and take seriously the possibility of being trans - relating to egg and trans memes is one of those early indicators ๐Ÿ˜…

I also used to be someone who just really thought egg memes were relatable ๐Ÿ™ƒ

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) 

although it would be funny if this group transes me so I can get the gif from Freaks (1932) "one of us, one of us" (one of the best movies ever made, if you haven't seen it watch it asap, it's in the public domain, then look at the promotional materials and reviews and get angry.)
[-] dandelion 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

eh, unfortunately if you're trans it's genetic - but the good news, if you're trans, is that transitioning is actually helpful ๐Ÿ˜…

let me know if you have any questions, you can also hit me up on matrix if that's preferred

also, sad the original unabridged Freaks copy was lost, only an abridged version remains ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[-] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

appreciate your advice, take care.

[-] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

You can be on dating apps and not get dates. Either because you're uggy, your standards are too high, or just the fact that dating apps are intentionally bad.

[-] dandelion 1 points 1 day ago

yes, though willingness to leave your room to go on a date seems like an obvious precondition to getting on a dating app, I still think it's unlikely most femcels are on dating apps ๐Ÿ˜„

[-] LwL@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Because of the community, and not knowing what hinge is, I assumed hinge must be a lesbian dating/hookup app and the meme is 2 bi amab people realize theyre so they see the other again on the other app lol

this post was submitted on 07 Nov 2025
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Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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