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[-] DesolateMood@lemmy.zip 159 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I play the weirdest shit

Paradox

Ok normie

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 week ago

Yeah, Paradox games are great!

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[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 155 points 1 week ago

Try being an actual full blooded native person.

I'm 100% Ojibway, my parents on both sides were born raised and lived in the wilderness. I'm the first generation born in a modern hospital. My first language is ojibway, I spoke it exclusively for the first 15 years of my life. We learned English in school but we all spoke ojibway at home. I learned to hunt, trap, fish and live on the land from my parents and I love spending time outdoors. It's all natural to me.

Now I live close to the city in a non native world. My wife is white and we spend most of our time to ourselves.

My family doesn't think I'm native enough. White people don't believe I'm native because I live like a city person. Most people don't believe I'm native because I don't have red weathered skin, a crooked nose and long braided hair. Many people have confused me as Chinese, Korean, or an overweight Thai, Cambodian or Lao. Or even Peruvian, Ecuador or Mexican.

I meet city Indians who have ancestry but have never lived on the land or know their communities or even speak the language yet they wear native stuff, necklaces and everything and get more recognition than me for being native.

I intimidate other natives when I speak my language because it reminds them that they can't speak other than to know a few words or phrases. So now I seldom speak and as I grow older, the people I could speak to are now either dead, dying or too old.

I get funding as a native person but I get very little. I don't live in reserve so I'm the last to get funding. I don't get off reserve funding because I have full status with my community where I could live if I chose to. I get tax off on some things but not everything because I don't live on reserve and doing my taxes every year is a nightmare, so in the end, I pay just about the same amount of taxes as everyone else and save just a little.

I've watched dozens of half breed, quarter breed, 1/8 breed, 1/16 breed natives with scholarships and paid education while I tried to fight for mine and never got it. I got high school but never got more than that.

I even know a couple of blue eyed, blonde Indians who got adopted into a native family and have full status and more help than I ever did.

People keep telling me I'm lucky to be native but I've experienced far too much racism and stupidity to be happy about who I am.

I'm neither treated as full native and I'm also not treated as non native either. It's like I exist in some kind of native twilight zone.

[-] BrundleFly2077@sh.itjust.works 50 points 1 week ago

Huh. TIL all of this. Thanks for typing this out. I did a bit of a rabbit hole on your people over my morning coffee. Was more interesting than the usual crap I read before work 🤣👍🏻

[-] DoGeeseSeeGod 10 points 1 week ago

Damn. Maybe it's just me but your comment reads kinda disrespectful. OP shares their unique vulnerable experience, which relates to the original post. You don't make the slightest effort to connect or respond to them as person or their story. Instead you google their ppl for a fun fact and pay their culture/story the compliment of "More interesting than the usual crap I read before work 🤣👍".

Idk I can't tell if I'm being overly sensitive, cuz no one part of your reply is really bad by itself. But all together, it's hella trivializing imo.

Especially ending on the 🤣👍. Let's say you post something heartfelt like, I'm depressed, I lost my job, I'm dealing with something right now, and someone replies and ends on 🤣👍. Unless there is a really funny joke before those emojis, pretty sure it would read bad.

OP thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry you're stuck between two worlds like this. Have you thought about if you and your wife have kids, would you teach them to speak ojibway or how to live off the land?

[-] Nythos@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

It’s you.

The only person who gets to judge whether the comment is disrespectful is OP, not you.

[-] DoGeeseSeeGod 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"It's you."

When you said that were you saying my comment was disrespectful? If so my friend I have it on good authority that the only person who can judge whether my comment was disrespectful was one of the OPs. Since you are not one of the OPs, I'm afraid, by your own logic, you are in fact the one being disrespectful.

Ultimately, I think I get what you mean. On the otherhand I seem to be judging that comment just fine.

I'm not trying to be a white knight over here or some shit. I got rude/bad vibes from that comment, mind you not hugely bad vibes, truly just enough bad vibes above the line for me to call it out.

If OP says comment was disrespectful I'll apologize, but I'm not gonna stop calling shit rude when I see rude shit.

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago

I would love to learn even half of those things. No one really taught me, I remember going camping with scouts before and another guy was catching shellfish with his bare hands and I was so jealous that he could do it. But in the UK half of its illegal and the other half requires land owner permission which pretty much makes it for the rich only as they own the land. I like the outdoors, but it feels difficult to see and even harder to do so legally. Plus no one I know now has any interest in it so its always a solo activity when I do go out.

And yeah that guy catching shellfish was breaking the law by doing it, its illegal to use anything other than a fishing rod in freshwater and that requires a license and land owner permission too.

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[-] southernbeaver@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

I am also the son of two worlds. From the age of 6, I was always treated differently with one group of people compared to the other.

I didn't get better until I was older, I thought it would in my twenties but it's actually in my thirties that I found people who accept both sides of me but I always feel like it's one side more than the other. It has made me a very withdrawn person.

On top of being autistic, I just would rather not deal with people.

[-] someguy3@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

an overweight Thai

That is oddly specific.

[-] Baggie@lemmy.zip 85 points 1 week ago

This reads like a young man who hasn't learned how to do things for his own enjoyment yet.

[-] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 week ago

Yeah defeatist mentality suggests he's still playing the game.

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 58 points 1 week ago

Definitely needs to get off 4chan. Weird people who don't have this crab in a bucket 'you're not weird enough if you have a stable job and aren't ugly' mentality aren't that hard to find outside of very specific corners of the internet.

[-] Rumo161@feddit.org 51 points 1 week ago

Stop the categorys and just be a Person others can be save around and happy

[-] Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com 51 points 1 week ago

Fake: X4 is not a videogame, it's rehab for crazy german accountants

Gay: weird, therefore queer, therefore gay

[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Fake: X4 is not a videogame, it’s rehab for crazy german accountants

Screw you, I like my singleplayer-spreadsheets-in-space as a nice distraction from playing MMO-spreadsheets-in-space. Also, I'm Dutch, you ass.

[-] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Dutch => Deutsch => German

Same difference

[-] Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago

It'd be nice if they let me keep my jumpdrives though, now I have to do icky things like logistics and having multiple fleets defending multiple gates

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[-] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 46 points 1 week ago

Just become a line cook you’ll be the most normal one there.

[-] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 38 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The former gang member and former meth fiend who taught me to cook can attest to this. (Different people)

I'm sure they'd upvote this if

  1. They were on this gay ass forum
  2. Had enough feeling in their fingers to actually hit the button

But they're busy being people.

because op doesn't want to accept his innate normieness.

Stay there long enough and you’ll fuck hot waitresses and hostesses all day long and you’ll realize they’re all more fucked than you’ll ever be.

[-] Eq0@literature.cafe 45 points 1 week ago

Is this anyone else’s experience? I don’t fit neatly in any box, I have friends in all of them. I have friends in traditional marriages with the woman as the homemaker, I have all sorts of queer friends. I have friends that think videogames are edgy, others playing D&D every second day, others in sword battle reenactment, others in crochet. Never struggled relating to them or them to me. I moved around a lot, still found “my people” in no time. We are all multifaceted people with a variety of interests and thoughts.

[-] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 19 points 1 week ago

Count your blessings

[-] kartoffelsaft@programming.dev 9 points 1 week ago

The part where he talks about video games definitely feels like my experience, at least when it comes to meeting people outside of the context of a specific game and its community.

When I've gotten into convos in these situations, usually it'll be evident they mostly only play some set of the following games:

  • Overwatch
  • Rainbow Six
  • Genshin Impact
  • Stardew Valley
  • Helldivers 2
  • Last of us
  • God of War
  • GTA
  • Red Dead 2

That's not a complete list, but for the most part it will be a bunch of games like that with a sizeable, committed, "normie" following that I don't play. I can't bond with these people over games even though on a surface level we're both "gamers", because the only game we'll have in common is Minecraft.

I think the gap here is that for someone like me or anon, we have interests and want to find people who are also interested in that thing, but from the sounds of your post you're finding people and getting your interests from them. In the latter case, of course there's no trouble connecting with people, because you're more willing to mold yourself to do so.

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[-] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago

I definetly don't fit in but also have friends and a partner i live with (of 10 yrs)

I mostly LARP at it though because I don't fit in. Am 58, m and don't want to fit in :)

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 37 points 1 week ago

This fucking normie playing pardox games? Don't talk to me unless you are at least compiling CDDA from source code on a Linux phone. Fucking casuals.

[-] starchylemming@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago

i know its a joke but this ironically proves his point of not fitting in with both in or out groups

[-] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 34 points 1 week ago

What the FUCK do you do?

Have you tried getting a boyfriend? I dunno, worked for me.

[-] underscores@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 week ago

The masculine urge to get a pet femboy bf

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 5 points 1 week ago

The masculine urge to be the girlfriend.

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[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago
[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I mean i kinda get what anon means but maybe the first step could be getting off of 4chan? That shit melts your brain and you already see it from this normie/wierdo split that isnt really a real thing. Irl you WILL find the people who think like you because were all on a spectrum.

Edit: just to clarify i mean spectrum in the way of personality, not the autism spectrum. Tho id argue that some neurotypical people relate more to autistic people than other neurotypicals but thats a story for another day.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago

I am not like people at my work but I like people at my work.

None of that being different matters if you can just listen and talk to others without needing them to be like you.

I will say on the video games it may be a generational thing, my kids love both indie games and Minecraft/Genshin. Penultimate kid liked Disco Elysium so much. Youngest likes horror, I got them Amnesia and they loved it, said it was too scary to do much at one time.

Anyway, just let other people do what other people do. You can like them, you don't need to change yourself or then

[-] wkk@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Off topic but speaking about generational things I see you opposed indie games to Minecraft/Genshin when I still vividly remember the days when Minecraft was very much indie x)

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[-] don@lemmy.ca 22 points 1 week ago

Get off of 4chan, to start. Keep trying to diversify your friends, find people more open minded than the five you currently have.

[-] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 22 points 1 week ago

Sounds like anon is way over-thinking all of this and just needs to learn to accept themself.

[-] FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 week ago

Maybe anon is just an asshole.

[-] Kenny2999@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

Maybe try sayin "hi" instead of "epic boobs, brah"

[-] Prethoryn@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

Stop viewing the world from this perspective? People ar just different that doesn't mean their aren't certain categorizations that classify as "normal" but self pity or just not finding a therapist to talk to. I know it is cliché to say, "help yourself bro." It isn't fair people hurt every day that need help and it isn't that easy.

But going online to get self justification on being "weird" and not fitting in with "normies" and feeling judged is why you feel out of place because you filter yourself into this, "I am not normal... And normies do not like me and women loath me and I don't understand why."

That and 4-chan is a cesspool "justify me non normies who also feel they are not normal and are justified in their beliefs of being racist and sexist. Help me justify the feeling of feeling that way please."

[-] peacepath@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

May you could try to find people who like the things you like?

thinking your weird and special kinda makes it come true

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[-] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

I have yet to meet anyone that plays FIFA and would pass as "normal".

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[-] RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago
[-] knobpolisher@feddit.nl 6 points 1 week ago

Just get a sex doll

[-] formation@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

Stop being weird i guess 🤷🏼

[-] TootSweet@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Anon has odd ideas what a "normie" is.

[-] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 week ago

Normies and weirdos have odd ideas what a normie or a weirdo is. That's kinda OP's problem. The spaces they think they should feel comfortable in aren't comfortable(enough) with them.

Sounds like they aren't comfortable enough in their own skin, and the people they try to get to know catch onto that quick, to be honest. That, and/or they are allergic to feedback/criticism.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 1 week ago

Did this guy seriously try and claim that he's weird because he plays games produced by one of the largest publishers in the world? Yep definitely can't get out of his own way.

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