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submitted 19 hours ago by dandelion to c/mtf

I've been saying, "I was born without a uterus", which so far seems to answer honestly without directly outing myself as trans.

Any thoughts on how to best navigate this? Ideally without disclosing I'm trans 😅

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[-] LadyAutumn 8 points 6 hours ago

To any cis people wandering in from c/All, please review the rules of this community and consider you may not have the same first hand experiences as trans people.

Cis people are welcome to participate here so long as they're not disrupting the safety of our community. Spreading misinformation and maintaining ignorance is not acceptable here.

In an ideal world being transgender would be of literally no consequence. We do not live in such a world. Being trans is life or death across the vast majority of the world. The disclosure of transgender status is a massive vulnerability that is unwarranted in >90% of medical situations.

This thread was not created with this discussion in mind. If it continues to be derailed I will lock the thread.

[-] neuracnu 14 points 17 hours ago

I don't pass so "never lol" usually works for me.

[-] dandelion 4 points 9 hours ago

lol, if you don't pass they don't ask you the question, silly 😝

[-] neuracnu 9 points 9 hours ago

You'd be shocked, but it does happen sometimes (nurses, through force of habit).

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