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[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Go back to the low paying job that I really liked but couldn't afford.

[-] Grizzlyboy@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Write, read and analyze literature. Hopefully I’ll be able to do it as a job.

I have ADHD and my hobby is collecting hobbies. I don’t typically get bored. I would likely need to do some side gig to supplement buying things for new hobbies.

[-] RangerJosey@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Become a blacksmith. I'd make all sorts of things.

And a welder. And a tool and die man.

I'd work with metal. And at some point I'd make a point to learn glass blowing because it's cool.

[-] major_briggs@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Read, learn, create, and explore.

Gardening, fishing, skiing, hunting, making furniture, building boats, long road trips with the family.

Basically typical retirement shit.

[-] MissJinx@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

do you want a list?! I have adhd and 1.324 different hobbies and projects in different stages of completeness. If I had free time I would get 200 more hobies and start 200 more project without finishing the ones before lol

[-] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Short answer: work less.

Long answer: I actually enjoy my job, and have for a long time. If I had won several million long ago I would have kept my job because it (most of the time) was very fulfilling and important, though it has largely wrecked my body.

Now I can't fly anymore, so while my job is still important and fulfilling, it's not nearly as exciting, and I am constantly crazy busy, so I'd love to cut my hours about in half, probably. I'd still want to work.

Oh, and I'd build a forge in my backyard. So maybe work the same amount, but some of my time crafting things.

[-] DJDarren@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

I would make radio. I do one show a week and I sometimes struggle to find time to even prepare for that, so if time weren't an issue I'd probably end up just doing a load more.

[-] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Continue to work for extra shit probably. Sure basic needs are met, but I don't think basic needs count for computer parts, drones, supplies for home improvements. My life would be easier on bills but would still need funds for projects and hobbies.

[-] DCErik@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

Join a 3rd band, I guess.

[-] brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago

I'd work on cars. And my house. It feels like I'm fighting entropy, I fix one thing and find 2 more problems in the process. But I know some of that is just the previous home owner doing a bunch of diy.

Learn to wood work and build furniture. I have a deep, deep loathing for flat pack furniture.

Garden. I'd love to have a proper garden.

Honestly. I'd just like to be rid of my anxiety over finances.

[-] Almacca@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago

Chill on the couch. Watch Youtube. Go for bike rides. Learn the ukulele and go busking for fun. Do papercraft. I was able to do this for about 5 years, and then I had to go back to work, just as I was really getting my creative juices going.

[-] arararagi@ani.social 6 points 1 day ago

Would finally make my dream game.

[-] anachrohack@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'll tell you what I'd do, man...

[-] wabafee@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Get a proper sleep.

[-] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm into bird watching, so I'd want to travel to see new ones and what have you.

I would want to craft more.

I would read more.

I would take language lessons

I would work on that book idea

I would take classes on anything that interested me.

I would want to have a small farm, I just think it's neat.

[-] GarboDog@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Would study and do arts and use our findings and research to help improve the world in some kind of way, even if its a little.

[-] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

House in the middle of the woods, with internet connection. It's the weird eremite techno wizard life for me.

[-] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Learn shit.

[-] seeigel@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

Without joking, most likely I would watch more Lemmy.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago

Make and restore furniture. Build shit. Garden. Read. Organize and fill out my media library. Learn programming and try to fix some of the problems I'm dealing with on Linux. Probably socialize more because I wouldn't be tired of dealing with people and stressed out from work all the time.

[-] Wahots@pawb.social 6 points 1 day ago

I'd love to go back to school, not for better grades, but purely for learning. There are some interesting af fields out there!

When the weather is good, be outside as much as possible. Do more long-distance, or even multi-day treks. Dick around in the woods more (survival skills for fun, learn more about identifying local plants and fungi, etc). Bring a book and some basic snacks, and hang out in public park space more often (we've got some beautiful spaces here). Basically just a lot more exploration, primarily on foot, bike, or skateboard depending on distance and energy level.

When the weather is crap, spend more time keeping my place in order and looking nice. Listen to music, read books, maybe try and get more deliberate about a writing habit. Pick a public indoor space of some kind and become a regular. Maybe volunteer.

Spend more time working on good habits to keep the energy level up for the above long term.

[-] DamienGramatacus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Volunteer at a rescue centre to help the dogs and other animals

[-] JTskulk@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago
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[-] mrodri89@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

I wish I could be a perpetual student attending college. And open a business that im passionate about.

[-] Delphia@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

If I were rich Id open a "Nerd-pub" board games, tabletop games, arcade machines, pool tables, pinball machines...

If I were just "doing ok" id probably start a youtube channel buying really cheap cars of FB marketplace and just reviewing how much of a piece of shit I've bought this month.

[-] dustyData@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago
[-] Delphia@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Heh, I do now. Dudes pretty entertaining.

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Exercise, drink wine, read more, and take tons of road trips.

[-] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Write sci fi novels and take care of stray cats

[-] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 2 days ago

I'm a licensed electrician. I do construction for my job.

If I didn't need to work to support myself and my family, I'd offer my services as a licensed electrician to my community at-cost. I'd charge for materials, but not my own labor. Basically, just use the skills I have to support others in my community who could benefit from those skills.

But I also wouldn't work anything close to 40 hours/week.

[-] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Same here but fixing bikes, mowers, cars etc. I do a little when I can now, but finding the time isn’t trivial.

[-] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago

but finding the time isn’t trivial

Preach it! I work 40+ hours plus have a 3yo and 5yo. There's no such thing as free time except when I'm supposed to be sleeping.

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[-] Goldholz 3 points 1 day ago

Travel, learn culture science theologie languages and so much more, teach

[-] dustyData@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Go into teaching. I love to assist others in their learning voyage, I love science, research, classes. However, financial realities mean that I would be starving if I pursued that path. So I find fulfillment in adjacent activities in my current line of work. I would also have an electronics workshop, repairing computers and other electronics for fun.

[-] Kualdir@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

Game (and probably stream myself doing so) a lot, get more exercise, volunteer a bit, probably contribute to open source projects a lot more

[-] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 days ago

I would work on open-source software and play games, which is what I already do, I'd just have more free time to do it.

[-] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Ride my Motorcycle and brew beer. Then go work out. Hang with friends. Hike, swim, explore the world.

[-] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

DM or GM tabletop games for groups

[-] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Metal, leather and wood working. Bee keeping and running a little shop

[-] slingstone@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Exercise to get healthy and work on my garden, to start. Then I'd handle any necessary projects for my home. Then I'd find causes to support by volunteering.

[-] kittenzrulz123 5 points 1 day ago

Id probrally learn programming and become a Linux distro/software maintainer for projects like Debian and maybe Libreboot.

[-] Batmancer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Haha I like to be silly at work sometimes after I’ve already paid the big monthly expenses. I say, “I’m here to do two things help kids and pay bills, and I’m all outta bills.” I would continue to work in my field on a part time basis. Then I would make time for a few doctor appointments and start going to therapy again. I’d walk my dog at different parks more often. Hopefully id make more time with my friends and family assuming they have the same deal. I would want to be more involved with my community too.

[-] QuizzaciousOtter@lemm.ee 45 points 2 days ago

Work on Free Open Source Software. Seriously, I fucking love software engineering and I can't really imagine doing anything else with my life. In fact, that's kinda my current plan - work towards financial independence and then work on things that matter to me, on my own terms. I really hope I won't get burned out somewhere in the process.

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[-] dumples@midwest.social 13 points 2 days ago

All the things I do for fun and hobbies I would do a lot more. Which would likely be the following:

  • Exercise (running in the warm months and skiing in the cold)
  • TTRPGs (I might move from 1 day of the week into two, and assuming everyone else has the same deal play in-person instead of digitally)
  • Reading (books and more books)

But mostly I would work on living the permaculture / herbalism fantasy.

  • Do a lot more herbal formulation and
  • Maybe open the small apothecary to sell things at Art fairs and other makers markets.
  • Turn my urban yard into a full food forest to help grow some of my own food, and herbs. (I want to have an urban oasis of edible trees, bushes and other useful plants)
  • Volunteer more a local prairie restoration group that I have worked with in the past
  • Finally spend some time gorilla gardening on open lots and sides of alleyways around my neighborhood to spread the plant love.
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[-] forty2@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You're describing retirement. And, boy have I spent a LOT of time thinking about what that looks like.

A lot of people have lists of things they'd do, see, learn, or be. I had one too, but it kept fucking changing depending on where I was in life and what my interests were.

Any list I had always felt restrictive. Here's where I ended up instead...

I would put my energy and attention only on the things that I want to put them on at any given time.

I guess some call that living in the moment, but I call it retirement.

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[-] salacious_coaster@infosec.pub 59 points 3 days ago

Get high and scroll Lemmy, apparently

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