[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

Call yourself whatever you're comfortable with. I'm a woman and I call myself bi, but I've been with a man for 5 years, yet I still sometimes see/interact with women and I find them so attractive that I blush and get nervous around them. Yes, I am with a man, and I find men attractive, but I find women equally attractive. Just because I am with a man now, doesn't make those feelings for women go away, ever. Should I NOT call myself bi because I'm with a man? No, the attraction to women is always there, regardless.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

I might be late to the party here, but I just wanted to chime in that my former husband and I went through this. He (now she) came out as MtF. I am not straight (bi), but I married them in part because I was attracted to their masculinity, which was now going away. I no longer found myself physically attracted to them. We went to marriage counseling, but ultimately decided to divorce. It was very hard, but it was ultimately for the best, for both of us. We remain friends and talk almost every day and it's been 7 years since the divorce.

If you truly love someone, you set them free.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago

As a woman, I've always been kinda jealous of a man's ability to just piss wherever, whenever. I mean, they do make these, but I've never used one because it kinda seems like you piss in there and it it'll just end up all over your entire yoni, which just sounds like a mess.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

My parents let me watch this when it came out. I was 8. RIP cartoon shoe.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

I use it on my phone for text messages, but I've realized that over the years, I'm starting to forget how to spell some words. I should probably stop using it to reprogram my brain.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

At my old government job, we had a fax machine because it "couldn't be hacked", so we would only accept certain documents via fax. Is this true? I have no idea. It was even more questionable when we switched the fax line to digital and received all the faxes via a software program on computers. Is THAT "un-hackable" too? No clue.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 20 points 16 hours ago

As a woman, you couldn't PAY ME to have a baby, you NEVER could. You know that shit in A Handmaid's Tale where they send the women who are too old to have kids out to work the fields until they die? Sign me up, because I'd rather be dead than bring a child into this world that has gotten only more and more fucked up as I've been alive. I always say, I love *my *children so much that I refuse to give them life on Earth.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

I like all of these except capers. I eat olives and pickles regularly.

We have a spigot in the kitchen that only puts out boiling-hot water, so I use that. If that's not working, I'd just boil it in a pan on the stove.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Other random LEGO question: Is there any website that I can upload a picture of something to it, and it will create LEGO instructions/create a piece list for me? I'd really love to have/build a LEGO version of The Ark starship from The Transformers, but I don't think it exists.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I love all of these, not gonna lie.

[-] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Wasn't the white power ranger the green power ranger first, or am I misremembering the story (it's been a while, sorry)?

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Best: My aunt's wedding. Super quick ceremony. I and my cousins were all in the 6-11 year old age range. She had a piñata for us at the reception. We devoured candy and danced and ran around like maniacs, it was glorious.

Worst: Years later, one of those same cousins mentioned above gets married. In July. In Massachusetts. Outside. The heat and humidity were unbearable. And they KNEW the weather was gonna be shit, because the wedding program they handed out to everyone before the ceremony began was shaped like a fucking fan. THEY KNEW.

The ceremony finally ends and the catering staff makes everyone wait outside the dining hall in the heat for unknown reasons for another full hour. When we're finally let in, the AC is struggling to keep up and it's hot as hell in there, too. When the dinner is served, it is NOT the vegetarian lasagna I chose on the wedding invite, no, it's a portabella mushroom burger. I hate mushrooms, I would have never chosen such a thing. They switched the menu out and didn't tell anyone. Also, no open bar, wtf.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world to c/gardening@lemmy.world

My "Big Jim" hatch chile plant isn't looking very big yet. The Guizeppi Milds and California Wonders are doing a bit better. This was the first day I took them all outside for a few hours to start the hardening off process. I've had them inside with a fan and grow lights up until now.

I expected some flowering at this point, but it's been stupidly cold and rainy here since I planted back in late March (I'm in 6a/6b), so maybe I'm expecting too much too soon? Next week is the first week it will in theory be above 55 degrees F overnight.

I've also been battling gnats (sticky traps and mosquito dunks for the win), which is weird to me because with the fan, the top layer of soil dries out pretty quickly, but I think I have them managed now.

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Tried my hand at yeasted sweet bread from the King Arthur Baking School cookbook – one plain, the other is lemon poppyseed.

They came out okay, but I think I screwed myself over by using flour that was too cold because I pulled it straight from the freezer instead of taking it out the night before. The dough got a rise, but not big enough for my liking. Not sure if I also maybe kneaded it too much, as it was really hard to get the long strips for the braids to stay long, they just kept springing back into shorter strips.

Probably won’t make this again, but I think the bread will make for some really good French toast.

(Posted this over on a Baking community as well)

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Tried my hand at yeasted sweet bread from the King Arthur Baking School cookbook -- one plain, the other is lemon poppyseed.

They came out okay, but I think I screwed myself over by using flour that was too cold because I pulled it straight from the freezer instead of taking it out the night before. The dough got a rise, but not big enough for my liking. Not sure if I also maybe kneaded it too much, as it was really hard to get the long strips for the braids to stay long, they just kept springing back into shorter strips.

Probably won't make this again, but I think the bread will make for some really good French toast.

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They're a bit more leggy than I think is healthy, but hopefully repotting them will help.

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Screw the rest of us, I guess?

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I'm about to take a long flight and am looking to expand my music library.

EDIT: Thanks so much, everyone! I've got 10.5 hours of music on my new playlist thanks to you all!

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I'll start by plugging Harvard's free courses catalog as well as Udemy

Edit: Gonna add 2 more I remembered-

Blender - I wish I had more time to learn it, but I did start the infamous "Donut Tutorial" once!

Watch Cartoons Online - Lots of good older stuff!

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Made 2 basic white bread loaves for the first time and they came out pretty decent, despite being a tad lopsided.

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I'm about to be unemployed, and I'm looking to get some certificates for either Tableau or Power BI to make myself more marketable to prospective employers. I use Tableau in my current workplace and consider myself a "Beginner". I'm not great at it, but not horrible either (I can more make things look pretty than write extensive calculated fields).

I've never used Power BI, but based on a bit of research, it seems like it's more commonly used in companies that are not already focused on data analytics. I've watched a few videos on Power BI, but never used the app myself. It definitely looks more user-friendly than Tableau, though.

Can anyone offer any insight as to which app would be more marketable to have a certificate in when looking for entry-level jobs? Thanks you!

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First time trying to grow anything from seed by myself. Fingers crossed it works out!

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