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[-] cleanandsunny@literature.cafe 147 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Name dropping TU Delft is surprising to me! ETA: found more info here, but not about the lawsuit piece.

https://delta.tudelft.nl/en/article/a-no-thank-you-to-the-person-who-assumed-i-was-the-coffee-lady

[-] Goodman@discuss.tchncs.de 47 points 1 month ago
[-] cleanandsunny@literature.cafe 13 points 1 month ago

Thanks so much for these links. I haven’t had time to look into Dutch sources. I have two good female friends doing their PhDs in other universities in the Netherlands in the sciences, and I’ve never heard anything even remotely close to this! They love their positions.

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[-] EldritchFeminity 143 points 1 month ago
[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 27 points 1 month ago

He really didn't coin the term for her specifically, as nice as that sounds.

[-] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 month ago

Well, at least in connection with her:

Coined by English philosopher and historian of science William Whewell in March 1834 in an anonymous review of Mary Somerville's book On the Connexion of the Physical Sciences in the Quarterly Review

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[-] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 100 points 1 month ago

Shoutout to the physicists dismissing biologist experiment design as a whole instead of across sexual or gendered lines.

[-] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 46 points 1 month ago

I read that as the subtext still being sexist because Biology tends to have more women in the field compared to Physics.

[-] Nikelui@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Nah, it's typical university faction wars. Engineers say crap about architects, mathematicians sneer on physicists and so on...

[-] prole 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Engineers say crap about architects

As an engineer, this shit is so cringe... There is a youtube gaming channel with an alleged engineer who plays video games (often related to physics or building things), and his entire fucking personality is formed around mocking architects for being "stupid." He literally substitutes in the word "architect" instead of calling someone stupid. He say's "they're an architect."

Grow the fuck up goddamn. How insecure do you have to be?

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[-] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 month ago

How people can walk out of a university with degrees and not understand how all areas of knowledge contribute towards each other and link together in ways that are not immediately obvious astounds me.

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[-] GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 month ago

I don't really understand how that one was a problem if they're also a physicist, or even if they're a biologist. Nothing wrong with some fun rivalry.

[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 month ago

There's always rivalry between physicist and biologists. Or chemists and biologists. Or biologists and biologists. Damn biologists, they ruined biology!

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[-] yesman@lemmy.world 95 points 1 month ago

There is an excellent Science channel on Youtube and Nebula with a Physics PHD who's made some eye-opening content about harassment and misogyny in STEM and Academia.

https://www.youtube.com/@acollierastro

[-] DaveyRocket@lemmy.world 42 points 1 month ago

She’s a great science communicator. Another famous Youtuber (Captain D) called her “the Jenny Nicholson of science” her Dark Matter video is my favorite, though her Gell-Mann Amnesia video is a “must watch” imho.

[-] BlemboTheThird@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 month ago

Watch her dark matter video. And the follow up. But for the love of God, dodge the comments. SO MANY people read the title of the video and then went to make comments calling her wrong, even though she spent like an hour specifically addressing the arguments they make.

Dark matter is not a theory. It's a problem. Fuck!

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[-] TacoButtPlug@sh.itjust.works 88 points 1 month ago

Fucking relatable.

No thank you to the hundreds of years of chemist men taking credit for women's discoveries.

No thank you to the old white Persian man gate keeping chemistry from Ukranians and older women in my class.

No thank you to the sexist math book author who used shoeless women in a kitchen as a word problem example.

No thank you to Amazon for banning my 15 year account for calling the sexist math book author out in reviews.

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[-] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 77 points 1 month ago

Fuck these misogynistic pigs, idiots like these need to be called out more often. It's too bad she couldn't give names out and completely humiliate and ruin them.

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[-] oftheair 76 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

For anybody having difficulty reading the text:

Anti Acknowledgements

There have unfortunately also been people who have been less than helpful in my journey here. I wanted to acknowledge those too, because I know I am not unique in this experience.

No thank you to the physics study association that made me sing songs about how women couldn't study physics without sleeping with the professor, the day I stepped into university life. No thank you to the 5th year physics student that decided to assign me a 'stripper name' within the first minute of meeting me in the physics coffee corner in my first year. No thank you to the technician that was responsible for onboarding me on the use of the cluster in my third year who raised his eyebrows and asked me if that meant I was some sort of "computer girl". No thank you to the senior researcher that sent me utterly inappropriate texts after a conference, then proceeded to 'apologise' months later by telling me they had not been meant for me anyway so "no hard feelings remain hopefully". And no thank you to him for attending every conference I've been to since. No thank you to the people who told me that it was "surprising" that I was doing a PhD since I was a girl. No thank you to the man who mistook me for a coffee lady at a conference, and after having to correct him two times that I did not work there, responded with "you should consider it". No thank you to the researcher that asked me what I was wearing underneath my outfit during a conference. No thank you to the physicist who declared to a room full of other physicists that biologists "don't know how to design an experiment". No thank you to the people who have called me scary instead of strong and intimidating instead of intelligent. And finally, no thank you to the executive board of the TU Delft, whose knee-jerk reaction to being held up to a mirror about the social safety at the university, was to sue the party holding up the mirror instead of looking at the problems they highlighted.

I wish I could tell you this has all made me stronger somehow but in reality it has only shattered my confidence. You have made me feel like I do not belong in science and I cannot forgive you for that.

-Rachel

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[-] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 74 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I appreciate her telling it like it is and not bowing to a pressure to please.

Found an article speaking more about it, if anyone is curious about the context/her work.

[-] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 72 points 1 month ago

This just makes me sad. How can science advance, if we gatekeep one half of human population? In my academic career I have consistently found women to be smarter and better than men. Yet, these misogynistic ideas seem to persist. We deserve better than old farts with even older bias heading the institutions that make up our society.

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 36 points 1 month ago

It's exactly that is why they're kept down. Tiny men are afraid that they won't seem as smart as the woman in the room.

As a man, I try to be different. I mentor the women around me and encourage them to do more, be better. I successfully got one of my mentee to negotiate her salary just yesterday even though she felt uncomfortable doing so. Try to be the change we need

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[-] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

When I was in elementary school, we always had a table at the back where the advanced students would do more difficult stuff than the rest of the class while not being completely isolated. The table was always me and 5 or 6 girls. When we graduated high school, I was the top-ranked boy - and the 22nd-ranked student overall. I just took it completely for granted that girls were smarter than boys (although I did perceive the very strong anti-intellectual culture among boys which seemed more impactful than native abilities).

It wasn't until I went to college that I started encountering the belief that men were fundamentally smarter than women, even though every college and university I've attended had more women than male students and the women had much better academic performance. That was my first taste of the power of group delusion.

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[-] grue@lemmy.world 54 points 1 month ago

I read the first sentence in that big paragraph and thought "wow, going straight to the biggest problem right out of the gate instead of building up to it, huh?" Then I kept reading and realized the entire paragraph was about that same thing. Holy shit, that's a lot of sexism!

[-] WilloftheWest@feddit.uk 49 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Bravo to the exceptional bravery on display here. I'm sure the majority of PhD graduates, including myself, wish they'd had the gumption to name and shame the suppressing factors contributing to a toxic academic environment. Reading this makes me kind of appreciative that my troubles were only administrative mismanagement and an inexperienced supervisor.

Also what the hell is up with TU Delft? It's only partway through March and this is the second time this year that I've seen a PhD candidate publicly call out the institute.

[-] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 29 points 1 month ago

This sounds like the University of Ottawa. Watching physics professors sexually harass the few women in our class was disgusting.

[-] xye@lemm.ee 26 points 1 month ago

Unfathomably based.

[-] AeonFelis@lemmy.world 24 points 1 month ago

Acknowledgmen't

[-] Formfiller@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

Beautifully spoken

[-] Zacryon@feddit.org 15 points 1 month ago

Reminds me of Sabine Hossfelder, a physicist, who had made some similar experiences.

https://youtu.be/LKiBlGDfRU8

Proof that educated people can still be immensely stupid and be utter human trash.

[-] Nalivai@lemmy.world 36 points 1 month ago

It's sad that she decided to channel her experience into transphobia, as if punching down will somehow make up for all the punches she got.

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[-] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 15 points 1 month ago

Does anyone have info about the lawsuit

[-] serenissi@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

Not a physicist but fuck it is so relatable.

[-] drosophila 14 points 1 month ago

I don't understand the "computer girl" one, did the technician think that her being a woman meant she was doing computer science instead of physics?

[-] Nikophos@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

If a man told you he worked with computers, it'd be odd to raise an eyebrow and respond "Are you some kind of computer boy?". The technician treated this woman's work as something special because she was a woman. In other words: A man that works with a computer is still just a man. A woman that works with a computer must be something special, a computer girl.

And bonus points for calling her a girl, which is just a little bit more infantilizing.

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[-] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 month ago

can't wait to experience that myself!! 🥰

[-] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 month ago

A dot point list would have made this more readable. Just saying.

[-] scratchee@feddit.uk 24 points 1 month ago

It may be in a scientific paper, but this is more of an anecdote about the various issues the author encountered, rather than something intended to be actionable and clearly delineated as you’d expect in the body of a scientific article. Therefore a more literary style is appropriate for this section.

My mental model is that bullet points are for when you expect a reader to go over the points with a highlighter, prose for when you want to produce an emotional response. This feels more like the latter.

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[-] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 month ago

The irony in how badly you are missing the dot point

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