I may be presenting more fem than I thought. Roughly translated:
- "So, you've given up being a man then?"
- "Err, well, kind of..." ← (very surprised me was too shy to just say "yes")
- "It's OK. You should follow your heart."
People can be so nice <3
I may be presenting more fem than I thought. Roughly translated:
People can be so nice <3
Concluded a 2 year long D&D campaign today with a level 20 finale. Thankful to have people in my life who love and accept me enough to choose to listen to me talk for 5 hours on a Sunday 🥴
The state of the world vis-a-vis trans stuff has me bouncing back and forth between "I guess I'll just stay in the closet for the foreseeable future" and "keep being bigots, assholes, it's only making me transer". I need to pull my finger out and actually figure out DIYing in the UK and then just do it
Been doing pretty well. College has been really good for me and I feel happy in spite of all that's going on in the world. Thriving is resistance.
Tired, both physically (why? Idk) and mentally.
Less than 30 days till I most likely get furloughed (gov shutdown deadline of about march 14th, ill be shocked if it doesn't happen). At least I'm not in a probationary period for my position, i guess?
Finally scheduled an appointment for formal ADHD testing (with a referral from a psychiatrist for that reason) and its damn near two months out... that just feels like an eternity. I just want to get my life sorted out and its seriously holding me back and stressing me out.
General trans community.
Rules:
Follow all blahaj.zone rules
All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on