28
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by nettie@lemmy.world to c/mtf

A personal take on how I experience gender.

EDIT - more context would have helped as

I'm not trying to propose some simplified mathematical fits all graph here.

I'm struggling, having been out as non binary for about 5 years, with the idea that trans woman might be a better introductory starting point label for me. I understand gender as complex - far more complex than a 2 line graph sketch - but drew the graph to hone in on MY experience with fluidity. I was interested in my strength/clarity of feeling at different points.

top 15 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] Sasha 11 points 2 days ago

Gender is expressed as an N dimensional vector in the tangent space at a point on a larger N dimensional pseudo-Riemannian gender manifold.

Travelling on a path through this manifold can act to rotate your gender identity once you arrive at a new point so be careful where you step, some paths are known to crack eggs.

Mapping the manifold onto a 2D socially constructed gender Cartesian plane introduces singular points and so is considered a dangerous and largely useless construction.

[-] Sasha 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm just being silly, but the translation here is something like:

We all understand gender in our own unique way, based on a shared understanding of some broader concept

Changing our understanding and relationship to gender as a concept is possible, and may lead to you realising your own gender was something other than what you'd previously assumed.

The gender binary is ass.

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Haha, yes quite.

[-] dandelion 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26621705/

https://people.socsci.tau.ac.il/mu/daphnajoel/files/2019/10/Joel2019Neuroscientist.pdf

I think probably gender identity is more complex than a 2D plot, too. Even this complex brain-sex mosaic model doesn't adequately capture it.

A common model I've seen for talking about gender is using the Gender Unicorn:

It is of course inaccurate and problematic, as any theory is going to be for something as complex as gender.

What is useful about the Gender Unicorn is that it gives you that intensity scale that on one extreme could be understood as agender, which is what I think your drawing is trying to represent.

[-] Blahaj_Blast 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
[-] dandelion 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yes, very similar! They are used for the same purpose. It's a fine educational resource for a cis and/or heterosexual audience that have never thought about sexuality or gender before and this is like the superficial introduction to concepts like gender being more than just your sex, or being completely binary, etc.

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Yes of course it is. But thanks for the links, will read.

I'm not presenting anything absolute or probably new. Just a personal take on a correlation between where my gender is and how strongly I feel it, at the different points of my fluidity.

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

analyses [of MRIs of more than 1,400 human brains from four datasets] of internal consistency reveal that brains with features that are consistently at one end of the "maleness-femaleness" continuum are rare.

Love this statement.💜

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Extracts from 2nd link that stood out to me

most evidence to date reveals a much larger contribution of sex-related hormones compared to sex-related genes to the sexual differentiation of the rodent brain and behavior

...

studies revealed that feminization and masculinization are independent processes rather than two poles of a continuum

...

And adding to the first link:

[brains whose features align clearly at either male or female end are] low (0% to 8%) and much lower than the number of mosaic brains (23% to 53%), that is, brains in which at least one feature was at the “femaleend” zone and one feature was at the “male-end” zone...

[-] Blahaj_Blast 2 points 12 hours ago

Considering we all start the same for the first few weeks and then differ after that, it makes sense it's not 1 spectrum of differences. It should be 2 at least.

[-] dandelion 2 points 2 days ago

yes, I think it's quite surprising to find most people have a mix of sexed traits, the whole concept of a strict binary doesn't apply at all to the brain it seems

[-] dandelion 2 points 2 days ago

and no worries, I suck at my delivery - I don't mean to come across with such refutation vibes 😅 Maybe I'm just excited to share these articles and connect the dots between the current science on "brain-sex" and the ways we conceptualize or think about gender identity. I like your drawing, esp. the way it is plotted in angles rather than on a Cartesian plot - it's just fun and quirky.

[-] Limonene@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Looks like polar coordinates, with theta being the maleness (at 180 degrees) or femaleness (at 0 degrees), and radius being the magnitude.

(edit: That's actually what it says above the chart, I just missed it.)

[-] nettie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Yup! I considered drawing a locus but decided that a line said enough.

It's been a useful realisation for me that while my gender fluctuates, I feel it less when I'm feeling towards the male side.

[-] zea_64 3 points 2 days ago

Oh my god I've unironically described myself with polar coordinates too!

this post was submitted on 18 Jan 2025
28 points (100.0% liked)

Transfem

3567 readers
24 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

To make such a request, at the start of the body of your post, not in the title, the first line should look like the this: [Requesting Engagement from _________]

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS