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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 162 points 4 months ago

This is fake and gay. Literally

[-] bhamlin@lemmy.world 39 points 4 months ago

Yeah, 20 dudes is rookie numbers

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 13 points 4 months ago

Ikr? I've fucked more guys than that, and I'm straight

[-] lars@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 4 months ago

I think he was referring to so far that night, right? Right?!?

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[-] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 20 points 4 months ago

Yeah, the fact that OP mentioned being at a party was sus. Nobody who posts on 4 Chan is ever invited to parties.

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[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 84 points 4 months ago

People really dont understand how languages work. Even brother and man can be gender neutral. If you say "man, whyd you do that" thats gender neutral. Same with dude and guy.

[-] Walk_blesseD 46 points 4 months ago

Whatever you say, girliepop

[-] Quadhammer@lemmy.world 25 points 4 months ago

Idk about the rest of it but dude and guys can totally be gender neutral and i hate people that dont get that. Its such a bitchy thing to get mad about

[-] Jrockwar@feddit.uk 15 points 4 months ago

Also queen, "James, you're such an Excel queen". I've seen this sort of use many times at my workplace. It doesn't have anything to do with gender or sexual orientation.

It's obviously more niche than "dude" but I've seen it before.

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[-] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 25 points 4 months ago

This. I've got a fair few trans friends, and we're all in agreement - unless it's obvious we're talking in gendered terms based on context, "dude", "man", "bro", etc are just interjections, not reference to someone's gender. And, when we are talking in gendered contexts, we tend to be pretty clear about that.

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[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 17 points 4 months ago

Bro y u so wrong

[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 25 points 4 months ago

Thats a joke right? Because youre getting downvoted, but you yourself called me bro without knowing my gender so it must be a joke or youre the most oblivious person ive ever seen.

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[-] unazebra@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

But like.......I think it goes beyond just gender specificity & is also an attempt to address the embedded patriarchy of our culture & language. Those interjection words being male of center as a default is something I wanna unpack, too.🤷🏽

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[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago

And pussy, right?

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[+] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 79 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

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[-] jqubed@lemmy.world 66 points 4 months ago

Y’all gives modern English the second person plural it would otherwise be missing

[-] moody@lemmings.world 36 points 4 months ago

What about youse?

[-] ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yousa bombad, meesa like muy muy!

[-] moody@lemmings.world 12 points 4 months ago

I hate you with every fiber of my being

[-] Godort@lemm.ee 14 points 4 months ago

I've always been fond of "yinz", despite never having been to Pittsburgh

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[-] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 22 points 4 months ago

"You" used to be that word, but mfs didn't wanna say "thou" anymore so "you" has to pull double duty now

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[-] merc@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago

In parts of the south "y'all" is singular. "All y'all" is plural.

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[-] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 63 points 4 months ago

It's not a problem until someone tells you to not refer to them as a dude or a guy. If you continue, you are just an asshole 🤷🏻

[-] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 52 points 4 months ago

Sure, but we're talking plurals of strangers atm. "Please don't call me a guy going forward" is a different conversation than "what you just said is stupid, mean, and wrong".

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[-] pythonoob@programming.dev 11 points 4 months ago

I mean I'll be nice about it and correct to girls or ladies or whatever, but that conversation is probably over

[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 59 points 4 months ago

I definitely use "guy" as gender neutral. I used to refer to women as "dude" as well, but it was a bit controversial so I stopped

[-] Kit 48 points 4 months ago

I'm a dude. He's a dude. She's a dude. We're all dudes!

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[-] HerbSolo@lemmy.world 12 points 4 months ago

"Ladydudes" is the way to go.

[-] Senseless@feddit.org 18 points 4 months ago

Dudes and Dudettes

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[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 14 points 4 months ago

Gentlemen and gentle women.

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[-] porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 59 points 4 months ago

This is a good joke but it really lets itself down by switching from "guys" to "dudes" when it's about the former word...

[-] HappyTimeHarry@lemm.ee 42 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

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[-] kipo@lemm.ee 31 points 4 months ago

Alternatively, if a woman asks you not to call her a guy or a dude, respect that.

[-] Critical_Thinker@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago

I'm so fucking sick of the neg culture that pretends to be politically correct. There's malicious sexism and loads of assholes out there for sure but some feel emboldened to attack anyone they construe to be saying what they think is wrong regardless of context.

Someone will always be offended by absolutely fucking everything. They can go fuck themselves.

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[-] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 33 points 4 months ago

"Cunt" it is, then.

[-] Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago

Accidentally Australian /j

[-] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 12 points 4 months ago

Cunt is singular, he should have used "cunts".

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[-] samus12345@lemm.ee 29 points 4 months ago

Shouldn't it have been "How many guys have you fucked?" He didn't say "you dudes."

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 23 points 4 months ago

Obviously fake, but the response is a total non-sequitur to set up for the grindr but.

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[-] luce 16 points 4 months ago

I view "guys" and "dudes" as gender neutral but when its directed towards me i start feeling like shit

[-] scbasteve7@lemm.ee 12 points 4 months ago

Man... I'm sorry.

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[-] kittenzrulz123 10 points 4 months ago

Real and gay

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