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[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 84 points 2 years ago

People really dont understand how languages work. Even brother and man can be gender neutral. If you say "man, whyd you do that" thats gender neutral. Same with dude and guy.

[-] Walk_blesseD 47 points 2 years ago
[-] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 25 points 2 years ago

This. I've got a fair few trans friends, and we're all in agreement - unless it's obvious we're talking in gendered terms based on context, "dude", "man", "bro", etc are just interjections, not reference to someone's gender. And, when we are talking in gendered contexts, we tend to be pretty clear about that.

[-] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 7 points 2 years ago

It's really great that you have friends who are in a good enough place to not worry about that stuff.

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

This is really great news to me as I am all about telling my dudes it's Wednesday!

[-] Quadhammer@lemmy.world 25 points 2 years ago

Idk about the rest of it but dude and guys can totally be gender neutral and i hate people that dont get that. Its such a bitchy thing to get mad about

[-] Jrockwar@feddit.uk 15 points 2 years ago

Also queen, "James, you're such an Excel queen". I've seen this sort of use many times at my workplace. It doesn't have anything to do with gender or sexual orientation.

It's obviously more niche than "dude" but I've seen it before.

[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 years ago
[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 25 points 2 years ago

Thats a joke right? Because youre getting downvoted, but you yourself called me bro without knowing my gender so it must be a joke or youre the most oblivious person ive ever seen.

[-] StupidBrotherInLaw@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

I hope they're joking, otherwise they need to get back to Facebook with the rest of their ilk.

[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 years ago

Would be a classic facebook moment. Gender neutral guy is like singular they/them. "That is not natural bla bla bla, use he/she" and then you ask them "do you know who alex is" and they respond "no, i dont know who they are" which is using singular they or just assume their gender.

[-] unazebra@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

But like.......I think it goes beyond just gender specificity & is also an attempt to address the embedded patriarchy of our culture & language. Those interjection words being male of center as a default is something I wanna unpack, too.🤷🏽

[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago

As another comment said "queen" being gender neutral and coming from a word used for females originally. Also patriarchy is embedded in language but you cant really change it. Its always better to agree on a gender neutral phrase than have an infight(classic left wing moment...) and then revert to the previous gendered language because of it. We should all just speak hungarian, barely any gendered stuff in there(def not biased because its my mother tounge)

[-] kipo@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Yes! Thank you for stating this.

[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

And pussy, right?

[-] Crazyslinkz@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Human ... man, it's a just shorter version 😉

[-] brotundspiele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

Is woman short for womb-man?

[-] pupbiru@aussie.zone 5 points 2 years ago

gay men call each other sis and girl all the time too, for alternatives that go in reverse

[-] Jumuta@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

me@lemmy~$ man

this post was submitted on 12 Jan 2025
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