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chirasul posted:
my only advice is to BE CAREFUL posting about holiday traditions around europeans. you'll post something casual like "anyone else watch the old Grinch movie every year? what a classic" and a european will appear as if summoned and say some shit like "funny how USAmericans always CONVENIENTLY forget that Not Everyone On Earth is from The USA…….. no of COURSE we dont watch 'the grunch' or whatever the fuck that is…. our tradition is to attend a community showing of Glummdorf the Racial Stereotype"

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riseupriseupandcomealong:
my mom’s (american) class tried doing a language exchange thing w a sister school in spain and they decided to send each other boxes of gifts for christmas. the spanish class made remarks about oh christmas in the usa is so commercialized we have ~real traditions~ here and then my mom opened a box full of blackface dolls and blackface doll ornaments and blackface clothespins in front of her students

raygender:
Did once have a Dutch woman vehemently defend the Festive Christmas Blackface by repeating "it's different in Europe” with increasing desperation until she was crying. Literally all anybody else present did was just like, calmly say they were uncomfortable with the practice and not change her mind when she wailed about it.

monkey-mulch:
you bring up rudolph the red nosed reindeer and they bring out Skimbo the filthy redskin and im barely even joking about that they actually had this thing called indian plays in both soviet countries and germany

themainspoon:
European children waiting patiently on Hatemas Eve for Racism Claus to slur down the chimney and segregate all of their presents by colour.

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[-] LANIK2000@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I hate christmas and I can't wait for it to be over. I actually quite like winter, but christmas always comes to ruin it. The whole thing is a sham, no matter what country does it. Stupid half made up traditions aside, I hate people feeling obligated to get me shit and cutting deeper into our already suffering wallets just to keep our fragile system from immediately imploding.

[-] LongMember69@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

OP: posts a meme about weird and racist European holiday traditions and how Europeans will appear to defend them

Europeans ITT:

well actually it’s not a Christmas tradition it’s from November

yeah uh, and it’s not actually blackface because we decided it’s soot and ash even though it was and still is blackface

ok we might have people here that like the blackface but they live all the way on the other side of the country which is like a whole 10 minutes away so it doesn’t count

uhhhh you Americans wouldn’t understand with your newer, watered-down, holiday traditions that are stolen from elsewhere

it’s not racist it’s cultural and you Americans would understand if you could introspect about your culture

[-] nicknonya 3 points 5 hours ago

fucking Thank You.

whenever i post something like this i always hope people here would be at least marginally more willing to engage with them than the average person seeing how left-leaning they tend to be and i'm always proven wrong

logically i know they're a minority, most people don't even comment, but still.
never expected to see someone say "i don't care if it's racist it's my culture so It Stays" here. like do you not hear yourself??

[-] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 36 points 17 hours ago

Dutch guy here. Our racist saint Nicolas "Sinterklaas" with blackface "zwarte Piet" isn't Christmas celebration. He arrives in November and celebrates his birthday on the 5th of December by giving gifts to children.

All aspects from American Christmas celebration were stolen from European traditions. The story from Scandinavia, the character from Germany, the name from the Netherlands. But the Dutch tradition isn't Christmas. It's racist though, not arguing that. I'm fighting it though, because fuck racism. Also the racist part is only recent, back in the old days "zwarte Piet" was a white guy with black soot all over him from climbing through the chimney. Later it became a caricature black person which is so fucked up.

Sadly there's a lot of systematic racism deeply nestled in European cultures and traditions. Slowly we are working to getting rid of them, although there are also many fighting to keep them. But luckily we're making progress.

But if we're pointing fingers here, at least we're not celebrating genocide every year by slaughtering insane amounts of turkeys with Thanksgiving 👀

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 28 points 16 hours ago

They weren't stolen, they're descended from. Because white Americans aren't native to the Americas and brought their traditions with them.

It was kind of a big thing, history wise?

[-] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Because the states were new and full of mixed cultures, they desperately created national holidays to create a more general national feeling among the wide variety of people. Many were hand picked, to create a national culture as the states had none. It's all to create unity and identity.

[-] mhague@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

You mean people in America or the church in Europe? Or is that the joke

Nvm, I can't read

[-] HawlSera@lemm.ee 22 points 17 hours ago

Germany literally has a children's game called "Who's Afraid of the Black Man"

I don't wanna hear about Racism being a "uniquely American problem"

Cause it very clearly is not.

School shootings and medical debt however ARE "uniquely American problems"

[-] djsoren19@yiffit.net 5 points 6 hours ago

It's seen as an American problem because America is one of the most multicultural countries in the world. It's not surprising you don't hear about racism much in countries with 80%+ white populations

[-] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 30 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

That's based on the black death, aka. the plague, hence the rules of the game.

We have enough rascist shit in our culture but this one isn't :)

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 10 points 13 hours ago

I actually didnt knew that.Thanks. :)

[-] Don_alForno@feddit.org 12 points 16 hours ago

Looking back as an adult the origin is clearly racist. But since I sung that in kindergarden myself: We didn't associate "black man" with a person of colour. When I was 4, I was imagining some creep in a black trenchcoat.

[-] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 14 points 16 hours ago

Since Americans basically stole every tradition they have from someone else, I’m not gonna worry about their opinion on them :D

The US is a toddler when it comes to history and traditions. I drive by a church that was built in the year 900. That one’s actually called the ‘new church’ since it replaced one from the year 400. That’s history. And we’ve got traditions that go back centuries further.

Just because Americans prefer watered down, tame versions of our European traditions, doesn’t mean the rest of us are going to follow. Krampus, Sunneklaas, Sinterklaas and other traditions are here to stay.

[-] drosophila 21 points 15 hours ago

Bigotry is as old as time.

Bragging about how vintage your racism is isn't impressive.

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[-] nicknonya 13 points 14 hours ago

"our racism is fine because it's Tradition™"

[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 7 points 14 hours ago

No, even our traditions change.

Take Sinterklaas, the "blackface" wasn't something negative. Those black Pete were respected by everyone. It wasn't like the 1950 US television where blackface was used to represent dumb stereotypes of black people.

But even then, we Europeans see how it can be seen as something negative by certain groups, so to accommodate them they are being changed to soot Petes since they travel through chimneys.

[-] JackRiddle@sh.itjust.works 12 points 13 hours ago

I disagree strongly on the first point. Blackface was not percieved as negative by a lot of people because they had no awareness of it's significance, but black pete has always been a racist stereotype. It's not "oh, this is a character who happens to be black", it's "this thick-lipped gold-earring wearing pitch-black person with old-timey clothes is the servant of an old bisshop".

This shit has always been fucked up. And we didn't just make an easy decision to change them because some people were uncomfortable, people fought for that. And half of the people are still "bUt iTs jUsT a ChIlDrEnS hOlIdAy iS evErYthInG rAciSt tHEse DaYs?"

[-] antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 18 hours ago

they actually had this thing called indian plays in both soviet countries and germany

Americans are so racist they have to fabricate nonexistent racist stuff elsewhere to feel better about their own racism. Impressive.

[-] Mr_Blott@feddit.uk 11 points 18 hours ago

Sorry but the comment about the films is horseshit

2024 will mark about two decades of sitting through Home Alone and Die Hard, and before that it was two decades of Shitty Shitty Bang Bang (thanks autocorrect 😂) and The Wizard of Oz

Quite looking forward to the new Wallace and Gromit though!

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 31 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

you bring up rudolph the red nosed reindeer and they bring out Skimbo the filthy redskin and im barely even joking about that they actually had this thing called indian plays in both soviet countries and germany

IDK about the soviet union, but "indian plays" are not a (common) christmas tradition in Germany. I've never even heard of those.

@OP thanks for adding the transcription.

[-] tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

I remember the Atlanta "Sinterklaas is coming to town" episode, hilarious 😂

But I didn't know about this supposed "tradition beforehand, despite living pretty close to the border and went down the Zwarte Piet rabbithole. There was a huge fight nationwide about if it should be banned or replaced (aka ash on fave instead of blackface) and there were a lot of " traditionalists", let's call them racists wanting to preserve their beloved racism custom. There are grown ass people painting their fave pitch balck, lips red, afro wig and gold hoop earrings. Yeah, definitely normal tradition.

[-] Shelena@feddit.nl 10 points 16 hours ago

Most people in the Netherlands are now also opposed to having blackface during Sinterklaas. However, there is a significant group that feel that their identity is threathed if you criticize their tradition. They are not the smartest people in our country (to say it lightly) and they express this opinion by doing stuff like that. Fortunately, they are a minority now and zwarte Piet does not look like that anymore.

It is a bit strange to have grown up in the Netherlands with zwarte Piet. As a child, I really liked him because I believed that he brought me presents. I wrote him and Sinterklaas letters and I have a lot of drawings of zwarte Piet that I made as a child. I did draw him like a stereotypical black person, because that was what he looked like at the time. As a child I did not know any better and I just liked zwarte Piet. But now when I look back at it I feel ashamed.

When I found out the issues with zwarte Piet, I stopped including him in the celebrations as a black person. I also had discussions with friends and family members about this. This sometimes lead to a lot of anger. I think they felt like their innocent and happy memories of zwarte Piet they had as a child were tarnished and they were accused of being racist. That was difficult for a while. Currently, all people in my direct environment do not celebrate Sinterklaas anymore with zwarte Piet as a black person. If I ask them why they were angey before about it, they just tell me that I wanted to change things too fast and they felt accused.

[-] tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago

Thanks for your personal anecdote, there is always a bit of a disconnect between what is reported on media and how things are actually looking on ground. But glad to hear things have changed much over there.

[-] manicdave@feddit.uk 41 points 1 day ago

Which European country was it that added a loophole to their constitution to allow slavery as punishment then manipulated their legal system to lock a third of black men up again? I forget.

[-] JackRiddle@sh.itjust.works 9 points 13 hours ago

Can we not try to avoid introspection into our own racism by talking about someone else's racism please?

Yes, this is a fucked up thing. Why do you specifically bring it up under a post about European racism tho?

[-] manicdave@feddit.uk 5 points 13 hours ago

On the one hand, it's bait.

On the other hand I don't think the country that has formalised slavery and a culture of policing which views it's own citizens as prey really has the right to dictate conversation on race relations.

In no other field would such failure be seen as authority. You wouldn't pick a garage to fix your car because them accidentally destroying the most engines shows they're experts.

[-] JackRiddle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago

I disagree strongly with this sentiment. If there was one garage that was destroying engines and another garage removing all the seatbelts, sure, maybe engine-estroying-garage has their own shit going on, but that doesn't mean that their critisism of seatbelt-removing-garage is invalid.

[-] nicknonya 10 points 17 hours ago

"my culture can't have racist elements because your culture is racister!"

truly a smackdown, i am humbled.

[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 7 points 14 hours ago

Well, you didn't come with actual arguments, so I guess you are humbled.

[-] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 13 points 23 hours ago

Imagine being from the UK and thinking it is some superior country. You're literally a top contender for the worst group of human beings to have ever existed.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 16 hours ago

I personally don't think the sins of the father pass to the son, because that's what stupid assholes who haven't developed second order thought think, so maybe consider refering to the nation as a concept instead of every living or dead Brit.

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[-] drbluefall@toast.ooo 6 points 20 hours ago

Ah, Europeans always love to hoist racism over Americans.

Forget stones, y'all have whole-ass machine guns in those glass houses.

[-] Cethin@lemmy.zip 14 points 17 hours ago

I'm an American.

What the fuck is this thread? Americans can insult European racism, but a European can't point out American racism?

[-] Tenniswaffles 6 points 13 hours ago

I think the issue on this instance is that the original is bringing up America's racism as a way to dismiss their own.

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[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 day ago

The war on Christmas isn't real but I wish it was

[-] exploitedamerican@lemm.ee 10 points 18 hours ago

Lets nuke the shit out of the shitty parts but keep the decorated live tree, pretty lights, egg nog, giving poor people and or family members things they cant normally afford and radicalizing our younger family members to be anarchistic leftists over ham or turkey or Chinese food while your older relatives try to push them as far right as possible and complain about everything that comes out of your mouth. You know the good parts of Christmas.