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[-] OldEggNewTricks 8 points 4 months ago

So... pretty sure now I am a girl (~~still~~ not cis tho!). Started off thinking I'd stealth in boymode until I could make the switch, but I kind of want to tell the world and be recognized as at least trying to present fem. I think my sister-in-law knows: nobody has ever complimented my clothes before, and it made me so happy! (even though it was something I got from the men's department ages ago...)

Went into town to visit an LGBT support center and chat with some real-life trans people. At least I think they were; it didn't seem right to ask. I hope I can look that natural eventually.

Skinny fit jeans! They make my legs look great! Anyone have suggestions for tuck-friendly underwear?

Next step might be to start to do something about the beard. That's a bit scary though and I don't know if my hair color will work for laser anyway.

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