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You're poo-pooing the impatience of the car drivers but ignoring the impatience of the truck driver.
Why the hell is the truck passing another truck to begin with? You're talking a measly 1 km/hr difference! For a trip of 100 km, that measly 1 km/hr difference means the truck driver is passing another truck to save a measly 36 seconds. (And that's the ideal case, assuming the speed difference is maintained the whole time.) And by doing so they create a massive traffic jam that causes dozens of drivers to be delayed by minutes.
There's a reason many states ban trucks from passing other trucks. It's an extremely selfish and asshole thing to do. One truck driver saves 30 seconds or so on their trip. In exchange, dozens of drivers lose minutes. The truck driver is stealing an hour of time from the rest of society to give himself 30 seconds. You should not be defending such selfish bastards.
The math changes a bit if you assume a longer trip, but the conclusion won't. Inevitably the time the truck driver steals from others will be vastly more than the time they save. It's dangerous asocial behavior.
You don't know why one truck decided to pass another one. Could be a safety issue. There's no way for you to know for sure. It's OK though, you'll still get to your destination within a minute of when you would have if they hadn't chosen to overtake. And everything will be fine.
You're grasping at straws. What safety issue would cause one truck to need to pass another? If you're worried about something falling off the truck in front of you, the correct response is to slow down and increase your following distance, not to slowly pass the other truck while creating a massive traffic hazard.
If it's a "safety issue," it's definitely not happening at a 1 MPH speed differential. C'mon, now.
Exactly. If I'm driving a truck and I'm worried the truck in front of me is about to explode or have a part fly off it, I'm not going to pass them at 1 mph. If I can pass faster, I'll pass quickly. If I can't, I'll hit the brakes and put a huge amount of distance between us. In a safety emergency, you want to increase your separation as fast as possible. You do that by braking, not by slowly passing.