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Trans
General trans community.
Rules:
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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
This week has actually been really good for me! If anyone read my post last week, I had a pretty rough time of it then, having had a date flake on me and having a friend not talking to me. Well, this week I've sorted things out with that friend of mine, we had a lovely chat at the queer climbing night we both attend, I also went for a great meal out with my climbing friends which was super nice!
On the date front, I matched with an extremely cool and gorgeous enby on the dating app I use, we got chatting and clicked pretty much instantly. We're nerdy about similar things and have very compatible senses of humour, we've genuinely been messaging pretty much nonstop since we matched and today we had a first date which... holy crap, I didn't think it was possible for a first date to go as well as it did 😍 we went to a super cool barcade, drank mocktails, flailed around in co-op arcade games together, laughed, chatted, won each other plushies from a claw machine and just generally had a whale of a time. We went for bubble tea afterwards and ended up kissing in the boba shop, it was amazing!
In general life news, next week is going to mark my 5th tranniversary! 5 whole years of being out and living as myself, which feels like kind of a big milestone. It feels like I'm starting to turn a corner in my life, feeling more confident and comfortable with myself these days after a pretty big mental health wobble recently. I'm finally starting to feel like I'm actually worthy and deserving of good things happening to me, and they are starting to happen 😊