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How do you get through the holidays?
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Some people, having escaped the toxicity of the family and church they grew up in, find themselves missing some of the ritual/songs/awe of celebrating in a sacred space. If you live in the US and want to find a trans-positive Christmas Eve service, GayChurch.org is a good place to start. Then call and talk to a person who can confirm whether it's a place you'll be comfortable. Not pushing this on anyone, just in case you don't want to throw the Baby Jesus out with the bathwater. I don't know if something similar exists for other religions/countries but maybe someone does?
a good place to start if you're struggling to find something near you might be Unitarian Universalist churches, they usually have a Christmas service, and are usually very LGBT+ friendly