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this is a question for your partner, since romance is contextual to a person
one way to be romantic is to be thoughtful and respectful of their boundaries, and sensitive to their needs and desires
thank uuuu
I was unable to reply to your other comment in the Relationship Advice thread before it was deleted, but, on the topic of "love languages":
they sort of are bullshit, they were made up by a Baptist pastor and don't have any evidence backing them:
https://theconversation.com/love-languages-are-hugely-popular-but-theres-very-little-evidence-they-exist-at-all-198065
It's a bit like Myers-Briggs personality types or astrology - fun to discuss, but not to be taken too seriously.
thank you, that makes sense!!
Video about it, if you want more info:
Love Languages: A Philosophical Horror by Big Joel 29 minutes and 56 seconds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kD6KJ_ThZio