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I straight up refuse to ever buy bt headphones. I never really had a desire to use them, and having them as the only option pisses off some deep part of my soul that hates the power being exerted for such a selfish reason.
I just don't listen to audio on my phone without playing it through a wireless speaker, or playing it through the built in speaker(in private of course). I honestly don't miss it, instead finding other ways to pass the time around other people.
I’ve been forced to resort to them since it seems pin on my power port that handles audio signal has failed.
I hate playing stuff I’m listening to on speakers, even in private, I just always feel like someone else might be around, and I don’t want to annoy them, or even worse, have them judge me. It just makes me uncomfortable.
You do realize that playing music on anything but a tiny speaker requires more power than BT+headphones? Even playing it loud in the built-in speakers can be note wasteful than later versions of Bluetooth.
Bluetooth transmission power costs are insignificant. But you don't need to justify preferring the option to have regular wired earbuds on a phone.
well played
As a firm believer in wired headphones: you can buy an adapter to plug your 3.5mm in the USB-C. IMO it's not ideal, but they're small pieces and you can keep them connected to your headphones at all times, so you don't even have to think about bringing them with you.
Personally, I made a 3.5mm jack non-negotiable for my phone, which severely limited my options. Next time I'll probably have to get an adapter... :(