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I guess getting an answer to a question of "why" is privileged. Thanks.
... the privilage is not getting to ask why, it's "fuck you and the consequences" and refusal.
Someone tells me to do something or they will punish me without explanation does seem rather privileged. If an explanation can't be produced then who's privilege trumps who's?
My guy, there are people who have jobs they HAVE TO keep, relations that they HAVE TO maintain, otherwise they find themselves out on the fucking street. That's what I'm talking about. Not everyone has their life in a state where they can just flat out say "FUCK YOU" to whoever they want. Being able to say "FUCK YOU" to whoever they want is a privilage.
First off little lady, you lost the plot. Second, you are arguing in favor of never questioning an authority. I was raised punk rock. We question. If the answer sucks thats on you not me. Fuck you is an appropriate answer to anyone who can't explain why they are hurting you.
I am not miss reading social cues, I don't have an issue with authority, I am fully away how the world works. When I ask why are my fellow citizens getting snagged off the street and not even allowed to show paperwork? Should we go ahead and throw due process out cause someone might think I'm privileged?