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I hope it's okay for me to post here. I really want to wear a binder but I struggle with the ones you pull over your head. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for ones that you can wrap around sort of? I know there are some with zips or clasps or other methods, I'm just not sure what's good. I'm a bit overweight, so I'm worried that it might sit weird or roll up or be uncomfortable, and I worry that ones with underarm fastening would be a sensory nightmare, but also that front fastening would be visible. Does anyone have any experiences to share that might be helpful? Thanks in advance.

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[-] JayJLeas@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Thanks for the reply, I'll take a look at the links! I mainly posted here because in the research I'd done I didn't find a lot of personal responses that covered my concerns, so I was hoping for more first person accounts. 💙

[-] dandelion 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

you might search within /r/ftm, I see lots of chatter about binders in there - hopefully there are useful personal accounts / experiences 🧡

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