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Part 6
In Contra's final chapter, she admits conspiracists will complain that she didn't actually prove anything they claim is wrong, i.e. she didn't spend any time debunking conspiracy theories.
She introduces Brand's law: the energy required to refute bullshit is an order of magnitude larger than the energy required to produce bullshit. Essentially debunking is not efficient, and even when something is debunked, a conspiracist will just propose a new conspiracy about why the evidence did not support their conspiracy theory.
Contra concludes that conspiracists cannot be reasoned with. This unfortunately does not bode well, since she says communication is necessary to avoid political violence.
Not only does conspiracism seem bad for democracy, it can be devastating to families, similar to the way families can lose people to addictions, people lose their family members to QAnon conspiracy theories. Contra recommends The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family by Jesselyn Cook on this topic. People get sucked into conspiracism, and it takes over their whole lives. Contra is at a loss about how to "blue pill" people once they go down the conspiracism rabbit hole, just like you can't force an addict to not be an addict, it's not clear you can cure a conspiracist of their thinking.
So Contra wonders why people get addicted to conspiracy thinking in the first place, and suggests it fulfills emotional needs:
In the end, Contra insists that elites are no different than anyone else - they don't have a special or different psychology, they are just like everyone else. Dehumanizing the elites conceals our own capacities to become oppressors. She says we should pay more attention to normal moral failings in ourselves and others, and notice how they interact with power, as well.
Rather than secret conspiracies and epic battles between good and evil, Contra thinks there are just people and power.
She ends with this:
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congratulations on finishing this!
i'll hold off on posting my thoughts until i get around to actually watching the thing. (i wonder if you'll ever see my reply 2 years from now...)
I leave a lot out - like the revenged humiliation section has three really good examples of conspiracists who became conspiracy theorists right after a particularly publicly humiliating experience - two examples of which I particularly appreciated:
Naomi Wolf was a famous liberal feminist who, during an interview, had the thesis that formed the basis of an entire book she wrote exposed as a basic misunderstanding of a legal concept. After that experience, she really lost her mind and now she is a conspiracist who posts anti-vaccine content and co-hosts a show with Steve Bannon.
Likewise, Candace Owens originally was an anti-racist activist after she experienced racist harassment in school, and she didn't become a conservative until she launched a website that essentially aimed to doxx anyone who made racist statements, which was responded to not only by universal condemnation, but also the internet doxxing her. That experience caused her to become "a conservative overnight", and now she's so anti-Semitic even the right-wing Daily Wire had to boot her from the organization.
There's so much I didn't capture or didn't represent well, so I highly recommend watching the video. It's not as long as it seems, lol. It also helps if you just watch a chapter at a time - you probably watch 10 - 20 minute videos all the time, this is just a bunch of 10 - 20 minute videos chapterized into one longer video.