Can using any/all pronouns imply your trans? (self.trans)

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I realized I don't really care how people refer to me, it feels a bit weird if it's not a he/she/they, I feel the same way for all of them like they can refer to me, does that mean I fall under the gender spectrum? or imply it? what other things could lead to me finding a label that describes me if I fall under the spectrum. I mean, I am still thinking about it, and I might be or might not be, but i am kind of lost so I just want to mainly focus on the fact I am comfertable with any pronouns to give me some basic understanding. So id like to hear your thoughts on using any/all pronouns and transness.

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[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Maybe. Or it might come off as you not caring which pronouns they use for you, and as far as I know apathy isn't a gender.

[-] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

Some people identify as agender

[-] dandelion 1 points 1 week ago

Right but there is a difference between identifying as agender (knowing you lack a gender, and preferring not to be referred to by a gender, etc.) and just feeling apathetic about what pronouns are used. The indifference could be caused by an agender identity, but it could be caused by something else.

[-] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 6 days ago

I suppose the reason behind preferences can vary wildly

[-] dandelion 1 points 6 days ago

yeah, agreed - and being agender would certainly be one of those reasons

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