93
submitted 2 years ago by dragonfucker@lemmy.nz to c/transmemes
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] PyroNeurosis 14 points 2 years ago

My interpretation here is the first person (I), second person (you), and third person (he/she/they) pronouns are disregarded and are all represented by the neopronoun "drag".

I.e. use drag whenever you reference dragonfucker and you're golden.

[-] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago

That makes sense, but what is the material difference? Isn't it ultimately the same thing by a different name?

[-] PyroNeurosis 5 points 2 years ago

Material difference of specific pronouns? Someone feels better, and I'm out no extra effort, I guess...

It's as much difference as personal preference in chocolate bar brands.

[-] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago

I totally get respecting specific pronouns, no confusion there.

I don't see how the scenario presented in OP is different from wanting to be referred to in the third person.

[-] PyroNeurosis 3 points 2 years ago

Ah! Effectively none.

Which does bring up an unusual case: how should drag be referred to as part of a group? They and drag? Or would just they suffice?

[-] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 3 points 2 years ago

They. It's the same as if you refer to a group of people with a man in it. The "he" is discarded. Drag doesn't use plural independent pronouns.

[-] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

Some degree of identity erasure is inherent with mass pronouns; interesting question!

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

If you just one for one swap you run into weird grammar.

What do drag want to do?

Is that right or..?

[-] rain_worl@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

same with swapping in 'they'! i think most pronouns are singular, only 'they' is plural due to legacy junk, see:

  • what does he want to do?
  • what does drag want to do?
  • what does the cat want to do?
  • what do they want to do?
  • what do the cats want to do?

perhaps we should move towards singular they, eg 'what does they want to do?'

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

I mean in the instance of directly addressing the person. If you 1 for 1 swap it sounds weird (what do drag), but if you change "do" to "does" it sounds like you're 3rd personing.

[-] PyroNeurosis 1 points 2 years ago

Perfect (per my understanding)!

this post was submitted on 01 Nov 2024
93 points (100.0% liked)

Trans Memes

3054 readers
821 users here now

A place to post memes relating to the transgender experience.

Rules

  1. Follow lemmy.blahaj.zone community guidelines.
  2. Posts must be trans related.
  3. No bigotry.
  4. Do not post or link to pornography.
  5. If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.
  6. Posts that assume the viewer’s gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:
  1. Mods can be arbitrary.

Because it apparently has to be said, this community is supportive of all forms of DIY HRT.

Recommendations

  1. Include other tags in posts for example:
  1. Include image description when possible.
  2. Link to source

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS