[-] oftheair 11 points 1 week ago

Hello Kitty, now with mallet.

[-] oftheair 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

We think that the focus on 'afab' is very confusing and likely disrespectful to other people's gender.

We'd say it's not really possible to be attracted to a gender assignment and probably what you mean is genitals or some other physical features.

Most nonbinary people who have worked hard to get rid of or distance themselves from their gender assignment are probably not going to appreciate you finding them attractive based on a gender assignment.

Genital or other physical features attraction is probably okay and much better than saying you are attracted to a gender assignment. If you are going to call yourself 'sapphic' then unless you are legitimately only attracted to women and lesbians, regardless of genitals or other physical features, then we suggest just explaining your attraction rather than using 'sapphic' by defining it as being attracted to people who aren't women/lesbians but who have vaginas and not being attracted to women/lebians who have penises as that's just invalidating and transphobic, nonbinary erasure etc.

[-] oftheair 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Hi there. Whilst we appreciate the thought this feels unnecessarily gender essentialist, and exclusionary to people who aren't women and still enjoy such things.

It's a good idea for a community, but perhaps it needs a better name? After all we feel like we shouldn't be promoting the idea that only women are interested, or are the only ones allowed to be interested, in such things.

[-] oftheair 10 points 1 month ago

<3 Pedro Pascal. Also We'd hope so since he works with a nonbinary actor (Bella Ramsey) and his sister is trans.

[-] oftheair 10 points 1 month ago

If you don't want staff removing them then wheatpaste. It is a lot harder to remove things that were wheatpasted. 😉

[-] oftheair 11 points 2 months ago

What is an adult?

[-] oftheair 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

From the comments section of the article, Erin clarifies:

"To answer some quick questions about my latest story:

  • It does not apply to the Visa Waiver Program as far as I can see

  • It does not impact American citizens

  • The ban exclusively impacts transgender foreigners seeking visas in the United States

  • It is far more extensive than reported elsewhere"

[-] oftheair 10 points 2 months ago

How did you know, mortal?

[-] oftheair 11 points 2 months ago

We can confirm, dreams are the most fun! Especially the weird ones.

[-] oftheair 12 points 7 months ago

[sarcasm] Mhm, 'shocking', yes, totally. [/sarcasm]

Hey Louis, have you ever heard of J.K. Rowling? Think you might want to look closer to 'home'.

[-] oftheair 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

We remember the time our patches denatured due to getting too hot. We had really bad hot flashes until we could get some more. It was hell.

We keep them in the fridge now.

[-] oftheair 12 points 8 months ago

We completely agree, Mozilla should not be run like it is i.e. a Tech Startup and should allow donations to Firefox directly.

It should become a worker owned co-op as that would make a lot of things better in the long run.

It's been clear for a while now, their current way of operating just isn't going to work and hasn't been, especially since they're adding rubbish no-one wants or needs e.g. the private adverts thing.

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