[-] chumbalumber 25 points 8 months ago

It's illegal to cycle on the pavement in many countries, and it's a danger to pedestrians.

[-] chumbalumber 24 points 10 months ago

You've come out very aggressive. How do you interpret their comment?

For me, the comment was saying that their lives had become ruled by pain (in Ils case) and Jan's impending dementia. Under these circumstances, it was the kindest thing to both of them to allow them to die.

I don't see that as bullshit platitudes?

[-] chumbalumber 25 points 10 months ago

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[-] chumbalumber 25 points 10 months ago

To add, this is not a hypothetical; it has real world consequences. When I was at uni, there was a queer night at the college bar. One of the guys there went off at my friend because my friend was in a straight relationship and had turned up. My friend got upset and left. My friend is bisexual, and at the time wasn't out and was taking baby steps into the queer scene.

If you heavily police who is and isn't allowed at queer nights, you bar those that benefit from it most: those who aren't already a part of a queer community, and looking to test the waters.

Not only that, but you end up making cishet passing queers feel unwelcome and uncomfortable. Questioning or early transition trans people already have vanishingly few spaces where they can feel welcome and, crucially, safe, without having to worry about whether they'll have their validity picked at by the Gay Police TM. Aces also have their validity questioned a lot too, which is cringe.

Bottom line: don't try to police who is and isn't allowed in queer spaces.

[-] chumbalumber 25 points 11 months ago

Poggers moment

[-] chumbalumber 23 points 11 months ago

In fairness, it's probably a psychological defence mechanism put in place to prevent the mention of St*ckport causing emotional damage.

[-] chumbalumber 24 points 1 year ago

Pretty yikesy take. If your first response to a post is to reduce someone to a sex object, that's some incel-ass vibes.

[-] chumbalumber 24 points 1 year ago

Pour it straight onto the body pillow, as God intended.

[-] chumbalumber 25 points 1 year ago

And yet the doctor tells me I have to stop snorting jizz because it's "bad for my lungs". Like, ok narc smh

[-] chumbalumber 24 points 2 years ago

What you've said doesn't really seem to me to be true in the slightest. There are many, many role models of feminine men around (F1nnst3r for a very obvious example), and the nuances of gender expression allow this so much more than in the past. We have clear conceptual differences between feminine men, non binary people, and trans women, and people are more than allowed to fit into any category they like (or build their own!).

[-] chumbalumber 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm undecided whether this meme is too obvious, or whether it's too obscure

That is, whether it's said too much, or hasn't said enough
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