It took me a few months and I still hesitate when gendering myself sometimes, but it's hesitation now, not correction. It helps that I'm out full-time now, though and have been for over a month. You'll get there, girl. Just be kind to yourself.

figma balls

I plan to be early to the point where I get uncomfortably anxious if I leave on time. I set alarms and reminders to remind me that I need to start thinking about getting ready. I try to be ready way ahead of time. I am experiencing this right now.

Not cause it's a good language or nothin' scoff who would do that?

I am mad about this.

Trailer Park Boys! I believe it's Canadian!

If you don't hold the keys, your data may as well not be encrypted.

I'm pretty sure they'd be proud and confused

I feel that. It's not perfect, but I started writing down all of my ideas as bullet points just to relieve some of the urgency. I know that I'm likely to forget about them and completely ignore the list, but it really does help, regardless. I use an app called Logseq and I have it bound to a gesture on my phone so I can open it quickly. I hope it works for you.

Heads up for anyone using Spotify Premium: the audiobook is included in your subscription. I'm tight for cash and basically only consume books in audio form, so if you already subscribe to the service, you might as well take advantage of it.

Anything you can do, the DM can do, too. Treat things like this like war crimes or your next TPK will be a goblin horde taking out the party one by one with sneak attacks and bags of holding.