[-] ada 2 points 2 days ago

Good to see!

[-] ada 3 points 2 days ago

Honestly, it depends on the doctor. My original doctor had been doing trans healthcare for decades, and she had it down to an art. She'd put them implant in my abdomen, I'd get a single stitch, and had to avoid strenuous activity for a couple of days, but it was otherwise it was minimal impact.

I asked her to put one in my butt cheek once. She'd never done that before, and it showed. It was a more troubled implant, and took me longer to recover from, and made sitting uncomfortable for a few days.

And my current GP who doesn't have quite the same experience as the first, tends to leave a bruise when he does the implant, but it otherwise heals the same as always. A single stitch, and a couple of days without strenuous activity.

[-] ada 3 points 3 days ago

About $160 AUD for the pellet. Plus whatever a long appointment with the GP costs.

[-] ada 7 points 3 days ago

Oh. Well, in that case, FYI, I get 100mg pellets and they last about 12 months

[-] ada 5 points 3 days ago

I'm on implants too. Love them precisely for that reason. Not having to think about HRT is nice

[-] ada 6 points 4 days ago

The alternative front ends display them.

The upgrade likely broke our custom image proxy. We'll get it fixed when we can!

[-] ada 5 points 6 days ago

That argument would be torn apart pretty easily

Sure. The argument can be torn apart. But that doesn't change anything. What changes when you make those sorts of arguments is simply that it gives a green light to pushing back against marginalised people.

If argument being torn apart was enough, the argument against trans folk in sport wouldn't even be an argument. But it is, because there is a political interest in creating harmful narratives about trans folk, and using exclusion from sport as a wedge to normalise exclusion in other areas. Which is exactly what is happening.

So if you're ok with that sort of question, I think you need to spend a bit more time looking at the context those questions exist in. Why is it now that people want to suddenly talk about trans people in sports. It's not because the trans folk have been doing anything different. It's because there is an explicit motivation to create a culture war, with trans folk as the targets. You shouldn't be ok with being part of that.

[-] ada 6 points 6 days ago

I'm not asking you to argue about it. I explicitly don't want people arguing about it, which I was hoping my previous comment would make clear.

There are people out there that were raised a certain way that want to change or perhaps have questions due to ignorance on the topic. By being combative, you're doing more harm than good for something you clearly care about.

If someone turns against all trans people because they encounter a single angry trans person, then they were just looking for an excuse to justify what they already felt.

And it's not my job to play nice with the people trying to erase my rights in the hope that maybe, just maybe, they'll stop what they're doing! That doesn't work. That has never worked. Every single civil right gain has been made by pushing back.

So thanks for the advice, but I'll keep pushing back

[-] ada 7 points 6 days ago

So, you'd like to argue for the validity of excluding a vulnerable group, in the middle of a world spanning hate campaign against that exact group?

[-] ada 8 points 6 days ago

So, you'd be ok with someone arguing that maybe a discussion about racism is warranted, because sometimes, a bit of racism is warranted?

Or is that only ok when it's trans people?

'cause if you want logical and consistent, that's something you need to ask yourself. Why is it that folk are quite willing to discuss the erasure of rights of just one class of people, when it's not something you'd even consider talking about with most other groups?

There is no consistency in that desire, it's not driven by a desire to be logically consistent. This is driven by political interests and think tanks trying to create social divide. It's not a co-incidence that you just want to consider the logical merits or trans folk, right now, at this moment in history.

Until you're willing to face the reasons behind that, and the impact your social context has on you, you can't be logically consistent.

[-] ada 12 points 6 days ago

What do you want changed then?

[-] ada 36 points 6 days ago

Also, if you come in expecting to debate for the removal of trans rights, you won't last long

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Kedron Brook Wetlands Reserve, Australia - March 2025

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Tiritiri Matangi, Aotearoa/New Zealand - February 2025

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Mods are asleep, post ducks!

But to keep it on topic, this is a female Rosy-billed Pochard in Buenos Aires. Taken with a Canon R50, which I used for a brief moment before returning to Olympus/OM systems

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More fishing practice!

#gull #seagull #picton #bird #aotearoa #NewZealand

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It's less then 24 hours before Tropical Cyclone Alfred hits. The sun is out, the wind is calm and it's a beautiful day.

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Cross-posted from "Kelp Gull (Larus dominicanus)" by @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone in !birding@lemmy.world


This girl was screaming the whole way as she came in for landing, and she gave me a beautiful reflection as she did!

Zealandia, Wellington, Aotearoa/New Zealand - February 2025

#bird #gull #KelpGull #Zealandia #reflection #Aotearoa #NewZealand #Larus #LarusDominicanus

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This girl was screaming the whole way as she came in for landing, and she gave me a beautiful reflection as she did!

Zealandia, Wellington, Aotearoa/New Zealand - February 2025

#bird #gull #KelpGull #Zealandia #reflection #Aotearoa #NewZealand #Larus #LarusDominicanus

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Auckland Zoo, Aotearoa/New Zealand - February 2025

#bird #kea #nestor #NestorNotabilis #Auckland #AucklandZoo #Aotearoa #NewZealand

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This is what Toombul looks like now!

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