[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 3 hours ago

Unfortunately I can't live with my parents. I probably won't have kids, but if I do, I doubt they could afford to live anywhere else. Not unless I leave the US. It's rough here.

[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 3 hours ago

That is kinda how I feel about god. This world is pretty messed up, so if some fucker did this on purpose then obviously they gotta go.

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pretty girls rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 22 hours ago

I don't see why not. If we had public golf courses, free for anyone to use, that were designed to minimize ecological harm, and incorporated other uses for the space (hiking trails, picnic tables, etc.) then I think it might actually be a really good use of land.

Also it's an easier sell. Instead of telling people to stop doing something they like, you can encourage people to adopt healthier ways of engaging in their hobby.

[-] SuperNovaStar 3 points 1 day ago

Everyone hates on golf, but I suspect we could play golf - or at least a very similar sport - on less artifical terrain.

There's literally a club for playing on sand, you're telling me you can't make a golf course out of clover or dandelions or whatever? I call bullshit.

[-] SuperNovaStar 4 points 1 day ago

But I feel like I need to pass in front of my immediate family since I'm sure I wouldn't be accepted. I love them, but they wouldn't get it.

Have you talked to them about this? I hope that they would be more accepting than you fear. Most people are.

Even my deeply conservative religious family reacted better than I expected. I mean, it still wasn't good, but it was far better than I was fearing.

Should I just accept I'll never pass?

That's a question lots of Trans people struggle with. Shoot, there's even a few songs about it.

What I will say is that "passing" is really more for broader society anyways. Once you surround yourself with people who accept you and support you, those people will see you for who you are regardless of what your body looks like. Self-acceptance and self-expression are not only more realistic goals, but I'd say they're more fulfilling.

While I can't bring myself to feel this way about myself, when I look at the other trans women I know, I think they are absolutely beautiful. Even the parts that are more clockable. Hell, especially those parts. Being trans is beautiful. Our identity is something to be proud of.

And when you find the right community, that's how they will make you feel. They will make you feel seen and accepted and loved and celebrated in your entirety without the need to hide any part of who you are.

Because you are beautiful. Even if you don't know it yet.

[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The last name is probably similar to "cha" or maybe "chia"

I know "Xin" is pronounced like "chin"

[-] SuperNovaStar 3 points 1 day ago

Gotta look for something frequently requiring novel problem solving and adaption to filter for high probability of high general intelligence.

So, to riff off another commenter - league of legends 😅

Boy is it a toxic and frustrating game but I will give it credit where it's due, you have to make good tactical decisions in not a lot of time.

I'm sure overwatch et al. work as well.

[-] SuperNovaStar 5 points 2 days ago

If you zoom in you can see the feathering. I would sincerely doubt this was photoshopped.

[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 2 days ago

I doubt you are ugly. Goblins are beautiful too!

[-] SuperNovaStar 1 points 2 days ago

There's a workout regimen for that. Enough squats and you'll fill out anything you want to wear

[-] SuperNovaStar 2 points 2 days ago

I'm great at chemistry, and would be a terrible smuggler.

[-] SuperNovaStar 8 points 3 days ago

I'll take one of each.

...oh, is this not a store?

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Any other Junglers here? (self.leagueoflegends)

Just curious. I'm in iron right now and I'm really enjoying Jungle. Playing Vi rn. What positions do you guys play?

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