I somehow managed to be in a sort of omnisexual relationship with my ex.

I'm a trans girl, full in her transition (legal name change and everything) and suspected born inter. My ex was a trans girl early in her transition and hadn't had her legal name and gender changed.

• for transphobes (my dad), we where in a gay relationship
• for the government, we where in a straight relationship
• for outsiders / regulars, we where in a lesbian relationship
• in actuality, we where in a aroace relationship where gender just didn't play a role at all

We somehow managed to represent every single letter in LGBTQIA

God I sometimes hate it that my gf is aroace, I want this sooooo badly

I mean it is an open relationship but none else wants to make out with me ;w;

Date idea: we board the ICE to Köln Hbf and play with our Nintendo 3DS together for the entire ride 👉👈🥺

~~now paint the rest of the body too for full femininity~~

I am cute and quirky precisely because I am medicated (tho it should stop in at most an hour for today... I'm scared, I've cried enough this week already)

This is the first winter on estrogen and the first winter with my heater on full blast

I'm scared of the quarterly gas bill (｡﹏ ｡*)

Particularly in smaller communities like this entire Lemmy instance, it is much harder for toxicity to develop. Pretty much everyone knows that this community is about posting "lmao i'm lonely and/or horny" memes and it's easy for new people understand that too (like it was for me).

Why does reddit have so much toxicity though? The issue is that most mods only really care about a community just being in an acceptable state. What they don't do is actually make the community into a place where you want to spend more time on. They're doing the bare minimum to moderate as many communities as possible so that they can get notoriety and moderate bigger subreddits because bigger subs (or reddit themselves) can pay those moderators.

Reddit even actively encourages this behaviour, not only by paying those mods but also with some decisions on how subreddit management works (not going into details because you could find my reddit username with that).

The moderation here is out of love for the community. I know very well that the even worst communities can be made into a cozy space with good moderation but if there's no love for the community then there's no reason for it (which creates a downwards spiral because the more toxicity, the less love for a sub, and the less love, the less proper moderation).

For context: I was a moderator for a pretty big subreddit and am the only reason why the sub still exists to this day (even if it turned to shit again after my departure)

All of that being said tho:

This image is just a taste of what's out there that can be toxic

Please tell me why this is toxic, I don't think I understand ;-;

470 hours of playtime and still missing achievements?

I'm goth myself but I'd be far too much of a bottom to sacrifice anyone TwT

Even we goths ~~want~~ need a goth gf

Is she cutting her nail on her bed???

Thank you 🤗

I didn't consider that it could be the hormonal cycle but yeah, that could very likely be it. I absolutely have noticed several things that would 100% line up with it the last few days

(Also, you just made me realize that I've been on HRT for 6 weeks already. Holy hell, time flies)

100% fully ~~plutonic~~ platonic ofc

Edit: ah shit, I suck a vocab