God I sometimes hate it that my gf is aroace, I want this sooooo badly

I mean it is an open relationship but none else wants to make out with me ;w;

Date idea: we board the ICE to Köln Hbf and play with our Nintendo 3DS together for the entire ride 👉👈🥺

~~now paint the rest of the body too for full femininity~~

I am cute and quirky precisely because I am medicated (tho it should stop in at most an hour for today... I'm scared, I've cried enough this week already)

Particularly in smaller communities like this entire Lemmy instance, it is much harder for toxicity to develop. Pretty much everyone knows that this community is about posting "lmao i'm lonely and/or horny" memes and it's easy for new people understand that too (like it was for me).

Why does reddit have so much toxicity though? The issue is that most mods only really care about a community just being in an acceptable state. What they don't do is actually make the community into a place where you want to spend more time on. They're doing the bare minimum to moderate as many communities as possible so that they can get notoriety and moderate bigger subreddits because bigger subs (or reddit themselves) can pay those moderators.

Reddit even actively encourages this behaviour, not only by paying those mods but also with some decisions on how subreddit management works (not going into details because you could find my reddit username with that).

The moderation here is out of love for the community. I know very well that the even worst communities can be made into a cozy space with good moderation but if there's no love for the community then there's no reason for it (which creates a downwards spiral because the more toxicity, the less love for a sub, and the less love, the less proper moderation).

For context: I was a moderator for a pretty big subreddit and am the only reason why the sub still exists to this day (even if it turned to shit again after my departure)

All of that being said tho:

This image is just a taste of what's out there that can be toxic

Please tell me why this is toxic, I don't think I understand ;-;

Yeah pretty much.

I'm currently in my hormonal cycle and I'm feeling pretty sick and needy and while cramps are rare (at least for me), they do happen for some odd reason and even researchers don't really know why.

Btw even cis guys have a hormone cycle but it usually doesn't have an effect like with estrogen.

(Also since you've asked, please don't use my words and stuff as a reference to how to use terms in the situation... English isn't my first language sadly)

I'm goth myself but I'd be far too much of a bottom to sacrifice anyone TwT

Even we goths ~~want~~ need a goth gf

Yeah but I wanna feel the headpats too....

I just wanna be loved and given pats and cuddled ;-;

The first draft of the meme actually had it just be "someone" and every pronoun be "they" so yeah, I feel you

Thank you 🤗

I didn't consider that it could be the hormonal cycle but yeah, that could very likely be it. I absolutely have noticed several things that would 100% line up with it the last few days

(Also, you just made me realize that I've been on HRT for 6 weeks already. Holy hell, time flies)

Well, I mean, you're part of us now. You're part of the ridiculously attractive girls club :3

I totally get you tho. I was at a local pride parade 2 months ago and I was literally completely overwhelmed by the amount of people that gave me a "OMG I NEEEED TO GO TO THEM AND HUG THEM" feeling (even if I didn't do it because shyyy). I was literally melting

100% fully ~~plutonic~~ platonic ofc

Edit: ah shit, I suck a vocab