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i have nothing to worry about now, but i am curious for the future. i (american, 19m) plan to move to europe, possibly to spain and visiting countries like portugal, france, and italy.

if the visiting doesn’t work out, then just living in spain. however, my fiancée (18f) will be staying in the u.s. with her family if i move.

i will be 7h ahead of her. now, she has dated someone from southeast Asia as a younger teen, but they broke up due to the fact that my fiancée would wake up when her ex had just gone to bed.

i suppose we could manage, like if she usually gets up at 9:00, it’d be 4pm for me, but idk.

right-wing, left-wing, liberal, whatever. i’m not too knowledgeable on politics and I feel like this is really stupid to ask, but I’m curious.

It’s a dream, so I may never fulfill it, but I’ve always wanted to start some sort of organization, like many have done, where i donate certain necessities and money to other countries—especially underdeveloped ones, possibly using tax money?

Canadians, do you put your ear to the ground and shout “hi americans!”?

i speak english, spanish, and Portuguese.

I want to learn French, Arabic, russian, Italian, and mandarin

i live in the u.s., by the way, with Hispanic relatives. i wanna focus on a new language but idk which one

probably not unusual or exciting, but yeah.

first off, we’re both men. i’m 19, he’s 18 (carl). carl used to be very energetic, sweet, affectionate, and happy.

lately, he’s been very down, which is of course uncharacteristic of carl. whenever i ask if he’s okay, he insists he’s fine, but doesn’t want to talk about it.

everything sucks to him, his energy is very low, he usually is tired. he doesn’t really care about anything either and his personality completely changed.

for background, he gets harassed and yelled at a lot for being neurodivergent, and also

idk what the exact issue is because he doesn’t want to say. i have no clue how to help.

so, a while ago, i broke up with my ex (19f) and i decided things would be better as friends and that i only saw her that way.

she told everyone we got back together and that i was her bf. she also told me “i still love you, but i think it’s wrong to cheat” because i got a gf since we broke up.

i’ve wanted to ask questions like this but i’d often get downvoted or the post would be removed.

republicada desde: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/24505846

Just uploaded it here because wouldn’t upload to Lemmy. If you could help me with the tropes you think it applies to, that would be great!