[-] MystValkyrie 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

At the time it came out, true CRPG throwbacks were still a pretty rare sight, and the few that did come out after Baldur's Gate 2 and Fallout had low production values, like Geneforge. Neverwinter Nights and to a greater extent Dragon Age were also big departures from the traditional CRPG mold.

Getting to see a new CRPG with modern graphics and lots of voice acing, but still be isometric, was really exciting. I know it's why I bought it.

But I never finished it. The intro sequence at the farm with the killer rabbits was so unbalanced, the hardest part of the game, and poorly done. It was cool that you could have different characters do dialogue and be a hardass or a smartass or a kissass, they did all feel like different flavors if the same outcome. And the game was just too long, so after putting 40 hours into it and still not being close to done, I put the game down.

Someday I'll definitely try Wasteland 3, since HowLongToBeat says it's shorter.

[-] MystValkyrie 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Best wishes! Everyone starts at this point, and things do get better. Here are my thoughts:

  1. First of all, I want to say being a lesbian isn't about how you look. One of my good friends is a butch cis woman, and she gets mistaken for a man all the time. That being said, I understand exactly how you feel. I identified outwardly as nonbinary for a long time knowing full well I was a woman because I felt like I "didn't deserve" to be a woman, much less a sapphic woman. Being on estrogen for a few years really helped with that, but the steps you make before that can go a long way too. Pre-HRT was a fantastic time for me to develop my voice, learn makeup, learn how to take care of long hair, and get laser hair removal. You list might be different.

  2. I'm not autistic, but I hope you get some more good answers in this post.

  3. I never really tried to suppress my femininity around parents while in the closet, but it might be a safety issue for you. I'm sorry if it is. But like JennyLaFae said, sometimes cis people can be really oblivious. Sometimes people would call me out for being too feminine, and I'd just roll with it and it wasn't a big deal. Otherwise, do you have friends you can be your true self around?

  4. I didn't intentionally mean for things to turn out this way, but when I met my now-long term girlfriend, she was living in a large, queer-friendly city 90 minutes away from where I was living. So when the time was right after a few years, I packed my bags and we moved in together. The bottom line is that I couldn't have afforded to live comfortably in that city alone, so I found someone to live with. Which could be a partner or a roommate.

  5. I don't know. I'm so sorry. It depends on what you're diagnosed with. Specifically for gender dysphoria, my therapist told me that I'm my own worst critic, to avoid mirrors unless there's something I specifically need to do, avoid comparing myself to other women (which for me involved quitting Instagram) and not to project how I perceive my appearance onto others. For instance, if I'm in public and feeling dysphoric, I tend to assume everyone's looking at me and thinks I look gross. But is that what they really think? Most people are so wrapped up in their own things that they don't even notice, or maybe they even think I look good.

[-] MystValkyrie 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm a fan! I like to pair my slim fit overalls with boots, either Doc Martens or the block heel ankle-length booties I have. I think Wellies would probably work really well too.

[-] MystValkyrie 4 points 2 days ago

Make of this what you will, but this bill is one step in Project 2025's outlined method of criminalizing trans women.

  1. Ban pornography
  2. Legally classify trans women as "pornographic"
  3. Arrest them for "indecent exposure" just for existing in public
[-] MystValkyrie 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yesterday, at my job as a reporter. Some men, even though I tell them how the interview/quoting process works, will just assume I'm stupid for asking "groundwork" questions without realizing I'm doing that to get quotes, which I need in his words, not mine.

I should also say my job is borderline public relations work, so I wasn't asking probing, hardball gotcha questions either. The articles are essentially free advertising for companies.

Sometimes, they'll get that I understand what I'm asking about as the interview progresses, but this man continued to give me condescending, non-sentence answers while repeatedly questioning my knowledge on the subject. Which will just make it harder to grab good quotes when I write the article, because they all come with spice. I never have these problems when I interview women.

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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by MystValkyrie to c/books@lemmy.world

So "genderpocalypse" is a typically postapocalypic, but not always sci-fi subgenre where one gender survives and another gets some disease, turns into a zombie, disappears, etc. Sometimes there's meaningful reflection on the relationships between men and women. Sometimes it can be really trashy.

I noticed among the books I'm aware of, I can't think of any where trans women are treated the same as other women, whether through the established rules of the story or through specific confirmation in the book. So this typically means that if an author wants to explore a woman-only society, they inadvertantly or otherwise depict all the trans women dying in the process. I have those listed below to head off those being suggested. That doesn't mean I think any book that establishes the genderpocalypse based on birth sex is inherently problematic or anything -- I think The End of Men handles it really well. But I was wondering if anyone knew about any stories in this genre that bases it off of gender and not sex.


Sleeping Beauties by Stephen King: The sickness tied to women falling asleep is tied to chromosomes, so trans women would stay awake based on the establed rules of the story.

Y: The Last Man by Brian K. Vaughan: All the trans women die with the men.

Afterland by Lauren Beukes: All the trans women die of prostate cancer along with the men.

The End of Men by Christina Baird: The virus in the book targets trans women and men, but there is a trans woman character and it's depicted sympathetically, in terms of the dysphoria that would come from a y-chromomosome disease targeting them.

Manhunt by Gretchen-Felker Martin: Men and trans women turn into mindless zombies, unless the trans women eat licorice, for some reason.

The Men by Sandra Newman: All men and trans women mysteriously disappear one day, despite the title.

Femlandia by Christana Dalcher: A non sci-fi apocalyptic example. The premise is that society and economics collapse at the hands of men, leading men and women to segregate and form separate societies. In the book, trans women are kept out of womens' societies.

[-] MystValkyrie 6 points 4 days ago

I love this post. I can be very self-critical.

I have really long legs, and I like my wavy hair. I'm learning to love being tall the more I develop my wardrobe of clothes that fit.

[-] MystValkyrie 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I kind of just hate the daily news cycle. The hourly news cycle on social media sites is even worse.

Trump says a bunch of awful things on a daily basis. His regime is a threat to democracy. No one voted for Elon. But we don't need an article for every little things he says or does. Trump was a nobody oddball candidate that no one liked, and then he got disproportionately more news coverage from both liberal and conservative outlets compared to any other presidential candidate in 2016, day after day. That may have been why he was elected.

News outlets are incentivized to do this thanks to the advertising model and moving to web-only. It's always so incendiary and tabloid-like. It's done so much damage to society. People are making it worse by repeatedly clicking and sharing stuff from the daily news cycle instead of, as OP said, better journalism. It's tricky, though, because the best journalism tends not to be behind a subscription model and not free, so how do you share it?

I read The Week now every Friday. I'm subscribed to the print magazine, but it's also available free on Libby for Americans. The Week isn't perfect; any weekly newspaper will do, though there's not many left. I try to avoid news every other day of the week. My mental health has improved a bit (as much as can be expected for a person living in America) and I find I'm capable of thinking more critically about what I read.

[-] MystValkyrie 6 points 1 week ago

I deeply wish this would happen, but know it would never happen in my lifetime in my country.

I've been working full time, sometimes overtime, for almost five years out of college. I want to practice piano more. I'd love to volunteer. I want to go outside more. I've always wanted to spend a month backpacking in the Pacific Northwest. It's been my lifelong dream to write a book.

I'm so exhausted after work every single day that I can only get myself to play piano for a half an hour, and then play video games or read until I pass out before my bedtime.

[-] MystValkyrie 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

My first dress ever was a pinafore dress. Would recommend, especially if it's an A-line that flares out.

That was cheap and from Amazon and I bought it years ago before the fastener broke, so I treated myself earlier this year and finally bought a nice new one from Son de Flor. It's really well made and beautiful and, hopefully, it'll outlive me.

[-] MystValkyrie 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm not 100% sure, I think mesh? But it seems like the fabric from their tucking underwear varies from pair to pair. (From their FAQ: "When you place an order, the fabrics may not be the same as previous orders.")

They have some bras and underwear specifically designated as bamboo, which is just as good as merino, but it's seemingly only for their non-tucking underwear.

[-] MystValkyrie 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Oh, I hike day trips all the time while tucking. I don't really notice anymore haha. I just don't want to smell bad on a three-day trip!

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submitted 3 weeks ago by MystValkyrie to c/mtf

Hi all,

I’m going on a backpacking trip in a month, and the only tucking underwear I’ve ever heard of is LeoLines and TomboyX, but I might as well ask if there’s anything else. Bonus points if it uses a material like merino wool.

I use both brands for normal daily use, but Leolines is made from cotton and TomboyX is polyester, both of which are not great for temperature and odor control during outdoor trips.

Tucking the old-school way sounds super confusing, so I’d rather not resort to that.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by MystValkyrie to c/asktransgender

Hi all,

I'm going on a backpacking trip in a month, and the only tucking underwear I've ever heard of is LeoLines and TomboyX, but I might as well ask if there's anything else. Bonus points if it uses a material like merino wool.

I use both brands for normal daily use, but Leolines is made from cotton and TomboyX is polyester, both of which are quite bad for temperature and odor control.

Tucking the old-school way sounds super confusing, so I'd rather not resort to that.

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