[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

En tant que Belgo-suisse, j'affirme de manière authoritative que: Les belges font les meilleures pralines. Les suisses font le meilleurs chocolat.

Je profite de ce moment de débat constructif pour mentionner que: Gruyère AOP Suisse >> Conté. De manière totalement non-biaisée, bien-sûr.

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 10 points 2 months ago

Internet parle plusieurs langue. Fais avec.

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I just saw some joke/post about flat earthers menacing badly behaving people with taking them over the edge. But what if this was actually really fun? Essentially you'd be in freefall without having to use a rocket to go to space! You could also throw yourself out with everything that is needed to build a civilisation in space and live your fullest science fiction dreams without the hardships of actually reaching space.

This is ofc a big thought experiment based on the earth being flat, and there are many variables that can make the experience of jumping over the edge more or less fun. Maybe hitting the surface of the first turtle would hurt ("turtles all the way down" hypothesis), but then... maybe pating the cosmic turtle on the head is very fullfulling.

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 4 points 4 months ago

During the pandemic, discord has been a lifeline for me and I did not find alternatives that had a specific feature that may appear irrelevant but that I found deeply comforting: When people are hanging out in a vocal channel, you can see them. It was not much, but it was the closest we had to going to university and seeing groups of friends just chilling together.

There are many other platforms for text and vocal chats, but this is a feature I am still looking for.

Prove me wrong !

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submitted 4 months ago by LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu to c/mtf

Hey girls and friends!

I am kinda timid even if I really like social contact, and for most of my life I have mostly had guy friends. I guess it's because it's easier to approach and be approched by guys when you whole body says that you are a guy... Also I was a student in computer science so there are mostly guys. Essentially my close-friends group is mostly trans girls and non-binary AFAB and guys. It's been a bit of an anxiety of mine that cis women wouldn't see me as a woman, but as a kinda creepy guy....

This week I contacted an old girl-friend of mine from Highschool and suggested that we had a drink since we hadn't seen each other in years. I also came out by message. The discussion at the bar was great and it was basically the first time that a cis woman welcomed me into womanhood. She discussed about how being a woman was awesome and that I will love it. This is so great. I have essentially never had a AFAB person tell me how womanhood is great, only about how bad it is.

Yesterday I attended another social event and the few girls there also treated me as one of their own. So yay, I place this week under the umbrella of "Being accepted by cis girls" and I love it! Much acceptance and validation <3

How's it for you? How was your week?

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 76 points 4 months ago

Is this a mute/deaf person giving a talk, or a talking/hearing person being incredibly based?

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 7 points 4 months ago

Probably the US will do that too :)

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 12 points 4 months ago

There's a browser extension to replace click bait by user-generated descriptive titles. I always forget the name tho. It also works with Freetube.

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 15 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Crying in bed because I wasn't a girl should have been a definite tell :) But it always went better at some point before it became impossible to hold back so I never sought help. My teens were loops of doubts, then certainty but too scared to talk.

In my later adolescence I realised I (or started to) liked guys, and I was able to to feel better about being one. And I had a few adventures with guys as a guy which felt great and I thus believed that my trans phase had passed, for a few years.

During that time I often described myself as "I don't really care/I could be either, but people say I'm a guy so ok" but I still had a little (repressed?) desire to be seen as a girl. And I was weirdly emotional about being treated as a guy by laws that differentiate between men and women (military service/retirement age)

Then I had to work as a kitchen assistant, mostly with women, and being treated as a non-woman by them felt really bad. (Previously I was in an environment that didn't really feel gendered) And the outfit made me look vaguely feminine and I liked it and awoke my desires to be seen as a girl and experiment with clothing and nail polish.

As I experimented, it completely shattered my egg, I slowly came out to friends, and 14 days ago, started HRT!

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 6 points 5 months ago

Oh I didn't mean your breast buds; even if my feeling of softer skin is placebo, well, the effect is still that I feel like I have softer skin.

But like you said, having effects in the first week is possible so it's (my skin) probably not placebo in the first place

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 7 points 5 months ago

The beauty with placebo is that it works even tho you know it's placebo :p

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 7 points 5 months ago

I didn't think about that! Thanks for the tip

[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Oh great to hear it :D

I don't know what kind of feeling I was expecting but I believed that I would be able to feel the change in hormones :p

Also: My endocrinologist (spelling???) told me that quite quickly new fat would be deposited in girlies spots. I already ate quite a lot this weekend. Let's put this claim to the test^^

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submitted 5 months ago by LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu to c/mtf

Hey girls and friends, I am 8 days on hrt and I feel like my skin is already softer ??? Is it even possible or am I just imagining it?

Nothing else seems to have changed.

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[-] LegoBrickOnFire@jlai.lu 3 points 10 months ago

I tested with the reflection of things on my cook-top while making pancakes (TMI) and the reflections were definetly shorter the more I looked from above. I believe it is because the things in the reflection are "further away" hence smaller. The reflection of my duck is definetly too small tho, I'll be more carefull next time :D

Thanks for the explanation it really helped wraping my head around the thing.

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If you pros have tips and tricks on how to improve next time, I'm glad to hear it. (Like, if you see that I have comited a sin)

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