[-] FirstMajesticComet 24 points 1 month ago

It ultimately isn't surprising. Drag has been very sus from the beginning, drag exhibited a lot of behaviors that made me leery. Though at the time I didn't say anything since it was only a hunch and most people were just voicing transphobic complaints about pronouns.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 24 points 1 month ago

This is funny, but yeah, super bad gun safety. It's best to keep it in a holster, not shoved into your pants.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 22 points 1 month ago

Ah so you are complaining about a rule that's meant to protect trans people. Let us be clear honey, Neopronoun users are trans, and discrimination towards them is transphobic.

Sorry you don’t agree with me that trolls equating gender identity to beastiality and pedophilia shouldn’t be respected or legitimized. But I don’t want to spend time in a space where I have to respect them by law.

Lemmy.blahaj.zone does not allow or condone bestiality or pedophilia, and it never has. This is an outright lie and it goes to show that you are absolutely without a doubt acting in bad faith right now.

Sorry you think this is a funny gotcha

You just openly admitted that your reasons were transphobic and made a disgusting false accusation towards @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone of condoning or allowing bestiality and pedophilia on this instance. You literally just discredited yourself and your own argument 🤣

[-] FirstMajesticComet 22 points 1 month ago

The people who have been getting banned by @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone are instance banned for transphobia or apologia. This is something you shouldn't leave out or ignore. When a person is banned from an instance they are automatically banned from any communities they have participated in there.

She's not power-tripping by banning them from the instance, most people banned from blahaj.zone deserve it, and aren't safe around queer people. Something that is kind of a requirement to participate in communities that are meant to be queer safe spaces.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 23 points 1 month ago

As a note because I forgot to include it in the main article. Some people may say they are egging others as a "joke" or "harmless teasing". While they may have that intention, it unfortunately doesn't often come off that way for the person receiving it. If anything it may come off as a practical joke, or a joke at their expense. Something that isn't funny to them, and that they aren't going to laugh at. Please don't egg other people as a joke, we don't find it funny, they don't find it funny. Only you find the joke funny, an at their expense no less. That behavior has a name, its Bullying.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 24 points 2 months ago

I think we should just keep the original !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone and pass control of this one on to the mods of the other one. If the existing mod team wants to leave that's their choice but we shouldn't end up losing this great community just because they want to migrate. This is our community.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 23 points 3 months ago

I personally find them to be very comfortable, and they do look awesome. Though not everyone might agree, different strokes for different folks.

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submitted 4 months ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/196
[-] FirstMajesticComet 22 points 5 months ago

You didn't do anything wrong by the way OP, I just leave these reminders on posts where it seems like violations may happen in the comments to remind others to keep it together.

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submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by FirstMajesticComet to c/egg_irl
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Femboy rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 5 months ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/196
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submitted 5 months ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/egg_irl

Share some activities you've been interested in doing but couldn't do because you're closeted.

Transmasc, Transfem, Nonbinary, and Gender Non-Conforming answers are all welcome and encouraged here.

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submitted 1 year ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/asktransgender

So I dealt with a nasty person a few days ago and one of the things this person did was calling people pick-mes while accusing them of being transphobic. The problem is I have no idea what this word or phrase means. I know it isn't good but I don't really understand how it relates to someone other than somehow being connected or associated with transphobia, and also likely being insulting.

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submitted 1 year ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/transmedicalism

Decided to set up this community as well as !truscum@lemmy.blahaj.zone because I know that in the future transmedicalists might want to try setting up here. Transmedicalism is one of the most toxic forms of gatekeeping plaguing the trans community, they actively invalidate people based on "not being trans enough", they constantly attack NonBinary and Xenogender people claiming that they're "just cis and want to feel special". I've also seen them attack GNC people claiming that they're "appropriating the trans experience".

Obviously these people are very toxic and have no place in Blahaj.zone and probably the trans and queer community as a whole. That's why I have made these comms as placeholders to ensure that they can't just set up a space here.

I would be open to turning either of these communities into support communities for people to discuss being hurt by or the damaging aspects of transmedicalism. Please let me know if that seems like a good idea, if not I'm sure someone can always make a dedicated community for that purpose (I'll put a redirect there in the description if that happens).

Disclaimer, if anyone fights or posts toxic shit in the comments, (especially transmedicalists) I will just lock the thread and move on, be respectful.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by FirstMajesticComet to c/asktransgender

I'm just wondering since some person on Mastodon said it, (almost certainly a troll due to their toxic behavior) and I was wondering what it actually means or if it's something that is just made up. I tried searching on Google and there weren't really any meaningful results, just people talking about and complaining about it.

So if anyone has any information on this it would be great if you shared it. Thanks

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Egg_irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by FirstMajesticComet to c/egg_irl

Meme Text:

Reminder

Being an Egg doesn't mean you'll inevitably come out as trans - it means you're taking some time to figure yourself out, regardless of the result. Trans or cis, binary or nonbinary, gender conforming or not you're always welcome here!


My commentary:

I saw this meme a while back and really liked it. I thought after the extremely turbulent events recently it would be a good idea to post this as a reminder for us all to remember what's important, and to respect each other both before and after the questioning process, regardless of how people identify afterwards.

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nyanbinyary_irl (cdn.blahaj.zone)

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/8128267

Text: "Visualizing in the mirror the man i want t obecome"

In the mirror is an Androgynous looking cat character wearing fem clothes

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egg_irl [NonBinary] (cdn.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago by FirstMajesticComet to c/egg_irl

Text: "Visualizing in the mirror the man i want t obecome"

In the mirror is an Androgynous looking cat character wearing fem clothes

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by FirstMajesticComet to c/support@lemmy.world

Hello I'd like to request removal of my communties !feminineboys@lemmy.blahaj.zone and !isogender@lemmy.blahaj.zone from Lemmy.world as I do not want users from this instance posting or commenting here in these communities.

Even if you lift the ban you placed on my account I still want them removed from the Lemmy.world instance.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 22 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure why people think reptiles are slimy, they're not, their skin feels more leathery or like smooth plastic or vinyl. Hardly what I would call slimy. Amphibians are slimy, which makes sense since amphibians have permeable skin but reptiles have impermeable skin (it's actually more impermeable than ours) so it stands to reason that to would not feel wet or slimy at all, and they pretty much don't.

I would disagree though that pythons feel smooth, they do still have that rough reptilian feel, they don't don't feel gross though, at least I don't think so. If you have Herpetophobia you might disagree with my take.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 21 points 1 year ago

I mean I'm Aroace so I can do without kissing, it would feel weird (also kinda gross).

[-] FirstMajesticComet 21 points 2 years ago

They exited on mutual agreement I guess

Well technically not mutual agreement until/unless we also defederate from them. Which I still am in support of.

[-] FirstMajesticComet 24 points 2 years ago

It's not a load problem though, it's because some loser is DDoSing the server. Doesn't hurt to move to other instances where it isn't happening but the real solution would be to find who's doing this so they can be brought to justice (or silenced from the internet forever, whichever is easier).

Please tell others to stop misrepresenting this issue, it is an attack, not a user overload problem and nobody who's misrepresenting it that way is doing anyone any favors except the attackers by presenting it as such. Instead it should be presented as what it is.

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