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[-] hirihit640@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago

I used to never really care about fashion. Felt like a stupid status symbol. But I once went to a big city in east asia, and I was impressed by how nicely everybody dressed. Everybody felt like they complemented the environment, and I felt like I stook out like a sore thumb.

I feel like that's an underappreciated side of fashion. Dressing up to fit the environment, to avoid ruining overall aesthetics. It's less about the individual, more about the community. In this asian city I also noticed that people weren't as loud and disruptive in public spaces. It feels like the same concept. You try not to make loud noises to disturb others, and you try not to dress so badly as to clash with the environment.

It really feels like a cultural difference between the east and west, and I feel like the west could learn a bit from the east here.

So if you're going to a fine dining restaurant with ornate decor and chandeliers, dress up in fancy clothes. If you're just walking around a popular spot in the city, casual is fine but look at how people are dressed around you and try not to clash. The goal isn't to look amazing and draw attention, the goal is to avoid looking out-of-place.

[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

That definitely wasn't my wardrobe approach. One of my main inspirations as I was learning how to dress better was Chalky White from Boardwalk Empire.

I like colors. Tended toward the ostentatious. But I was working in politics, so it helped to be eye-catching.

[-] Erna_muse@lemmy.zip 6 points 11 hours ago

I remember parts of this show being oddly dark. I'd watch a reboot that was all about America declining but with dinosaurs.

[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

The ending was about as bleak as endings get.

[-] rangber@lemmy.zip 7 points 14 hours ago

This Twitter channel is pretty racist btw.

[-] modus@lemmy.world 12 points 12 hours ago

~~This~~ Twitter ~~channel~~ is pretty racist btw.

FTFY

[-] Wander@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 day ago

All of western history people cared about how they look.

Now people just go out wearing some advertisement for some stupid company.

Self respect and respect for the community is gone.

[-] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 19 points 21 hours ago

Being concerned about what strangers think of you & your attire is the opposite of self-respect.

[-] Wander@sh.itjust.works 3 points 15 hours ago

Mental take. Humans are fundamentaly are pack animals that are built for connection and community.

The most important thing about being human is working with others. Caring about what others think of you and you caring about them is of vital importance.

[-] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

I agree that carrying about others and showing empathy is vitally important, but I am not the least bit concerned what you think if you're judging me or others simply based on what we're wearing, assuming it's not intentionally offensive or indecent.

People who are more concerned about how they are perceived by others than who they are as a person have a problem and likely don't know it. Dressing stylish or fancy is not itself evidence of self-respect, and being overly concerned about how strangers perceive you can be the exact opposite.

[-] Wander@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

We aren't talking about being fancy or stylish.

We are talking about people dressing poorly. Sure if you want to wear gym clothes at the gym or walking around fine. Additionally I haven't got issues with tradies getting a sandwich on a lunch break but they shouldn't be wearing that to a sit down dinner on a date after work.

[-] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

But we are also quite smart animals, the dressing up shit is just something we have imposed on ourselves(which origins from rich people btw), we, with time can learn to disregard that bullshit to a certain extent

[-] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 42 points 1 day ago

Why do 'Murican "car guys" make owning a car (well, the finance company really owns it) their whole personality?

It's a car

Like dickheads who wear Harley clothing to advertise the fact that they're afraid of going around corners and desperately need attention

[-] mattyroses@lemmy.today 10 points 16 hours ago

Fun fact, for decades Harley has made more selling their clothes to wannabes than selling their shit bikes to dentists with a midlife crisis

[-] nickiwest@lemmy.world 23 points 23 hours ago

Not nearly as bad as the lady who briefly worked in my office. She had a ton of Harley-Davidson accessories. Literally the first thing she told us was that she and her husband love the brand and riding motorcycles. I asked how many Harleys they had. The answer? Zero, but they hoped to buy one someday.

They made "hoping to own something" their whole personality.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 4 points 8 hours ago

They made “hoping to own something” their whole personality.

The American Dream.

[-] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

I wonder what will happen when they can actually afford to buy a Harley, and realize they're not very good bikes?

[-] BeardedBlaze@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

To be fair, it's not just an American thing. Plenty of beemer bros in Europe.

[-] Spezi@feddit.org 11 points 1 day ago
[-] ieGod@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 day ago

One thing that always surprises me in the US is the sneaker obsession. Especially NY. I'll see well dressed people in a suit and then goofy ass sneakers. Looks awful.

[-] JordanZ@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Grew up near Chicago…

A lot of those people commute into the city and walk several blocks to their building. Sneakers are just better for that. Most probably keep dress shoes at the office and change at work. Also makes your dress shoes last longer and keeps them all polished up.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago
[-] brownsugga@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

A well made pair of leather dress shoes will eventually mold themselves to your feet. It's a different feeling to a sneaker, not fabric and foam rubber obv, but they can be super comfy. I've even got a pair of Frye boots I've had for like 20 years that feel tight when you first pull them on but then they're just like a second skin, you forget they're even there

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago

People have told me this about dress and other kinds of shoes. But it's not true for me so far. I've only found a few types of shoes that I can walk comfortably in period, and even just sitting, the dress shoes I've worn feel very narrow for me and have a hard and uncomfortable sole.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 2 points 8 hours ago

Oh man I've got hammer toes on one foot and you've made me realize that one of them has gotten really bad since the last time I had to wear anything more than sneakers.

I'm actually dreading the next time I have to wear dress shoes now. And I'm a 14WW, it's hard enough finding shoes without toe conditions adding on top. I think I just need to find a cobbler, at this point.

[-] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Damn, that sounds rough. I hope you find some shoes that work for you!

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