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[Venting, neutral] Finally got referred (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 6 days ago by akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/mtf
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AMAB 37 Sweden

After an arduous back and forth between my local clinic, four different physicians, one tax funded psychiatrist and one private counsellor, I finally met a doctor at my local clinic who simply listened. I felt no need whatsoever to defend myself or to explain myself to death, as these things otherwise usually go in this country's health care system. They told me that the depression and anxiety disorders that I had been diagnosed with a few years back can display similar symptoms to gender dysphoria. Also, the traditional treatments for depression and anxiety - therapy and medication - had not yielded the desired effects, which they deemd to be yet another indication that referring me to a gender identity clinic would be "worth it". Gee thanks... -_-

I felt both happy and empty on the inside, at the same time. It was like a huge weight fell off of me, but I had never imagined that somebody would every take my desire to be able to love myself seriously, so I was in some sort of shock, I guess.

All in all, the referral is away, and now I'm waiting to hear from the specialist clinic.

Cheers (with coffee).

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[-] AzuraTheSpellkissed 2 points 6 days ago

Let's celebrate the progress instead of morning how long it took. Also, you are paving the way for other/future trans people on your area, and I'd like to thank you for that.

[-] quantumgenderino 2 points 6 days ago

Congrats on finally breaking through medical beaurocracy and stubbornness! It sucks that anyone has to go through that, and it still baffles me that there are trans care centered clinics that won't take a self referral for gender dysphoria when the way to diagnose it is to ask if you experience it. I hope things get better for you from here! ❤️

[-] Bryllyg@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

I am so glad for you that you were able to take a further step on your journey. It must be exausting to have so many hoops to jump through perfectly in order to convince those in power to help. I hope that things go smoother for you now! Grats hon

[-] erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

aaaaaa vrry pain hug you!!!!

They told me that the depression and anxiety disorders that I had been diagnosed with a few years back can display similar symptoms to gender dysphoria. i had similar loool but in third world hole

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