my first stepdad is what we’d now call trans, but in the very early 1990’s they were “simply” a gay man divorcing my mom who wanted also to be a woman. (90’s thoughts a ten year old me would think at that time)
i have not seen them for a very long while and i’m mid 40’s now. But from that marriage I got my brother. And I never clashed with that step parent. So I’d like to think if I saw them in the grocery store I would be able to recall fond memories.
From what I know (brother also lost contact with them) - they transitioned and are doing fine. i am glad for that.
Dunno why I rambled. Post just brought back good memories. Maybe I just miss the 1980/90’s. Sigh.