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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by dandelion to c/lgbtq_plus

I keep hearing it repeated in sapphic circles that scissoring is a myth; pretty sure it's not 😁

EDIT: I found these instructions helpful:

I literally thought scissoring was not a real thing people did until my girlfriend just climbed on top of me and started doing it. And then I ate my words and it was super super great, would recommend.

Positioning is key. It's not like anything you'll see in porn. The way we do it, person 1 lies down face up with her legs spread (like someone's about to eat you out) and person 2 positions her clit over 1's clit, usually positioned diagonally over 1 (IE with one leg on the outside of 1's leg, one leg between 1's legs). Then 2 moves her hips to rub her clit against 1's and 1 press her hips up into 2. But really any position where you can get your clits touching and neither of you are uncomfortable, you're probably going to have a good time.

Oh also, fun thing about scissoring, if you're a multiple orgasm kind of person (like me) scissoring is suuuper fun because the sensation is more subtle and you can just cum like, forever (idk about y'all but I can at least). Orgasm 1 usually isn't as intense for me but by the time I'm hitting orgasm 4 or 5, ohhhhhhhhmygd it's amazing.

Oh and this position is super fun with my girl's clit piercing, feels real great.

https://old.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/3pxam9/advice_needed_how_to_scissor_affectively/cwa7mq4/

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[-] SharkWeek 22 points 1 week ago
[-] dandelion 8 points 1 week ago

agreed 😁

[-] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago
[-] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It's not like in porn. It's one of those things that's fun to do once but it's not gong to get you off, just it's kind of sexy. The positioning is difficult to maintain and there's not a lot of stimulation since it's not really aligning your clits together very well. Also, both people have to be thin to get it to work well.

It can probably be fun if you add a shorter, double-sided dildo to get some extra stimulation and have the right ramps or pillows to get into just the right position. You can reposition to grind on each other's legs, but not both at the same time like you can in some face to face positions. And there are ways to get it to work if you have the stamina to hold your body in an awkward position. But for the majority of women, it's usually not worth the effort.

That said, try it out. You never know until you try and everyone's body shape, flexibility, and stimulation zones are different.

[-] SharkWeek 1 points 1 week ago

The thing that's usually stopped me has been simply the amount of space in the bed ... plus other practical limitations like if it's winter how do you stay wrapped up and do it, etc

[-] Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 week ago

Step 1:
Sharpen your thighs

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