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My DND group is all men, because it's just me. Someone please play with me.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

All my friends got married and now half the table is spouses with a few spots reserved for a cameo from one of the kids

[-] ada 158 points 2 days ago

My D&D group started off with one token girl. Then he transitioned. So I became the token girl.

[-] baines@lemmy.cafe 71 points 2 days ago

the ratio must be maintained!

[-] DmMacniel@feddit.org 20 points 2 days ago

Good good the ratio is prosperous.

[-] mech@feddit.org 43 points 2 days ago

Thank you for your service!

[-] hungprocess@thriv.social 91 points 2 days ago

Some West African frogs have been known to spontaneously change sex from male to female in a single sex environment. Malcolm was right. Life found a way.

-- Dr. Alan Grant, Jurassic Park

[-] sirblastalot@ttrpg.network 76 points 2 days ago

I used to only have one (seemingly) female friend, and then that friend transitioned, and I started to worry what it said about me that I only had male friends. Fortunately, a year or two later most of my other friends transitioned in the other direction and balance was restored.

[-] Siethron@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I was in an all guys group but then the DM and 3 of the guys had kids so it ended.

I imagine there's a lower percentage of trans players outside of these online spaces

[-] buttnugget@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Trans people are like 1% of the population, so I’m sure of that.

[-] MasterNerd@lemmy.zip 54 points 2 days ago

This is very true. My D&D group started out with 5 guys. Now it's just me and a bunch of girls

[-] vladmech@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago

Yea my group is myself and one other guy, and then four gals.

I am happy that trans people can be who they want to be, even if there is still a long way to go. But I am thrown by how statistics, that consistently give numbers of <1% to 3% for transsexual people in the general population, don't match the number of transitioning stories I read online. I get why that is, safe space, confirmation bias and all, but it's such a major disconnect between experience and actual numbers that it constantly trips me up. From what I read online, the percentage of trans people feels like it's around 20-30%. Or, in this case, 50%.

[-] verdi@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago

It's the same bias as cops and black people. The real questions is how that bias came to be while the class struggle is consistently ignored.

[-] carotte 35 points 2 days ago

on top of what others have said, cis people don’t really tell the stories of their non-transition, do they

no one will be like "my DnD group was all men. it’s still all men no one transitioned", even if it’s probably the most common experience lol

[-] Bongles@lemmy.zip 42 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Percentages get crazy when you start talking about 8 billion people. 1% is 80 million. If 1% of that found lemmy the ~~active~~ user base would be almost half Trans. (I found around 1.2 million ~~active~~ lemmy users on some website, and 800,000 is 1% of 80,000,000)

[-] balsoft@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

1.2 million active lemmy users

There's no way that's true. I'd guess there are ~30000 active users on the entire threadiverse. 1.2 million is total registered users ever, across all servers, including spambots and such.

[-] Bongles@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Beats me, I didn't pull the data.

https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/stats

(I struck out "active" from my original comment)

[-] hughperman@mander.xyz 27 points 2 days ago

There's another phenomenon that interacts here - there is an observed higher prevalence of LGBTQ in autism (discussed here https://sparkforautism.org/discover_article/autism-lgbtq-identity/ and various research papers). Niche forums such as Lemmy, Fediverse, even Reddit all feel like they also have a higher autism spectrum prevalence than a general population. So I would guess there's a double whammy on representation happening here - extra representation via safe space and shared interest on LGBTQ, extra representation ij autism spectrum, and an extra overlap between these two populations.

[-] queermunist@lemmy.ml 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

We subconsciously find each other and vibe with each other, our friend groups are reflections of ourselves.

Sometimes it doesn't work out that way by random chance, but it's definitely too common to be a coincidence.

[-] guy@piefed.social 16 points 2 days ago

Aren't >95% of people online lurkers? With that in mind, is it really surprising that the amount of trans stories are many? I mean, why would someone post a story about how they're not trans.

[-] mrsemi@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Weird. I started prefacing everything I said in World of Warcraft chat with "I'm not gay, but" and people found it super offensive.

I mean, it's just really important to me as a person that others know I am not gay.

I'm not gay btw.

[-] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 days ago

According to a survey i have recently done, with answers from people from all 7 continents, over 94% of people are trans

I tried to get answers from people who were least likely to be closeted to ensure the most accurate data

[-] Hexarei@beehaw.org 11 points 2 days ago

My group started with two guys and three girls. Now I'm one of the girls and the guy is the only one

1% is 1/100. So not on every bus, but every 2 or 3 busses.

Also tend to be poorer, like public transit. So maybe every bus.

[-] Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Ehhh... Where'd that come from?

[-] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Might just be where trans people spawn if there aren't any trains nearby. I know straight cis people come in at the DMV sports games and starbucks

[-] Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

How's this related to the gender ratio in the Dungeons & Dragons community?

I think I meant yo reply to a comment about the rarity of trans people relative to how often one hears trans narratives, so I gave context to how often that is. Therefore: straight cis people spawn at starbucks

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