We bought full size candy bars for our neighborhood and were so excited. We probably got 15 trick or treaters. Meanwhile the rich neighborhoods were packed apparently. This year sucked.
OP you have clearly never been to military housing for Halloween.
Hands down it is the best trick or treating and trust me those neighborhoods are poverty levels.
I will absolutely knock the trunk or treat concept. It has removed kids from their surroundings. One key concept from trick or treating back in the day is meeting your neighbors (with the safety of your parents behind you) and briefly seeing in their houses and getting vibes. If shit went bad, I bet you'd have a safe space picked out from Halloween night to go to. And I bet you recall houses that don't seem safe. This is important to the childhood psyche, I feel. And trunk or treat pulls that all away. And, you're right, so do rich neighborhoods. I'm two blocks off of one those streets. They were absolutely packed on that street. We got zero trick or treaters at our place (our first Halloween here).
In the 15 years I’ve been in my current house I think I’ve seen trick or treaters come down maybe a handful of times. I’m only a block off the main road, but my street stops at the corner on one end (not a dead end, just have to turn), so if you aren’t starting from that end, coming down is a waste.
More importantly, I live in a very very old part of town sort of on the outskirts (my house was built in 1880, and I’m like 2 blocks from fields and woods, for perspective), and the parts on the other side of the river are much newer and more like suburbs.. my side of town has a larger proportion of expensive houses, but they are between shitty cheap super old houses like mine, rather than consistently mid-range.
When I was a kid the only time I ever did the drive to a rich area was when I was like 14 and went with a friend for the first time (my parents changed my school every year from 5th grade through graduating so having a friend was ultra-rare, especially that early in the school year). It was surreal. Huge fancy houses that you -had- to drive to because they were so far apart, but full size candy…
I feel you. I think the concept of trunk or treats is a great idea for folks who live in apartments, etc. It has been coopted to those rich neighborhoods too however. The rich neighborhood here had a street closure trunk or treat the week prior to Halloween and so they get double the Halloween and we get nothing. We got one kid. 😩
Anecdotally, it seems kids favour neighbourhoods with smaller (or at least narrower) lots and flat ground for candymaxxing.
Eat the rich (neighbors' candy)
Oh absolutely, I just want far more than simply their candy for all of us.
We went around our neighborhood which doesn't get much traffic and people were handing out full size candy bars and several houses offered us adults beer and mini bottles of alcohol. You won't get that in a rich neighborhood.
We had one family and they got the red carpet treatment. We are trying!
Very frustrating, but my decidedly not rich neighborhood was pretty great this year. But I live in a house.
What I don't understand is why aren't apartments more hopping with trick or treaters? Isn't having more households closer together MORE conducive to getting more candy? And better for being able to hang with some neighbors?
Apartments are hard to signal whether or not you're open for business. I can't control my front door lighting.
Good point, I have only lived in a few apartments with an exterior light I could control. (Door opened directly outside, no breezeway/interior hallway.) But if you're on foot and in close proximity anyway, I would still imagine a sign/wreath/anything else you could hang or tape up would be a satisfactory indicator.
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