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Black text on white background reading “when i say "if i recall" or "if i remember correctly" i am being polite about being right. i remember and i am correct.”
My memory is actually not 100% there so when I use those phrases I do mean "if I recall correctly", lol. I think I use "we're all free to think what we think" if I wanna keep the conversation going or "fair enough" when I wanna exit it. 👍
My memory is terrible too, but I pretty much only use those phrases when I'm 100% sure I do recall. The rest of the time I feel like it isn't worth speaking up at all.
Yeah lol I use it because I often remember the start of a point, but never what we ended up deciding/nuance of the particular pribkem
Or you're a woman talking to a certain type of man, and want to avoid an argument if he decides what he thinks is correct when it isn't ... or just try to use passive wording as much as possible in general so you don't get fired for being 'a bitch'.
Urgh! I rarely encountered it, but the need to tiptoe around (some) men’s who makes my skin crawl…
Many of them are at least a bit sensitive, so I just use the same wording for all men these days.
I hate not using that phrasing because I know I am fallible, but to many normal people, even if you know you can be wrong, you give a confident response.
If there is any chance I could be slightly incorrect I use this phrasing, but this really has meant that some people are more grating to me than others because they will think you arent confident or smart if you show any signs of being able to acknowledge your fallibility
I think acknowledging my fallibility is part of why I got the job I have now, but it's generally part of the interview at my work to throw curve ball questions to see how the candidate handles it.
Like, for example, I had 60 seconds to list as many protocols and associated ports as I could. I got a few (apparently the most of the candidates which is wild), but I prefaced it by telling them my skill set wasn't rote memory recall.
"AS STATED CLEARLY IN THE PREVIOUS EMAIL, f*ck you" My brain, 4 times a week
"Is that right? I had heard an alternate theory..."
You're definitely wrong, and I know more about this than you do.
Typically if I have a working solution in front of me or documentation of being correct I will plainly state it. There's no need to play with words.
"No, in the documentation, it states"
Or "No, I have the solution in front of me this is the process" etc.
I only use it to cover my ass because I’m not sure I’m right
That's funny because when I say those things it usually means "you asked me for an answer so I'm supplying you an answer despite having no personal confidence in my answer. If you act on based on this information alone it's your own damn fault."
IIRC is my way of getting out of citing sources, often because I don't remember exactly what it was, say if I saw it during a nature show on PBS or a segment on SciShow
Sometimes I don't remember if it was AP, Reuters or Mother Jones where I got a fact or a take, but it was someplace I could probably trust. So If I remember right...
Curiously, if I don't trust a source and can't recall who it was, I'll attribute it to vicious rumors or some muckraking rag or but it sounds like something FOX News would put out, so take with salt.
It's also an out for if for whatever reason, I am misremembering and am wrog
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