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I'll try to dial back my time on lemmy because I've noticed that I spend way, way more time here than I ever did back on reddit

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[-] dandelion 12 points 14 hours ago

I spend more time engaging on Lemmy, but I consumed more content on reddit

[-] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 3 points 10 hours ago

No, there's way less stuff to engage with and frankly I don't particularly even like it here.

[-] Forester@pawb.social 55 points 20 hours ago

I ditched read it when they broke the API haven't been back since. I spend the same amount of time that I used to spend on Reddit on here maybe less as there is less content.

[-] Trex202@lemmy.world 21 points 19 hours ago

Less content, but less toxic too

[-] rammer@sopuli.xyz 3 points 14 hours ago

I dunno. Lemmy.ml is pretty toxic too.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 12 hours ago

not as bad as reddit, where every discussion often involves some form of trolling propaganda, that is hard to control.

[-] 30p87@feddit.org 2 points 12 hours ago

Block and move one, luckily most aggregate in one place.

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 20 points 20 hours ago

Same here, I think. I spend less time here, but time spent is of more quality.

[-] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 hours ago

Same here too. I only ever checkit for niche communities and sometimes not even that.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 12 hours ago

quite less actually, since theres less content, plus i blocked alot of people lemmy for obvious trolling, tanking, which lemmy has very little users already. so i just wait til later in the night to acess lemmy. on reddit i was on it every chance i could get.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 11 points 15 hours ago

Less, because there's still a lot less content here. I check what's new on the communities I'm subscribed to, and that doesn't take long.

[-] 30p87@feddit.org 4 points 12 hours ago

Subjectively more, but that could also be due to lemmy having much less content than my doomscrolling needs, so I open it every 5-20 mins and check (also Mastodon). And that feels like much more time than one few-hour session on Reddit.

[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Less time on Lemmy cause there's less to see. I spend more time on other websites now, when previously reddit used to take up all of my web browsing time.

[-] snoons@lemmy.ca 38 points 20 hours ago

Yes, I realized there was/is a lot of rage-bait on reddit that kept me typing. Lemmy is more chill, like it's an actual forum with real people with real engagement.

[-] Bazoogle@lemmy.world 21 points 19 hours ago

Lemmy is 1000x more resly than reddit, but I have found it to be very susceptible to echo chambers. I agree with a lot of the echos in the chamber, and yet I find a lot of people taking nuance out of discussions or believing falsehoods from headlines alone. It's annoying to me, because many if these topics are extreme enough as is, there's no need to hyperbolize. But there is not a lot in the way of difering opinions (when it comes to big topics)

[-] Truscape 1 points 11 hours ago

I try to link to articles or cite something when making bigger statements for that reason. But ofc you can't please everyone.

[-] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 5 points 16 hours ago

I think any place with moderation is going to have an echo chamber. And then ironic thing is a place without moderation also leads to an echo chamber, since people who don't like the vibe leave.

[-] Trex202@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago

Like early Reddit, when we migrated from Digg

[-] VeryVito@lemmy.ml 4 points 18 hours ago

Some of us skipped Digg and came straight from SomethingAwful.

[-] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago

Deleted my reddit account a couple days after discovering Lemmy. I've been to their website a couple times since because it often appears in search results and if I don't see a less shit option I'll dig through the comments of whatever post my search pulled up, but that's the extent of my activity there.

I will never make another reddit account. Fuck spez.

[-] Truscape 10 points 16 hours ago

I actually answer questions and post here unlike when I used RIF, where I just lurked.

I guess that's spending more time? (active participation?)

[-] P00ptart@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

I engaged a lot early on, but later reddit I just lurked because you could say the same one time and drown in upvotes as another in another post and be flooded with hate a vitriol. It got to the point that it was like Twitter. The only safe places were like specific topics, how to, DIY, certain enthusiast pages. It had to be pretty niche to keep from wading in shit.

People were just mad and wanted to take their anger out on someone, even if they almost entirely agree with you, they'd hammer on one sentence of a 4 paragraph post until you just didn't want to argue the point anymore. That occasionally happens here but it's much more rare, and since there aren't karma hunters looking for easy points here you don't get the dog piling that you did there. By the end of my time there, you could make one unpopular sentence in a post and be hounded for it for DAYS.

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

That's my situation as well. Was only a reddit lurker, but I spend more time talking with people here as there's room for me to be heard through the crowd.

People can still doomscroll here if they choose, but my participation here has led to me doing volunteer work and having countless unique experiences. All I got from reddit was a solid coffee setup.

[-] zlatiah@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago

Yes, because I was primarily a lurker while I was on Reddit... Lurked on Lemmy for a year too but not anymore, so I spend more time on here

[-] PrimeMinisterKeyes@leminal.space 3 points 13 hours ago

I spend more time on Lemmy, by far.
The only two subs on Reddit I still visit somewhat frequently for local news are enshittifying fast. The jokes were stale 10 years ago, now they've gone almost fully decomposed. Also, I recently encountered a thread that seemed to be 90% bot traffic, with uncannily mismatched questions and answers.
Not to mention every thread everywhere on Reddit sooner or later will mention Trump, Musk, or American politics and culture in general, making me lose all interest.

[-] Bahnd@lemmy.world 20 points 20 hours ago

Actually less and for a good reason, the doom scroll is not endless.

We have a fraction of the population and a few good posts and discussions on the places I have not blocked. Over all its a lot healthier and I still get my fix of feeling informed-ish. Also Jeboa does not display total votes an account gets meaning there is no "must have X karma to ride" pages that, while attempting to remove bots (it didnt), fills a room with crowd pleasers instead of those seeking discussion or answers.

[-] felsiq@piefed.zip 8 points 17 hours ago

I only ever lurked on reddit and didn’t spend long when I did - I only started commenting (or rarely posting) because I believe in the fediverse and want to help it succeed. So yeah, way more time spent here and infinitely more engagement.

[-] Hyrulian@lemmy.world 12 points 19 hours ago

I spend way less time on here than I did reddit. Not to upset about it though, because I feel like it's only improved my mental health!

[-] Drbreen@sh.itjust.works 13 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I have to admit. Reddit can be handy for finding solutions from other people for problems.

I wish Lemmy was comparable for this purpose. Perhaps someday.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

reddit also recently got pretty bad, because they keep updating thier filters, or restrictions, or evasion detection. new and old users are the most susceptible to bans. and i read recently reddit has been automatically removing posts for no reason at all(but gearing the site to GOP friendly administration), with high rate of frequency without MOD input/or discussion.

[-] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 hours ago

I do feel bad for the few users that have found some niche lemmy communities and asked a genuine question, only to get no replies. If it were in my sphere of knowledge I would answer them.

[-] Truscape 1 points 11 hours ago

I try to join communities that have some of my hobby interests, even if super small, for exactly that reason. It can make someone's day! :)

[-] Truscape 4 points 15 hours ago

Let the people cook - I've learned quite a bit from the technical communities ;)

Yeah, it took Reddit many years to become the treasure trove of information it became. I think Lemmy could get there eventually as various instances build up a larger archive of posts.

[-] cybervseas@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago

I'm far more active on Lemmy, I'd say 10x, than I was on Reddit.

Why is that? I think it's because I feel like the few communities i'm part of here are places for actually sharing and learning from each other, with the same folks that you know you'll see again. Not just random spraying of posts and replies everywhere in numbers so huge that everyone kind of disappears in the ether.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 12 hours ago

i even started to avoid some political posts on reddit before i was summarily suspended permanently, but in any case any comment wouldve gotten drown out by thousands others anyways.

[-] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 4 points 16 hours ago

I use both, but I use stealth for reddit so I'm not logged in. But, I can actually comment on lemmy with third party apps.

[-] QuantumTickle@lemmy.zip 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

I scroll until I see the same posts on other instances, so no. Quite a bit less. Scrolling too deep, no matter the sort method, eventually shows me the same 75-150 cross posts.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 19 hours ago

Nope! Lemmy lacks the dark patterns that kept me scrolling reddit far longer than I meant to.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 12 hours ago

i think its the repeating posts, no new content. reddit is like the drink saturated with sugar so much, you can feel the granules of sugar. while lemmy is "sweetener" level.

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 17 hours ago

Yup. Mostly because reddit was mostly about mmos for me and then pathfinder but im on the fediverse more generally.

[-] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 19 hours ago

I spend a little less on average due to the slower flow of content.

But I spend more time writing somewhat in depth comments and actually interacting with lemmy, I'd wager. Reddit was high volume but outside of my niche mechanics subreddits I wouldn't comment much more than memes and one liners.

[-] JohnWorks@sh.itjust.works 2 points 17 hours ago

I don't comment or vote on reddit anymore. I use them both a similar amount I'd think. If I ever have to do research into a topic though the answer is almost always on reddit.

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 12 hours ago

reddit keeps track of it apparently, downvote, commenting and posting, they try to arbitrarily(through Ai) to see if your a bot, or spamming.

[-] TootSweet@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

I probably spend about the same amount of time here as I did on Reddit.

[-] titanicx@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 hours ago

Way less, because there isn't nearly the amount of content here.

[-] ianhclark510 2 points 20 hours ago

I only ever used Reddit via web, but on Lemmy I have Mlem, which has increased my mobile use a ton

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

I spend about as much time as I did on reddit, but it depends on how the content is day to day.

I still read certain things on reddit when search engines take me there, but that's mainly for niche things that aren't super popular here. Mainly the Gloryhammer and AllTheMods subs tbh.

[-] calliope@retrolemmy.com 2 points 19 hours ago

Same for me! For niche hobbies, Reddit still has a lot of valuable older information. That might change though.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

As I avoid Reddit like the plague? Yeah.

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