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Would prefer it to not be "hair" 'makeup" girlish oriented, but rather something challenging for her mind. I am her Uncle, and would like something maybe aimed at DIY outside of Lego if you know what I mean. Budget is small, maybe 39.99? Can move either way if needed

Advice, much needed as a 36 y/o male with no kids

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[-] runner_g 12 points 2 days ago

Spirograph, Crystal growing kit, search for stem toys for 6 year olds, ask her parents what she's into.

I've been doing stem toys for my niece for a few years and she always loves them. She just turned 9 in August.

[-] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

those crystal growing kits are awesome! I might get myself one for Christmas jijiji

[-] frenchfryenjoyer@lemmings.world 4 points 2 days ago

A microscope

[-] Luffy879@lemmy.ml 10 points 3 days ago

Thinkpad thin client with Gentoo

[-] Johnmannesca@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

You gotta make sure there's that little dot in the middle of the keyboard or else it isn't worth it.

[-] sefra1@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 days ago

Maybe a musical instrument, like those blowing organs or a tiny guitar?

Or a puzzle? Can she read yet? Or will soon, maybe a book?

Does she like chess? Maybe a chess board or similar?

[-] ook@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 3 days ago

If she likes drawing a big set of decent-ish markers could go a long way.

Something like that.

[-] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 39 points 4 days ago

Ask your sibling if it would be ok, to take her out to a museum or something similar.

Or aks them what she currently is into and try and get her something you know she'd love.

[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago

Would be lovely, unfortunately I live a few states away, so I can't don't that this time. I appreciate the thought though

[-] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 8 points 3 days ago

I'd say experiences is still a good answer, its what we ask for when it comes to the kids. They have tons of toys already, they don't need more, and I'm too particular about tech for my.kids for anyone to buy them tech (without it just getting returned).

We go to animal preserves, science centers, art museums, renaissance fairs, etc. Tickets only for the kids, its more like "pick an event/activity" than anything else I guess.

Sometimes we wait for family to visit so they can go too, sometimes we just take lots of pictures.

Aside from that....

  • Rock tumblers are great, but loud, so talk with parents first.
  • There are some great kits out there to learn to sew.
  • There are electronics kits for kids that basically snap together in different arrangements for different circuits
  • Marble kits (where you build different layouts) can be fun
  • Terrariums with guides are always a good option IMO
  • Magnet blocks are also really fun and can be reused a bunch
[-] moakley@lemmy.world 32 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it, because I guess some people just don't get it? But she loved it, and my 6-year-old daughter now loves marble runs too.

My daughter also collects rocks, so a rock tumbler was a big one for her.

Another gift for a niece I got shit for was a drum. She loved it. She was so excited that it was a real instrument. My brother always said he'd get me back, but my daughter got a full-ass drum kit for Christmas, and I think it's great.

Oh, and make your own slime kits are huge right now. It's science-y, DIY, and kids love slime.

[-] Empricorn@feddit.nl 13 points 3 days ago

I once bought my niece a marble run. I got some shit for it

By her parents? Either way, who the hell criticizes a gift to someone else? Especially if the recipient ends up loving it!?

[-] moakley@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

It was good natured. I wasn't offended.

I just think it's funny how some people are all about marble runs and some people just don't get it. No in between. Personally I'm all about marble runs.

[-] AmidFuror@fedia.io 7 points 3 days ago

I mean, the drum was an asshole move.

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[-] Hoimo@ani.social 3 points 2 days ago

I think the problem with the marble run is the constant "rrrrrrr tick-tick rrrrr tick rrrr", but aside from the noise it's a great toy and a core component of any child's toy box. It's also the start of many Rube Goldberg machines running through your living room.

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[-] RestlessNotions@sh.itjust.works 28 points 3 days ago

My 6 year old son absolutely loves the Snap Circuits kits. We've also started teaching him collectable card games (Pokémon, Yu Gi Oh , etc) which challenge his reading and strategy skills. Plus great quality time activity. There are tons of Stem kits out there for less than $40.

[-] 7toed@midwest.social 11 points 3 days ago

Sent me back mentioning those snap circuits lol. Have her build the simple AM radio and watch her mind be blown OP, you won't be disappointed

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[-] moondoggie@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago

She needs a sword. It’s educational.

K'NEX. I used to build all kinds of cool stuff out of those when I was a kid.

[-] Neuromancer49@midwest.social 26 points 4 days ago

I was about that age when I was gifted a microscope. No idea if you can still find them that cheap, though

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 10 points 3 days ago

Microscopes are definitely available in OP's price range.

[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 1 points 2 days ago

I had one as a kid, and LOVED it. It came with a bunch of sample slides, but I always took some small bottles with me on my daily summer bike trips (we were free range back then), and collected samples from swamps, puddles, drainage ditches, etc.

By the time I got to high school, I sailed through science classes, because I already knew how to make slides, and had already seen much of the stuff we were discovering.

[-] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 9 points 4 days ago

Yes, also had a microscope at around that age, even with some sample plates that you could look at, such as a squeezed fly.

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[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 days ago

Board games. Catan junior, Loopin Chewie, Robot turtles, Tsuro, Abracada...What?, camel up.

Regular price

Catan Jr, didn't know that existed I'll have to look into what games are around. I know her Dad taught our parents how to play Settlers of Catan a number of years ago before she was born, so that's something that she may have parents/grandparents to play with. She has a brother that is 2 years younger, so maybe they'll be able to play that together soon enough.

[-] RowdyRaider79@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Ticket to Ride: First Journey and Qwirkle are also good choices for that age range. Qwirkle is great because it's simple but fun for all ages. My kids loved it when they were young and still play it frequently at 16 and 25.

[-] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 25 points 4 days ago

There are also kits for learning about electricity for kids of that age. For making a light switch or making a doorbell buzzer and simple things like that.

Now that sounds amazing, any kits or companies that sell something she may like

[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago

SnapCircuits!

They have a bunch of different kits, there’s like a music one that’ll even let you make a circuit that plays music from a phone.

They are absolutely a WONDERFUL introduction to electricity for a kid.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 7 points 3 days ago

Maybe not in the "smart mind challenging" category but there are plenty of craft kits for your budget: paint canvases by numbers, make your own accessories with clay, bead jewelry, basic engineering kits (build your own robot types), dig your own fossil kits, build-this-or-that-with-LEDlights, gardening kits for kids, etc.

My point is to expand your horizon a bit, it's perfectly fine that you want to cater to her intelligence and not just go for something girly in a cliche sense. But she can also enjoy crafting stuff.

[-] blave@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Is she too young for an Arduino starter kit?

https://store-usa.arduino.cc/products/arduino-starter-kit-multi-language

Edit: the great thing about these is that you can eventually add a raspberry pi to the mix for even more functionality and learning fun!

[-] Waldelfe@feddit.org 1 points 2 days ago

Or a calliope mini, they are geared towards elementary school kids.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.org 9 points 3 days ago

Get a crystal growing kit and grow colourful crystals with her. It's gonna take multiple days and is a great entry to stem-topics.

[-] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 4 points 3 days ago

https://www.smartgames.eu/uk/one-player-games/iq-gears

My boys love this game.

Loads of replay value.

Awesome to also have it to teach others how to play. If she has that teaching spirit, this game is great.

[-] Krudler@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Modeling clay and good quality paints.

Artistic, technical, no real "rules", and a good amount of skill building.

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

There are plenty of brain teaser type toys. Maybe something like Rush Hour or Snap Circuits

Books are always good too. When I was her age I was really into the Magic Treehouse series

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[-] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 3 days ago

I have a couple smart nieces. One of them did want LEGO — she wanted a whole LEGO-themed party. I was the only one who bought her an actual LEGO set, not one of the ones aimed specifically at girls (LEGO and Friends, IIRC). Yeah, guess whose she wanted to actually build — and guess who she recruited for help doing it, while all the other sets sat in boxes (dunno if they were ever opened).

Beyond that, I stuck to the "edutainment" aisle. Science-y stuff. Books are another good option, if you can find a fantasy series with light romance (but nothing erotic, obviously). That's more for older girls though, a six-year-old probably can't read. That being said, audiobooks are a thing, and if they're a tablet kid, an Audible/similar gift code might not be a bad idea. They can do a lot worse for themselves with a tablet than having someone read to them.

Also, crafting stuff. Crochet kit, beads, anything that lets her "make" something.

[-] shneancy@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

to add to the DIY section of your comment - air dry clay, a set of basic clay working tools, and a set of acrylic paints (+ varnish for the acrylics) could be very fun. cheap air dry clay is cheap (i've seen 1kg go for ~$3), a basic set of tools and paints also won't break the bank, and it's absolutely amazing fun!

even with 0 skill you can make nifty things - like minature foods (a blob? potato. cylinder? cucumber. ball? so many options here), simple figurines, animals, accessories for other things, candle holders - bascially, the only limit is your imagination.

though if you do think that'd be a good idea one word of warning - air dry clay is not food safe, any cups, plates, or dishes made with it can only ever be decorational. (the only clay you can eat off is the kind that you need to fire, glaze, and fire again at +900°C)

[-] smh@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 days ago

At about that age, I enjoyed putting together dominos runs and knocking them down. I also liked wooden building blocks. Nowadays they have building made out of dense foam which probably hurt less when your baby brother knocks your tower onto your head.

[-] Todd_cross@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 days ago

My niblings have liked the Kiwico and other sciencey kits I've sent them

[-] hactar42@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 days ago

My kids love the Kiwico boxes. They have different ones designed for different ages. You can buy a single one of get a subscription where they get a new one every month.

[-] abc@feddit.uk 9 points 3 days ago

I looooved K’nex when I was a young girl, would recommend

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[-] pixeltree 3 points 3 days ago

Sudoku book, maybe? If the likes making things, origami paper and an insteuction book? OH, I remember as a kid this toy that was short plastic sticks with magnets at the end and ball bearings ao you would make structures and stuff with em, fun to play with and suits the vibe you're looking for I think.

[-] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

There ar handheld sudoku machines on ebay for like $15. Their quality is likely not great tho.

[-] Sparkles@fedia.io 8 points 3 days ago

Do you know what she likes? I think a lot of “cool” ideas are presented here, however, remember she is still 6, and kids that age learn a lot through unstructured play.

Toys that have multiple ways to play with them, such as craft beading kits and doll houses are stimulating to the brain in more ways, and often preferred by children to circuit building kits, for example. The former is well within your price range, if she is crafty.

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[-] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 6 points 3 days ago

If you want diy that’s not Lego for a 6 yo, I’d go with magnetites. The original brand is best but the knock off brands are good too. Not all brands are compatible, though, so if you plan to get a recurring gift and add to it over time, I’d stick with the magnetile brand.

My 8yo boy loved them at that age. However, they don’t have the staying power of Lego. Why not Lego?

[-] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

Why not Lego?

Probably cost, Lego's really expensive for what you get, sadly.

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[-] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago

Get a world map for her room and an age appropriate atlas.

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